girl sleepin around, not sure how to handle it

[jc2801]

Another one of those 'I'm not with her but I kinda of am' threads....If you guys aren't official you can do one of 2 things:

A) Keep doing what you have been doing with her, and still do your thing on the side as she is doing.
B) Forget about her completely and move on.

If she's just a booty call then thats all she should be. (If she's not your girl she will find someone else since she does have the right to do so).

[seibert253]

Originally Posted by frankenstein

You could always print out the messages, then put them down in front of her. It sounds like she's going to lie once she's confronted. Then yes, calmly tell her to go away and don't let the door hit her fat ass on the way out.

This right here. Then never contact her again. Your not together so, NEXT.

[mcxk]

dman bro move on

[tryout44]

Hey brosef, don't worry about her. Come out to Easton Ave or George Street this Friday night in Rutgers and I will be your wingman! Forget that girl.

[NYPump]

85% ? Sounds more like a 100% to me.

[ElkWoods]

Are you seriously asking this? Shes lying, cut contact. Easy

[brianphi]

Sounds like you have just a relationship based on sex, so you've got two options

1) accept she's going to F other people, take the health risks, use protection and keep F*cking her

2) if it bothers you that you can't have a physical relationship with her monogomously, then move on.


This really has little to do with her, and everything to do with you if you two are not in any sort of formal relationship. I went through this same situation with a girl and I was ok if she F'd other people as long as I was the priority, she was always on my schedule and would re-arrange plans if I wanted to stay the night. For me, that was an ok compromise for someone I enjoyed being with, but never wanted to date. Of course eventually she started getting more attached and didn't like the situation (sounds like you're in her position now)

[SmackMyDerb]

Drop that bitch

[spank_lolz]

yea... while she has every right to sleep with whomever she wants its kinda ****ty for her to just straight up lie about it.

[big stud steve]

my situation is similar, but she didnt **** anyone (long story)


u must get the UPPER HAND

i promise you will not feel complete until you do so

if u dont feel you need to, you will regret it





be careful though, dont say **** like "shes got an STD" or show her nudes off, she will take you to the cleaners and then have the upperhand



if your still looking for ideas on how to get the upper hand then keep posting in here
(I dont feel like devoting a lot of time if this thread is dead)

[big stud steve]

Originally Posted by brianphi

Sounds like you have just a relationship based on sex, so you've got two options

1) accept she's going to F other people, take the health risks, use protection and keep F*cking her

2) if it bothers you that you can't have a physical relationship with her monogomously, then move on.


This really has little to do with her, and everything to do with you if you two are not in any sort of formal relationship. I went through this same situation with a girl and I was ok if she F'd other people as long as I was the priority, she was always on my schedule and would re-arrange plans if I wanted to stay the night. For me, that was an ok compromise for someone I enjoyed being with, but never wanted to date. Of course eventually she started getting more attached and didn't like the situation (sounds like you're in her position now)

lol yeah i have had a few **** buddies, they usually NEVER WORK


the only time it somewhat worked was when i was ****ing this girl for 3-4 months until we just pretty much stopped talking and nothing messy came out of it