One call rule?

[du3ce]

Does anyone use this like me? say u get a girl number and u call her up and u get the voicemail. I always leave them a message and if they dont call back then they dont i drop it and find another girl, no texting, no calling back the second time, no blocked number. I dont have time to be playing stupid ass games.

[Spaghettii]

That's what everyone does.
...At least I hope so.
But it's actually better if you call, and she doesn't pick up. You call again, that's when you leave the msg

[bitty_bish]

Yusssss, this is what everyone should do. You basically state your intent..if it's not returned, move the fuk on.

[Liquid Snake]

I call once and only that.

[rkf456]

i follow that rule

i call her up, leave a voicemail, never call back and let her call me. if she never calls me, i never call back


however with almost all chicks that ignore my one call, 3 weeks later i still have her number in my phone and i end up calling it back during lunchtime because i feel like it. she answers, i talk to her like ive been her friend for 10 years, tell her what ive been doing over the last couple weeks, tell her some funny story about something that happened to me or someone i know, hang up. call her again 3days later set up a lunch date with her just to be friends and talk story then end up banging.


so now i follow the one call rule, but i like to give a second call 3 weeks later to give her one more chance.

[13Zulu]

Originally Posted by du3ce

Does anyone use this like me? say u get a girl number and u call her up and u get the voicemail. I always leave them a message and if they dont call back then they dont i drop it and find another girl, no texting, no calling back the second time, no blocked number. I dont have time to be playing stupid ass games.

Should be made into a law. Mancard law.

[pats55583]

if she sees you've left her more than one voicemail or called her more than one time, you are already dead

[Sonic_Wave]

Call once and if she doesn't answer then leave a message and hope she calls back, but don't keep calling her, it will sound like you are desperate.

[dunkonu9]

She should be calling you.

[SC_FLA]

Maybe y'all can help me out with this;

Last Thursday, I took this girl out to dinner. Everything went really well. We hugged goodbye and she says call me. Saturday afternoon I give her a call. She texted me back 5 min later saying that she was busy right now with her sis' wedding stuff and that she would get in touch later. This was Sat afternoon and I haven't heard from her. Should I call her or just leave it alone. Why would she bother going through all this if she wasn't interested.

[du3ce]

shes prob busy dealing with the wedding and crap give it till tommorow and see whats up

[SC_FLA]

Makes sense, but how hard is it to call someone. She could've easily just texted that she wasn't interested and itd be all good...we'll see I suppose

[du3ce]

shes a girl they like to play these games,

[Tech2TheLimit]

If she's interested she will call the day of or next day at latest. If not I leave the number in my phone for a week to see if she calls, if she doesn't I just delete it and move on. Once a girl ended up calling me weeks later. I actually told her about how I deleted her from my phone and everything, she seemed pissed but we ended up going out later that week

[Mr.Moneys]

Originally Posted by du3ce

Does anyone use this like me? say u get a girl number and u call her up and u get the voicemail. I always leave them a message and if they dont call back then they dont i drop it and find another girl, no texting, no calling back the second time, no blocked number. I dont have time to be playing stupid ass games.

Yes I go by this, 1 call, no voicemall though, normally I dont even call, just a text. Dont ever text more than 1 time or call. /thread

[cheerupemokid]

Originally Posted by du3ce

Does anyone use this like me? say u get a girl number and u call her up and u get the voicemail. I always leave them a message and if they dont call back then they dont i drop it and find another girl, no texting, no calling back the second time, no blocked number. I dont have time to be playing stupid ass games.

Personally, I don't leave messages anymore.

I don't like having my voice recorded and it's harder to control how you come across when you're not actually communicating with anyone.

Also, because of caller ID; in my experience, girls are more likely to call you back curious about who you are when you call and don't leave a message.

[jks08]

i send one text.. if it goes unanswered i never text them again

[du3ce]

i created this thread cause this really bought me to my boiling point; i got this chicks number and i call her didnt text, i get her voicemail; heres her actual message "hi this is blah blah, im not here right now so leave me a message and if youre lucky maybe ill call back". The nerve of the bitch.

[bitty_bish]

Originally Posted by du3ce

"hi this is blah blah, im not here right now so leave me a message and if youre lucky maybe ill call back". The nerve of the bitch.

I wouldn't waste my time on a guy that was like this. I'd laugh at the message. Such a turn off.

[210RobinHood]

Originally Posted by SC_FLA

Maybe y'all can help me out with this;

Last Thursday, I took this girl out to dinner. Everything went really well. We hugged goodbye and she says call me. Saturday afternoon I give her a call. She texted me back 5 min later saying that she was busy right now with her sis' wedding stuff and that she would get in touch later. This was Sat afternoon and I haven't heard from her. Should I call her or just leave it alone. Why would she bother going through all this if she wasn't interested.

Give it a couple more days then turn this around on her. Text her something like "Hey I've been super busy. Maybe later this week we can get some drinks. I'll let you know when I get a free night."

She'll be like... "wut?"

[Gemini80]

they may not be playing games...I think two calls, not back to back though, would be okay. if I gave a guy my number id like him to call. But for whatever reason if I didnt get back to him, I would think it was sweet he was still thinking of me a few days later, and honestly would probably want to talk to him even more so, thinking he didn't just want to call me one time and hook up. Im kinda shy though, so If I were dating, id probably wait to see if he'd call me one more time before calling back, or answering the phone..just till I worked up enough nerve. Just my .2 though!

Originally Posted by du3ce

Does anyone use this like me? say u get a girl number and u call her up and u get the voicemail. I always leave them a message and if they dont call back then they dont i drop it and find another girl, no texting, no calling back the second time, no blocked number. I dont have time to be playing stupid ass games.

[KennyK]

twice

[du3ce]

she texted me back late tonight saying she was busy and couldnt call me back and ask me to call her tommorow. I know this girl is def playin some games gathered from the voicemail i got and all this crap. What witty text reply should i text her back with? will rep*

[rkf456]

Originally Posted by du3ce

she texted me back late tonight saying she was busy and couldnt call me back and ask me to call her tommorow. I know this girl is def playin some games gathered from the voicemail i got and all this crap. What witty text reply should i text her back with? will rep*

anything you txt back would be a lose for you

the best thing to txt is nothing at all. she will be waiting for that txt all day and it will never come

best option for you

[du3ce]

yeah youre prob right

[rkf456]

Originally Posted by du3ce

yeah youre prob right

i have a lot of experience in this

i have learned that not calling or txting is a lot of the time the best communication you can send. most guys will call or txt a few times, she ignores it, and bam you are just like every other guy


if you dont send her that reply txt she is waiting for, she will keep waiting for it, and she wont stop waiting for it, it will be on her mind for a long time. you just did what other guys failed to do by making her think about you.

with plenty of women i have not called for like 5 weeks after she ignores my first 1 - 2 calls and i get laid and im pretty sure if i kept calling i would have just been ignored

not saying you should ignore for 6 weeks but ive done things like that and seen it work a lot

[rkf456]

Originally Posted by du3ce

she texted me back late tonight saying she was busy and couldnt call me back and ask me to call her tommorow. I know this girl is def playin some games gathered from the voicemail i got and all this crap. What witty text reply should i text her back with? will rep*

another point
most girls never txt a guy a message like this if they dont wanna bang

"call me back tomorrow, sorry i missed your call"

if she txted you that she wants to bang. the only other times girls txt that to guys is if the guy is a good friend and she wants to talk to him or if its business related or soemthing

i have had many girls reply to my txts with random crap, ignore it, etc

never have i ever had a girl txting me stuff like "call me tomorrow because i was busy today" when she wasnt interested in my dick. girls are so used to guys trying to contact them without saying anything, so it seems like when a girl tells a guy to contact her she would never tell him to do that unless she really wanted his attention.

girls dont ever really "want" or ask for a males attention unless she wants to bang him. imo



but i forget to add, girls very easily can switch between wanting to bang and wanting to ignore you. right now she thinks of you as a guy she wants to bang but one wrong word or action will make her not interested

[SFreppinitbig]

Originally Posted by rkf456

another point
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but i forget to add, girls very easily can switch between wanting to bang and wanting to ignore you. right now she thinks of you as a guy she wants to bang but one wrong word or action will make her not interested

Happend to me, I learned from it now though.

[du3ce]

makes sense and repped

[rimmer73]

You don't want to look like that guy in swingers. Where he leaves like 20 messages on her voice mail. That was painful to watch.