If your wife got a leg amputated or something, would you stay with her - Page 4

Dr. Painburner · 06-16-2009, 09:43 AM

i dont have a wife, but if i ever got married and that happend, of course i would stay with her. id stay with her through anything, if not, why get married. and i meant anything besides her being a cheating whore that is.

RekaW · 06-16-2009, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Ilikebubblebutt

so if you are no longer sexually attracted to your wife you should stay with her.

Yes.
After your wife turns 60, has had 2 or 3 or more babies, a huge wrinkled rotundus arse, and tits like a pair of football socks with some sand in the bottom, would you leave?

Ask your grandpa if he still finds your grandmother attractive.
If I asked mine, he would regurgitate at the thought of my grandmother spreadeagled on the bed with her meat hanging out, but he wouldn't leave her. No way.

Marriage is different to all the sluts that you pick up when you're young.

I actually respect my wedding vows for what they are. Vows.

MAGnitude · 06-16-2009, 10:08 AM

yep i would stay with her, even if her clit got stung by a bee.

srs, i would stay no matter what happen to her, be supportive all the way

nev3r · 06-16-2009, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by The_Best_Day

true love? my ass. first off there is no such thing as true love.

but thats besides the point. if you don't find your mate attractive anymore, the relationship is doomed. marriage or not, there is no point to stay with your wife if you don't find her sexually attractive anymore and you're miserable.

This.

This question obviously reduces to: Would you find an amputee attractive?

My personal answer: Probably yes. Rwarrrr. (srs)

And if the answer is no: Would you accept an unhappy and miserable life because of your morals?

Personal answer: Eh, probably... dunno. Hard to say really.

hellagrant · 06-16-2009, 10:11 AM

Terrible question and some terrible replies. You shouldnt leave your wife because of some horrific accident that makes her dis-figured. Reverse the roles and think about it. You get your leg amputated and your wife leaves, how would you feel?

1972girl · 06-16-2009, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Ilikebubblebutt

Ohhh so we should do what YOU would do, ok that clears that up.

We should all have alterior motives and morals to do whatever is generally believed to be right.

Its better to give than to recieve and better to sacrifice than to do whatever in ones own interest and benefit.

Im glad you think this way as it will make a perfect match for todays "get all that u can" woman.

The fact of the matter is neither you nor i can say for sure how we would behave in this situation unless we'd experienced it... you dickhead

Edit: as far as marriage vows go... people change. Those vows should be subject to change depending on the situation not a binding contract to stay together "no matter what, for better or worse" the institution of marriage is bull****

Yes you should do the same thing as him. I dont think you get the point of marriage. Sure things can change down the road and nothing is for sure but if you dont feel like you would stay with your wife no matter what(not counting cheating) then you should not be getting married to her. No one makes you get get married and you can be with someone your whole life and not get married.

1stindoor · 06-16-2009, 10:21 AM

I must say I'm impressed at all of the truly well thought out responses to the OPs question. The fact that it is even questioned makes me believe he is very immature and not married. Let me go ahead and kill this thread though...

Before my first wife passed away after an 18 month battle with breast cancer, I was doing everything for her in the bathroom that you would normally think of doing yourself...yes everything. She was just as beautiful with no hair and one breast as she was the day I married her.

Ecnewyx · 06-16-2009, 10:21 AM

Yes, would stay.

First, I'm assuming that one leg means she can still walk around on a prosthetic, etc., so it's not like I'm pushing her in a chair for the rest of my life. (Not that it would change my answer if it wasn't.)

Second, when it comes to all the reasons you married a woman, physical attractiveness is important but it's not above who she is as a person, how she acts/treats people and you, how she cooks (threw that in there for the misc), how she thinks, etc.

Third, she's not disfigured. She still looks the same... and while I agree that a relationship in which you're no longer attracted to your partner isn't going to work... I have a hard time with the idea that you'd stop being attracted to someone just because they lost a leg. Especially given the history you two would have together.

Ecnewyx · 06-16-2009, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by mophatthedamaja

you shouldn't be married if you don't figure you'll always be sexually attracted to her, i would still crush my my wife daily if she was 250 pounds, but she would never let herself get to that point, that's her personality...but in 10 years if she's a fatty, i'll pour brownie batter on my cawk and let her demolish it i was prepared for that when i stood on the altar..most people don't evaluate life that way

I'd actually be less likely to stay with a woman who intentionally lets herself get to that point because it shows a lack of respect towards you, and your marriage. :P

RekaW · 06-16-2009, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Ilikebubblebutt

Ohhh so we should do what YOU would do, ok that clears that up.

We should all have alterior motives and morals to do whatever is generally believed to be right.

Its better to give than to recieve and better to sacrifice than to do whatever in ones own interest and benefit.

Im glad you think this way as it will make a perfect match for todays "get all that u can" woman.

The fact of the matter is neither you nor i can say for sure how we would behave in this situation unless we'd experienced it... you dickhead

Edit: as far as marriage vows go... people change. Those vows should be subject to change depending on the situation not a binding contract to stay together "no matter what, for better or worse" the institution of marriage is bull****

Am I forcing you to believe what I choose to believe? No. I was replying to your dumb ass hypothetical.
I'm having trouble understanding your post as it is.... And I know exactly how I'd "behave" in that situation. Just as I know that I'll never be unfaithful to my wife.

I never disagreed with divorce, or anything like that. Marriages end, and that's normal.
But never due to the fact she's lost a limb, or had her gash sewn shut.

If you want your "vagina" question answered, ask an old person who's been married a long time.

Those vows are not a contract, nor are they binding. They are a promise you make to yourself and to the person you marry.

**** it, I can't be bothered trying to explain it to you any further.
Your morals are as shallow as your post content.

1972girl · 06-16-2009, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Ilikebubblebutt

are you missing the point that i'm against marriage for those reasons you retard. marriage obviously doesn't work because its in peoples nature to change. what ever is vowed at present may change down the line that's why marriage doesn't work.

Then why did you not just say " I dont belive in marriage and would not do it" I dont belive anyone said you had to get married and the OP was asking IF YOU WERE MARRIED. And negg for the retard comment, just because you disagree with someone you should not act like a baby.

djwolford · 06-16-2009, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Ilikebubblebutt

are you missing the point that i'm against marriage for those reasons you retard. marriage obviously doesn't work because its in peoples nature to change. what ever is vowed at present may change down the line that's why marriage doesn't work.

Look marriage has worked for a long time for people who are mature enough to see it for what it is. Just because your average person can't understand what a lifelong commitment is these days doesn't mean that marriage itself is a flawed idea.

MajorCajones · 06-16-2009, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by dragongly

But how many women would stick by you if it was the other way round, very few imo.

two wrongs dont make a right

not many woman would stick by you if it were the other way around, which is why you dont go around marrying people all willy nilly....u find the right one

thegenerel · 06-16-2009, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Ilikebubblebutt

Ohhh so we should do what YOU would do, ok that clears that up.

We should all have alterior motives and morals to do whatever is generally believed to be right.

Its better to give than to recieve and better to sacrifice than to do whatever in ones own interest and benefit.

Im glad you think this way as it will make a perfect match for todays "get all that u can" woman.

The fact of the matter is neither you nor i can say for sure how we would behave in this situation unless we'd experienced it... you dickhead

Edit: as far as marriage vows go... people change. Those vows should be subject to change depending on the situation not a binding contract to stay together "no matter what, for better or worse" the institution of marriage is bull****

what a clown, you have zero clue about life.

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Originally Posted by 1stindoor

I must say I'm impressed at all of the truly well thought out responses to the OPs question. The fact that it is even questioned makes me believe he is very immature and not married. Let me go ahead and kill this thread though...

Before my first wife passed away after an 18 month battle with breast cancer, I was doing everything for her in the bathroom that you would normally think of doing yourself...yes everything. She was just as beautiful with no hair and one breast as she was the day I married her.

**applauds**

what you did was incredibly difficult and i respect that. a lesser man would give up/quit/avoid the situation altogether. a true scumbag would start looking outside of his marriage.

Felonist · 06-16-2009, 10:37 AM

Scissor position sex is pretty good with 1 leg out of the way... Just sayin.......

I love my wife - I have been with prettier woman.. and have seen prettier woman - 7 years anniversary coming up - She's still beautiful - but its not all about looks anymore....

Would I marry a girl with 1 leg - highly unlikely , if G-d so chooses to enlighten our path in life and test us with this difficulty - It will not change how I feel about her or would not change anything in my life.

Kinda reminds me of that movie "im gonna get you sucka" with the prostitute scene..... could be fun

debrovnik · 06-16-2009, 10:39 AM

OP negged.

mophatthedamaja · 06-16-2009, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Ecnewyx

I'd actually be less likely to stay with a woman who intentionally lets herself get to that point because it shows a lack of respect towards you, and your marriage. :P

lulz...that's why i got to know her very well before i walked down the aisle and i paid attention to the mother, who lifts six times a week and banished fast food from their house at an early age...priorities brah..priorities

Ironbru · 06-16-2009, 10:53 AM

Seems like there are quite a few relationship minded guys on this board, despite all the bravado about hitting it and quitting it. There's no question about this one for me. If I was married and it happened to my wife I would stay with her. It's hardly a big thing. If I find real love again, there's no way I'm throwing it away for shallow reasons like that.