Friends with benefits (serious) anyone had one

[cannondale.]

Originally Posted by Dre2010

can I give you that business shawty?

I'll pass on that "business" for now .

Originally Posted by artm

all she want us to be is "friends with benefits"" i wanted something more but i'm fine with that

Then what you do from here is simple. If you saw/knew she was hooking up with another guy, do you think you will be OK with it (or OK to the point that you won't feel incredibly hurt, ect). If you'll be able to handle that, then go ahead and continue being FWBs with her. If you won't be OK with it then you need to stop this now.

[Dre2010]

Originally Posted by cannondale.

I'll pass on that "business" for now .

well we'll see bout later, there's always time, but then again, there's no better time than now

and OP I really think you're in the clear with this one, just let it play out. that's the whole point of having a FB or FWB is the fact that you're not supposed to have to think about it, it's all just for fun. Be easy bro, and everything's gonna be all good. You never know it might turn into something deeper between you guys, or you'll just have mutual bootycall.

its a win win situation. *cough* cannondale *cough*

[artm]

Originally Posted by cannondale.

I'll pass on that "business" for now .



Then what you do from here is simple. If you saw/knew she was hooking up with another guy, do you think you will be OK with it (or OK to the point that you won't feel incredibly hurt, ect). If you'll be able to handle that, then go ahead and continue being FWBs with her. If you won't be OK with it then you need to stop this now.

It will be pissing me off because she will be fuking with other guys but i will get over it.
I wanted to hook up with a cousin of girl i'm talking about it never worked out and were good friends now.

Originally Posted by Dre2010

well we'll see bout later, there's always time, but then again, there's no better time than now

and OP I really think you're in the clear with this one, just let it play out. that's the whole point of having a FB or FWB is the fact that you're not supposed to have to think about it, it's all just for fun. Be easy bro, and everything's gonna be all good. You never know it might turn into something deeper between you guys, or you'll just have mutual bootycall.

its a win win situation. *cough* cannondale *cough*

Ok one more simple question, do i call her text her blah blah blah or do i wait for her???
i called one of the girls she always hangs out with and they said they are going to a guy friends house. I'm like ok what you doing after that she said well i'm going home and so is other girl. I'm like what about XXXX they said shes pissed because of school. SO i'm like ok suck balls and tell them to suck balls as well lol (yes i did say that)

[b7acknwh1t3]

I think that if you keep the amount of time the two of you spending together limited, then you are far less likely to develop feelings for her (or her for you). so just see her when you want some action man

[artm]

Originally Posted by b7acknwh1t3

I think that if you keep the amount of time the two of you spending together limited, then you are far less likely to develop feelings for her (or her for you). so just see her when you want some action man

kk broski
but the thing is i want to fuk 24/7 lol

[b7acknwh1t3]

Originally Posted by artm

kk broski
but the thing is i want to fuk 24/7 lol

well damn then you have 1 or to routes. 1. Fuk her 24/7 and risk feelings being developed. or 2. find another girl that you can be fukbuddies with and just keep 'em on rotation man

[artm]

Originally Posted by b7acknwh1t3

well damn then you have 1 or to routes. 1. Fuk her 24/7 and risk feelings being developed. or 2. find another girl that you can be fukbuddies with and just keep 'em on rotation man

that is not easy most of the biotches i know are stuck up biotches or have boyfriends lol

i need to go clubbing more often
i have my sisters wedding i will try to fuk one of the bride mates that will be in pair with me biotch is fuking hot

[b7acknwh1t3]

Originally Posted by artm

that is not easy most of the biotches i know are stuck up biotches or have boyfriends lol

i need to go clubbing more often
i have my sisters wedding i will try to fuk one of the bride mates that will be in pair with me biotch is fuking hot

do work son

[Patrice_Lumumba]

I have a friend with benefits atm. I think she wants more, but atm we sex and hang out but don't have any of the tied down bull**** of a relationship, we can go off and fuk other people.

[artm]

Originally Posted by b7acknwh1t3

do work son

son broski looking at your pic you look younger then me

no offense

just sayin

[Dre2010]

Originally Posted by artm

kk broski
but the thing is i want to fuk 24/7 lol

If you have the whole thing established between you she (should) know how much you want sex. My current fb hits me up all the time (usually every other day or every 3 days) cause she knows I want some pootang, and she's a nympho also. You just have to play it out, keep almost everything between you guys either sexual, crude, fun, or carefree. Never make it seem like you're worried, caring, or even there for her, unless she comes to YOU looking for that.

also when you decide to call, you plan to fuk. It sounds weird, but that's how it works, ask her if she wants to meet up, come over, you pick her up, w/e. You don't call to see what's she doing, you call to get some, that's what she wants and looks for, and you should too.

[artm]

Originally Posted by Dre2010

If you have the whole thing established between you she (should) know how much you want sex. My current fb hits me up all the time (usually every other day or every 3 days) cause she knows I want some pootang, and she's a nympho also. You just have to play it out, keep almost everything between you guys either sexual, crude, fun, or carefree. Never make it seem like you're worried, caring, or even there for her, unless she comes to YOU looking for that.

also when you decide to call, you plan to fuk. It sounds weird, but that's how it works, ask her if she wants to meet up, come over, you pick her up, w/e. You don't call to see what's she doing, you call to get some, that's what she wants and looks for, and you should too.

ok broski i;m not calling her today to ask for her school bull****, she will probably text me though if not fuk it

I will call her arse tomorrow to hang out and do a little session of phuking (i will try atleast)

[b7acknwh1t3]

Originally Posted by artm

son broski looking at your pic you look younger then me

no offense

just sayin

in the misc we're all broskis/sons

[artm]

Originally Posted by b7acknwh1t3

in the misc we're all broskis/sons

true true

[Sach]

Originally Posted by punchdance

In order for FWB to work out, both people involved need to be mature and they can't be clingy or emotional or have genuine feelings for one another.

I had one of those for a few months and it worked out pretty well, minus the fact that he wasn't very attractive nor was he good at what he did.


Still though, it is possible.

wtf?

[artm]

UPDATE:::::::


**** did not workout fffffffffffffffuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu uuuu

[parsnip1965]

Not really. I was in an open relationship once. Different deal. She was my girl, I was her guy, but we "saw" other people. FWB sounds like fun (I have SO many attractive women friends) but haven't had the pleasure, and now that I'm married, I won't.

People keep thinking up new relationship structures and I like the sound of this one.

[Irezumi]

Yup. And lost 2 great friends doing so. No matter what chicks tell you in the begining, they will always get feelings. Before I even had sex I layed it all out on the line. This is NOT going any further than sex. There will NOT be any relationship that comes out of this. And of course they are ok with the idea at first then they start with the whole gf act of why you can't make time for them or why is it always about sex. Doesn't happen with older females though. They're the ones that usually tell you to GTFO after they get theirs.

[artm]

the thing was a failure

i didnt get to fuk her she did not want to
i said i either get all the fuking benefits or none