Caught GF in a lie, how to approach?

[JuicintheJuice]

repped. That was probably the first thread that I have read in this section where the OP did exactly what they had to do with no hesitation. I've been reading this section for over a year lol.

[leftclaw]

Originally Posted by LeftNut

No offence but...

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=116622391

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=1319371

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=116021471

suggests things weren't that "perfect" in the first place.

Good job though, now go find yourself a decent chick.

O hai there.

[NYY]

Originally Posted by JuicintheJuice

repped. That was probably the first thread that I have read in this section where the OP did exactly what they had to do with no hesitation. I've been reading this section for over a year lol.

I've been here for a bit longer and this may be the 3rd or 4th time that a thread delivers like this.

[Vermillion]

Originally Posted by leftclaw

O hai there.

lmao

btw, good job OP. for standing up for yourself.

[Junkie2]

very surprised with outcome after i wokeup

i must say i have proud of the OP. repped

[kmk25II45]

Good job bro! Repped.


By the way, she almost certainly f*cked him or at least made out with him like crazy. I hope you go out and get some good pussy to help you get over this bitch.

[poloboy406]

Alright bro...here's what you do next... and before any of you flame me...read the entire f***ing post.

Call her up and tell her you want to see her and try to work things out. When you see her try to get all lovey dovey on her and tell her that she is the girl for you. Try to initiate the make up sex and when you are doing it, try to get your nut off as fast as you can. Pull out, blow it on her face, then get up and tell her you've worked things out and walk away and don't talk to her again.

[janky]

Originally Posted by Superdude87

Maybe I'm overreacting, I don't think I am. So I made a thread a few days ago about how my GF of 7 months has been texting her ex-BF almost non-stop for the past week. I've confronted her a few times, telling her it's ****ed up yet she continues to do it. So last night after she got off work, she called me and told me she was going out with a few friends from work. In the 7 months we've dated, she's NEVER gone out with friends from work. In fact, she has straight up told me that she likes to keep her personal life separate from work and there is MAYBE only one person from work she could see herself being friends with.

So I played it cool, obviously anticipating that this whole "going out with friends from work" was a cover up for her going to her ex The thing is, up until this last week she has been trustworthy and things have been great, she's never given me any reason to worry. So I had this on my mind going to sleep last night, and woke up in the middle of the night waiting for her text that she had made it home safe. NOTHING. It was 5am, couldn't sleep, thinking about her and what the **** she was doing so I drove over to her place just to see if she was home. Nope. Car was gone. Ok, so this MIGHT have been slightly stalker of me, but when there is cheating being question I feel like I had a right to know.

So she texts me this morning and I played it cool, but tried to get some information out of her: where she went, how late she was out, when she got home, etc...According to her, she got home about 1:30am. WRONG. I was in front of her ****ing apartment at 5:30 and her car wasn't there, in fact it wasn't anywhere in the entire complex (tiny complex maybe 50 cars).

So even if she DIDN'T see her ex and was actually out with friends, she lied to me, obviously wanting to hide SOMETHING from me.

What's the next step? Tell her I spied? How do I approach this? Thanks

edit: just read more.. god damnit lol


Good job thomas man. Thumbs up for you.

[NYY]

Originally Posted by poloboy406

Alright bro...here's what you do next... and before any of you flame me...read the entire f***ing post.

Call her up and tell her you want to see her and try to work things out. When you see her try to get all lovey dovey on her and tell her that she is the girl for you. Try to initiate the make up sex and when you are doing it, try to get your nut off as fast as you can. Pull out, blow it on her face, then get up and tell her you've worked things out and walk away and don't talk to her again.

Fuk that. The OP handled the situation perfectly. Nothing else needs to be done, the Op should keep his eyes forward.

[PosterBoyz28]

good job OP, move on and dont respond to any text/phone calls from her

[illbleed]

You don't trust her dude and you never will. Whether she cheated or not, you got to end this

[Errorist]

Originally Posted by poloboy406

Alright bro...here's what you do next... and before any of you flame me...read the entire f***ing post.

Call her up and tell her you want to see her and try to work things out. When you see her try to get all lovey dovey on her and tell her that she is the girl for you. Try to initiate the make up sex and when you are doing it, try to get your nut off as fast as you can. Pull out, blow it on her face, then get up and tell her you've worked things out and walk away and don't talk to her again.

So he can lower himself to her level?

It's over. OP already won. Nothing else needs to be done.

[Kilorai]

This is how everyone should be..op your a genius with your detective skills and your master trickery. LOL


Now update with her pathetic txts and attempts at getting you backk

I seriously would love to see her put down more i hate skanks like that


propss to opppppp

[rampagefc77]

As others have said, remain strong. Her attempts to get you back with "I know you are the one for me" and "i miss you so much, i love you" bull**** should just make laugh at this point. You've gone through it before, you know the outcome if you get suckered in. While it sucks, you'll find a girl that will not pull this bs on you.