She's bringing her friends along on the date...

-=E=- · 07-25-2008, 10:10 PM

So this 29y/o chick that I met when dealing with some real-estate stuff called me up today to go grab a couple of beers. She also said she's bringing a couple of her girl friend"S" along with her...

Honestly I'm hanging out with her tomorrow because my hiking plans got canceled and she seems nice, down to earth and somewhat attractive but I'm so-so about meeting her. The whole bringing friends along is cool too but It's been a while since I've been in a "group" situation like this where I wasn't already acquainted with the other parties.

Misc. discuss and spew your wise advice on this situation. The Dos and Don'ts basically...

-=E=- · 07-25-2008, 10:13 PM

P.S. it's totally funny how the thing between us happened. So we were talking business and totally serious the first time we met, and my eyes as I was talking trail off to her cleavage totally unconsciously and I suddenly jolt back realizing what I'm doing... She just smiled... it was quite funny.

musclebound2007 · 07-25-2008, 10:13 PM

Why go hang out with a chick, when she's bringing her friends? That seems for an awkward situation. They ending up talking amongst themselves, laughing and giggling as females like to do.

Not sure if I would want to do it, unless I decided to bring some friends along also. To balance it off a bit and for those awkward moments.

-=E=- · 07-25-2008, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by musclebound2007

Why go hang out with a chick, when she's bringing her friends? That seems for an awkward situation. They ending up talking amongst themselves, laughing and giggling as females like to do.

Not sure if I would want to do it, unless I decided to bring some friends along also. To balance it off a bit and for those awkward moments.

I had no idea.... I agreed to go and left a message... When she called me back which I missed the call she left a message & said she's brining her friends... Not sure if I wanna back out now...

And I'm not sure I wanna bring friends cause I hangout with a bunch of *******s for going on weekend outings. I am pretty sure they'll try to game her friends Haha and potentially complicate things...

musclebound2007 · 07-25-2008, 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by -=E=-

I had no idea.... I agreed to go and left a message... When she called me back which I missed the call she said she's brining her friends... Not sure if I wanna back out now...

And I'm not sure I wanna bring friends cause I hangout with a bunch of *******s. I am pretty sure they'll try to game her friends Haha and potentially complicate things...

Well if you can handle being around a stranger, and then the stranger's friends. Then sure, why not. I don't know how that will go about, but I don't think I can enjoy so many females, that I don't know and haven't gotten acquainted with, hanging out at the same time. Unless they are chicks I know, it's going to be hard to communicate with so many females and then be focused on the main chick. Unless they get distracted and leave her with you, which I doubt. They are going to be scoping you for sure.

laserjetx · 07-25-2008, 10:29 PM

man honeslty just let her bring the friends. probly just **** i dont even no dont neg i drank a few to many ahh stop me now.

-=E=- · 07-25-2008, 10:32 PM

Yea... it's gonna be a scope fest.. I asked a couple of buddies just now to see if they would come along... I did warn them that the friends could be fugly

laserjetx · 07-25-2008, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by -=E=-

Yea... it's gonna be a scope fest.. I asked a couple of buddies just now to see if they would come along... I did warn them that the friends could be fugly

lol atta boy thats what im talking about, u seem like a good gude warning his buddys avout that. props to that.

-=E=- · 07-25-2008, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by laserjetx

lol atta boy thats what im talking about, u seem like a good gude warning his buddys avout that. props to that.

I think you should go easy on the boos bro. At least until you're 20ish. Your brain is still physically changing and growing into an adult brain. Don't **** it up too early

laserjetx · 07-25-2008, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by -=E=-

I think you should go easy on the boos bro. At least until you're 20ish. Your brain is still physically changing and growing into an adult brain. Don't **** it up too early

lol thanks man i appriciate the concern. i diddnt overdoo it i was going to make a thread about what i remeber about the night but nah. srsly im good and its not a every day things as im aware its not good for my body and lifestlyle. thanks again tho man means alot

strong_penor · 07-26-2008, 12:01 AM

Pull out your dick and close your eyes until one of them bites.

More girls = better chances

TMaG82 · 07-26-2008, 08:45 AM

I've had that happen before. Went to pickup a girl, she brought her friend along. Never told me that she was coming with us, just very awkward. Ended up doing everything that I planned on doing I ended up doing with two girls. Lunch for 3, movies for 3, etc. Would've been a total waste if I totally struck out.

CHOOSE · 07-26-2008, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by TMaG82

I've had that happen before. Went to pickup a girl, she brought her friend along. Never told me that she was coming with us, just very awkward. Ended up doing everything that I planned on doing I ended up doing with two girls. Lunch for 3, movies for 3, etc. Would've been a total waste if I totally struck out.

secks?

strong_penor · 07-26-2008, 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by CHOOSE

buttsecks?

fixed

Augnon · 07-26-2008, 12:00 PM

If shes bringing her friends is it really still a "date"?

-=E=- · 07-26-2008, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Augnon

If shes bringing her friends is it really still a "date"?

... you should've listened to her "I'm being sexy and totally seductive" voice on the phone... The outing may not be a date... but the intentions are not platonic in nature

Harrock · 07-26-2008, 01:32 PM

Dude just sit back and chill. Let them talk and do everything, you just hang and be cool.

I can't see too many bad things happening if you just play it cool and don't come off as wierd.

you look like you are pretty well built (no homo blah blah) so she probobly thinks you are hot, make her work for it.

Sounds Good · 07-26-2008, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by -=E=-

... you should've listened to her "I'm being sexy and totally seductive" voice on the phone... The outing may not be a date... but the intentions are not platonic in nature

are any intentions ever platonic?

eightduece · 07-26-2008, 01:39 PM

shes a closet freak, they all want the pen0r and are all gonna go down on you. so no worries

slacombe · 07-26-2008, 02:01 PM

May i suggest something?

1: Stay away from male-female-relationships topics.

You're gonna be the only man with a bunch of girls. No broski to back you up if they start talking about how men are like this and that. If they do, casually try to change the subject and if you can't do that, try to give generic and vague answers and don't feed the trolls.

2: Women love challenges, be one.

By bringing her friends, she's actually taking a big risk (you might prefer one of her friends, instead of her), but don't be glued to her, meddle in the conversation, ask for clarification on stuff that you're not aware. She'll notice you getting along well with her friends and that will be a huge plus.

3: Treat the bartender/barmaid/waiter like royalty.

Trust me, she and they will notice that. Be very polite and smile to them. Huge points to be earned there. I went on a date once, ordered a coffee at the counter (starbucks), the girl at the cash was completely new and she didnt knew how to process our order, so she started to be very nervous and all stressed out, so i said "hey... relax, don't worry we're not in a hurry, it's only coffees."

She laughed nervously, said thanks. You should have seen the look on the date's face. Jaw on the floor. I scored big time with that move.

That's pretty much it.

Harrock · 07-26-2008, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by slacombe

May i suggest something?

3: Treat the bartender/barmaid/waiter like royalty.

Trust me, she and they will notice that. Be very polite and smile to them. Huge points to be earned there. I went on a date once, ordered a coffee at the counter (starbucks), the girl at the cash was completely new and she didnt knew how to process our order, so she started to be very nervous and all stressed out, so i said "hey... relax, don't worry we're not in a hurry, it's only coffees."

She laughed nervously, said thanks. You should have seen the look on the date's face. Jaw on the floor. I scored big time with that move.

That's pretty much it.

This is actually smart, reps

nitr0x2 · 07-26-2008, 02:46 PM

Whats the problem? I know thats not an ideal situation, but consider this

1.) If you back down now, you'll look like a pussy , and she'll know its because she said she wants to bring her friends. This will make you seem uncomfortable in social situations and you will appear intimidated by them

2.) She might just be bringing them to get an opinion of you, again, this isnt the ideal situation to be in, but use it to your advantage. Make a good impression on all of them. Win her friends, then you will win her heart.

3.) You mentioned you just met her, maybe she is scared of meeting new men and is concerned for her safety. With all the murders/rapes going on in todays world a woman can never be too cautious. Again, if you cancel now, you could come off as potentially creepy

Augnon · 07-26-2008, 03:27 PM

This is the 1st type of thread like this,I've seen.I think alot of solid advice will come from it.

Jmh80 · 07-26-2008, 06:00 PM

^^LOL

She's bringing the friends to scope you out so they can give her their opinion of you. I wouldn't neglect the friends in conversation.

Just have fun with it, bro. Sounds like a good situation.

SaviorSix · 07-26-2008, 07:19 PM

One of them will be sympathetic to your cause, one of them will be indifferent, and one of them will directly challenge you. The girl you are interested in will be probably see how you react. Good luck

RemainDieHard · 07-26-2008, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by slacombe

May i suggest something?

1: Stay away from male-female-relationships topics.

You're gonna be the only man with a bunch of girls. No broski to back you up if they start talking about how men are like this and that. If they do, casually try to change the subject and if you can't do that, try to give generic and vague answers and don't feed the trolls.

2: Women love challenges, be one.

By bringing her friends, she's actually taking a big risk (you might prefer one of her friends, instead of her), but don't be glued to her, meddle in the conversation, ask for clarification on stuff that you're not aware. She'll notice you getting along well with her friends and that will be a huge plus.

3: Treat the bartender/barmaid/waiter like royalty.

Trust me, she and they will notice that. Be very polite and smile to them. Huge points to be earned there. I went on a date once, ordered a coffee at the counter (starbucks), the girl at the cash was completely new and she didnt knew how to process our order, so she started to be very nervous and all stressed out, so i said "hey... relax, don't worry we're not in a hurry, it's only coffees."

She laughed nervously, said thanks. You should have seen the look on the date's face. Jaw on the floor. I scored big time with that move.

That's pretty much it.

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Originally Posted by Harrock

Dude just sit back and chill. Let them talk and do everything, you just hang and be cool.

I can't see too many bad things happening if you just play it cool and don't come off as wierd.

you look like you are pretty well built (no homo blah blah) so she probobly thinks you are hot, make her work for it.

Expert advice above!

May I add:

Do NOT bring your bro's. The girlfriends are going to be analyzing every aspect of you. If you bring your bro(s) and the girlfriends think said bro is a looser/jerk/chump they will reflect that on you.

Let them do all the talking. Less chance of you saying something stupid. And the mystery factor. Throw a subtle compliment out there on an outfit or line of work or something.

Only chill for around an hour then jam out to "meet up with some other friends." This shows you are a busy guy and people like hanging out with you. She will be wondering if you have an "official" date with someone else. Also, she's not gonna sleep with you that night anyways.... her friends would judge her as a slut. Just lay some good groundwork and get outta there while it's still going good and then set up an official date with her later. When the official date comes chances are she will be willing to be your "secret slut"

Est1979 · 05-08-2009, 05:19 PM

WOW. Amazing.

spank_lolz · 05-08-2009, 05:43 PM

its not really a date... just hanging out at the bar with friends and she invited you. i dont see anything wrong with that. yay for wanting to be social?

Iceman1800 · 05-08-2009, 05:44 PM

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Originally Posted by -=E=-

So this 29y/o chick that I met when dealing with some real-estate stuff called me up today to go grab a couple of beers. She also said she's bringing a couple of her girl friend"S" along with her...

Honestly I'm hanging out with her tomorrow because my hiking plans got canceled and she seems nice, down to earth and somewhat attractive but I'm so-so about meeting her. The whole bringing friends along is cool too but It's been a while since I've been in a "group" situation like this where I wasn't already acquainted with the other parties.

Misc. discuss and spew your wise advice on this situation. The Dos and Don'ts basically...

she read about the craigslist killer and doesn't want to be next. just be yourself, don't try to impress he friends and have fun.

Trapstar4.4 · 05-08-2009, 05:46 PM

i was in this situation last week, well i have been dating her for a while, so things were already known

have fun with it...man the **** that women talk about when they get together. i guess i wasnt threatening as i was "with her" so they really let it all out ...f*ckin funny stuff