Bailey's quest for a "Pro" physique with Team Scivation

[baileys423]

Originally Posted by HoosierHardGain

I almost put Dr. Phil...but I thought Fraiser could always call Niles if you stumped him too much

Well I'd actually prefer Dr. Phil...

Originally Posted by IronIc

Happy Hump Day Vanessa!

Hey penney...same to you as well!!

[baileys423]

I've been going round and round for the past couple of days about weither or not if I should push back my competition again, the reason isn't because of me, but because of my son. I got him Hospitalized yesterday for evaluation, I've been trying to get him Diagnosed w/ Autism Specturm Disorder for the last 2 yrs but no Dr would listen to me and just diagnosed him w/ ADHD, now that I've moved her to Ga, I have been pushing these Dr's to see that it isn't ADHD and FINALLY they see Autism but not sure what since Autism has such a wide range.

For those of you who knows what it's like to compete, you know what it takes up alot of your free time and personal life, I can't have that right now, my son needs me, there will always be competitions, but only one of my son.

I will compete again, but not right now, if everything goes smoothly I should be able to this fall. I will keep up w/ my healthy eating and my training only because that is who I am, that won't ever stop, but I need to be able to relax and have a life and that isn't something that competing gives me at this time.

I will be off here for a few only because my son is still in the hospital and will be there for the rest of the week, once everything gets back to normal, I'll be back on here, thanks for everyones understanding

Another side note, I got my labs back and all my hormones are competely normal.

[Vytis]

Originally Posted by baileys423

I've been going round and round for the past couple of days about weither or not if I should push back my competition again, the reason isn't because of me, but because of my son. I got him Hospitalized yesterday for evaluation, I've been trying to get him Diagnosed w/ Autism Specturm Disorder for the last 2 yrs but no Dr would listen to me and just diagnosed him w/ ADHD, now that I've moved her to Ga, I have been pushing these Dr's to see that it isn't ADHD and FINALLY they see Autism but not sure what since Autism has such a wide range.

For those of you who knows what it's like to compete, you know what it takes up alot of your free time and personal life, I can't have that right now, my son needs me, there will always be competitions, but only one of my son.

I will compete again, but not right now, if everything goes smoothly I should be able to this fall. I will keep up w/ my healthy eating and my training only because that is who I am, that won't ever stop, but I need to be able to relax and have a life and that isn't something that competing gives me at this time.

I will be off here for a few only because my son is still in the hospital and will be there for the rest of the week, once everything gets back to normal, I'll be back on here, thanks for everyones understanding

Another side note, I got my labs back and all my hormones are competely normal.

Hi Vanessa. Although it's not the best news, at least you have found a diagnosis that you agree with and the right treatment will soon be underway for your son. And no worries about putting off your contest. It's good that you are aware of your priorities. Regardless of what battles you take on on or off the stage, we will be there to support you. Take care.

[Beast]

Originally Posted by baileys423

I've been going round and round for the past couple of days about weither or not if I should push back my competition again, the reason isn't because of me, but because of my son. I got him Hospitalized yesterday for evaluation, I've been trying to get him Diagnosed w/ Autism Specturm Disorder for the last 2 yrs but no Dr would listen to me and just diagnosed him w/ ADHD, now that I've moved her to Ga, I have been pushing these Dr's to see that it isn't ADHD and FINALLY they see Autism but not sure what since Autism has such a wide range.

For those of you who knows what it's like to compete, you know what it takes up alot of your free time and personal life, I can't have that right now, my son needs me, there will always be competitions, but only one of my son.

I will compete again, but not right now, if everything goes smoothly I should be able to this fall. I will keep up w/ my healthy eating and my training only because that is who I am, that won't ever stop, but I need to be able to relax and have a life and that isn't something that competing gives me at this time.

I will be off here for a few only because my son is still in the hospital and will be there for the rest of the week, once everything gets back to normal, I'll be back on here, thanks for everyones understanding

Another side note, I got my labs back and all my hormones are competely normal.

You gotta do what is best for your family. I hope everything works out for the best Vanessa.

[HoosierHardGain]

My prayers for ya, Vanessa, as I have kind of been there before. You are saint for putting your son ahead of your own desires. Kudos to you...I'll keep your son in my thoughts!

[baileys423]

Originally Posted by Vytis

Hi Vanessa. Although it's not the best news, at least you have found a diagnosis that you agree with and the right treatment will soon be underway for your son. And no worries about putting off your contest. It's good that you are aware of your priorities. Regardless of what battles you take on on or off the stage, we will be there to support you. Take care.

Thanks Rob...that really means alot!!!

Originally Posted by Beast

You gotta do what is best for your family. I hope everything works out for the best Vanessa.

I'm very fortunate to have such a great trainer like you Derek!

Originally Posted by HoosierHardGain

My prayers for ya, Vanessa, as I have kind of been there before. You are saint for putting your son ahead of your own desires. Kudos to you...I'll keep your son in my thoughts!

Thanks Hoos, you of all people would understand what I'm going through, I thought I could do this but it has gotten to be too much on me, my body isn't working for me but against me because of all the stress, so it's best to push it aside till all is well again.

[push_it]

I am sorry to hear the news about your son but I am glad that you finally found doctors that will listen to you and help you. Best of luck to you and your family

[baileys423]

Originally Posted by push_it

I am sorry to hear the news about your son but I am glad that you finally found doctors that will listen to you and help you. Best of luck to you and your family

Thanks so much...BTW your Avi picture looks awesome!!!!!

[push_it]

Originally Posted by baileys423

Thanks so much...BTW your Avi picture looks awesome!!!!!

Haha thanks. I met up with a girl I met on bb.com and she we took some pics. That was one of them. She gave me the nickname 'big gunz' lol

[baileys423]

Originally Posted by push_it

Haha thanks. I met up with a girl I met on bb.com and she we took some pics. That was one of them. She gave me the nickname 'big gunz' lol

Awesome stuff! So that's what we will call you on here now right? LOL

[BillyUrias]

Sorry to hear about your son Vanessa. You and your family will be in my prayers. I wish you the best of luck getting these Dr's to really look into this and give you the answers that you seek. Again you and your family are in my prayers. Take care of yourself and your family and we will be here to support you as we have been and will always be.

[baileys423]

Originally Posted by BillyUrias

Sorry to hear about your son Vanessa. You and your family will be in my prayers. I wish you the best of luck getting these Dr's to really look into this and give you the answers that you seek. Again you and your family are in my prayers. Take care of yourself and your family and we will be here to support you as we have been and will always be.

Thanks so much Billy, sometimes you just have to focus on other things in life other than bbing, yes, my life is competing, but it doesn't revolve around it all the time, there are always more important things. I'll be back soon, I've already looked into shows this fall, that gives me plenty of time to get my life, family back were it needs to be

[rockeo]

hope all is well - Prayers are sent !

[baileys423]

Originally Posted by rockeo

hope all is well - Prayers are sent !

Things are getting a little better, he should be out of the hospital by monday, his Dr is awesome. Thanks for the thoughts & prayers

[HoosierHardGain]

Originally Posted by baileys423

Things are getting a little better, he should be out of the hospital by monday, his Dr is awesome. Thanks for the thoughts & prayers

Stay strong, Vanessa. You're a wonderful mommy!

[LayzieBone085]

Originally Posted by baileys423

Things are getting a little better, he should be out of the hospital by monday, his Dr is awesome. Thanks for the thoughts & prayers

Always wishing you the best hun! good luck.

[baileys423]

Originally Posted by HoosierHardGain

Stay strong, Vanessa. You're a wonderful mommy!

Originally Posted by LayzieBone085

Always wishing you the best hun! good luck.

Thanks guys

[rockeo]

Originally Posted by baileys423

Things are getting a little better, he should be out of the hospital by monday, his Dr is awesome. Thanks for the thoughts & prayers

Hey V,
well that is Awesome news. i like to look at life and see the Good in all things, thought i would just share that with you. i believe everything will be just fine. keep on with ur Positive character.

[HoosierHardGain]

Hey V...just dropping by to remind you that, you know, we all kind of luv ya around here and hope things are working out well for ya!

[tony_v]

Originally Posted by baileys423

I've been going round and round for the past couple of days about weither or not if I should push back my competition again, the reason isn't because of me, but because of my son. I got him Hospitalized yesterday for evaluation, I've been trying to get him Diagnosed w/ Autism Specturm Disorder for the last 2 yrs but no Dr would listen to me and just diagnosed him w/ ADHD, now that I've moved her to Ga, I have been pushing these Dr's to see that it isn't ADHD and FINALLY they see Autism but not sure what since Autism has such a wide range.

For those of you who knows what it's like to compete, you know what it takes up alot of your free time and personal life, I can't have that right now, my son needs me, there will always be competitions, but only one of my son.

I will compete again, but not right now, if everything goes smoothly I should be able to this fall. I will keep up w/ my healthy eating and my training only because that is who I am, that won't ever stop, but I need to be able to relax and have a life and that isn't something that competing gives me at this time.

I will be off here for a few only because my son is still in the hospital and will be there for the rest of the week, once everything gets back to normal, I'll be back on here, thanks for everyones understanding

Another side note, I got my labs back and all my hormones are competely normal.

Glad to hear you're healthy and normal! Family always comes first. ALWAYS. You can still diet without the stress of competing and be the mom your supposed to be. All the while, the gains you make while you take care of personal business will just make you that much more complete when you step on stage again.

I hope your son gets the help and attention that every child deserves!

[HoosierHardGain]

Just thought I'd bump Vanessa's journal