MANSERS-from a WOMAN...ask and you shall receive!

[block888]

Hey HabitualHealth. When it come to guys looks, what R your top 5 turn on's & your top 5 turn off's??? & I'm only talking about looks here. Only physical. If you could tell me your top five on both of those that would great. THX

PS; I think your Awsome & Super Fine!

[game1990]

am i a sexy looking asian??

[ManDanStan]

Originally Posted by HabitualHealth

you must've missed the first 600 pages...it's aight, men typically miss half the conversation anyway.

And apparently women can't count, but hey, who's slinging mud here?

[SoFreshSoFine]

Ok, so there is this girl that I was seeing last summer. She is really cool and just a good person to hang out with. We were hanging out a lot and talking a lot on the phone and stuff. and then school started and we slowly started to separate. We still talk from time to time and text each other and stuff. I still kinda like her, and she hasn't had a boyfriend or anybody at all this whole year. What do you think I should do? Should I just quit while we are still friends or should i pursue it more?

[BABY-HERCULES]

hey!.... im having speech problems with da ladies. im not a bad looking guy, honestly. sometimes girls approach me, instead of the other way around. well recently ive lost my 'game'. well ive been somewhat of a horndog and have had many out of relationship 'sessions'. well thats not what im really looking for i want a relationship in which we can come to understand eachother no matter what. well i have trouble starting a conversation. i get nervous and feeel stupid. well the only time i get the courage to talk to girls is when i drink, i dont have to be drunk just 2 or 3 will do the job. it doesnt seem fair when i do this eventhough it feels right, i am most relaxed at times . i started writing to this girl on myspace and i find her quite interesting. she seems like a nice gal and she even gave me her #, now i havent called her yet cause i might get stuck. what tip can u give me to toughen up and be the man in the conversation? shes a bit younger than me but seems more mature aswell. help!!!

[_Ishy]

Originally Posted by HabitualHealth

underhanded insults result in a defensive response. it's natural.

this holds especially true for me when someone is attacking my decisions as a mother.


it was more heavy sarcasm than b!tchy.

sure it was

[SaviorSix]

If you had to fire a man from his job (you are his boss at work) - how would you go about doing it.

Note: You must fire him. He is an honest family man and the sole provider for his kids.

[HabitualHealth]

Originally Posted by Mtguy8787

OP/HH


You look a bit pissed off in your avatar photo, and also in most of your bodyspace pics. How angry of a person would you say you are, on a scale of 1-100?

really? pissed? interesting.


i'd hate to see myself when i really AM pissed.

[HabitualHealth]

Originally Posted by block888

Hey HabitualHealth. When it come to guys looks, what R your top 5 turn on's & your top 5 turn off's??? & I'm only talking about looks here. Only physical. If you could tell me your top five on both of those that would great. THX

PS; I think your Awsome & Super Fine!

ons:
dark hair
build (shoulders/calves)
scent
style
ink
piercings (both ears tho)
(i know i know...i went over the limit)

offs:
bad breath
can't be shorter than me
has to be bigger than me...regardless if it's muscle or fat...can't be smaller
lack of style

ps-thank you for the compliment

Originally Posted by game1990

am i a sexy looking asian??

are you the guy or girl?

Originally Posted by ManDanStan

And apparently women can't count, but hey, who's slinging mud here?

math was never my strong point

[HabitualHealth]

Originally Posted by SoFreshSoFine

Ok, so there is this girl that I was seeing last summer. She is really cool and just a good person to hang out with. We were hanging out a lot and talking a lot on the phone and stuff. and then school started and we slowly started to separate. We still talk from time to time and text each other and stuff. I still kinda like her, and she hasn't had a boyfriend or anybody at all this whole year. What do you think I should do? Should I just quit while we are still friends or should i pursue it more?

do you guys go to the same school or is there distance there? did you let her know at all that you liked her before?

was it just school that created the seperation? if so, i'd say persue it.

on the other hand....if a girl/guy has given you the "she's just not that into you" sign and you've missed it, that i wouldn't know. i say this because women/men aren't typically ballsy enough to shoot straight and say "i'm just not into you" so they slowly stop texting, calling, responding, emailing, etc. (i've been guilty of this in the past) in this case, i'd say no, dont persue anything.

if school distance is the case, you really gotta be into her to persue something long distance. otherwise it'll fizzle faster than it started. (IMO)

[Navaconda]

1. Have you ever had a 1 night stand?

2. When you are first with a guy how doest it go?
Kissing/first base
Boob/second base
finger/third base
HJ?
BJ?
around the world?

or

around the world then
BJ?

Basically does head come first or do you give up the goods before. I know my first gave me the goods first then I had to tell her I loved her to get a BJ.

[MinuteMan.]

What do you think of the average miscer?

[HabitualHealth]

Originally Posted by SaviorSix

If you had to fire a man from his job (you are his boss at work) - how would you go about doing it.

Note: You must fire him. He is an honest family man and the sole provider for his kids.

is the termination performance based or company downsizing?

[HabitualHealth]

Originally Posted by Navaconda

1. Have you ever had a 1 night stand?

2. When you are first with a guy how doest it go?
Kissing/first base
Boob/second base
finger/third base
HJ?
BJ?
around the world?

or

around the world then
BJ?

Basically does head come first or do you give up the goods before. I know my first gave me the goods first then I had to tell her I loved her to get a BJ.

1. nope
2. i dont have a timeline of events i follow. could progress different with each person.

most guys never make it to first base.

[jacaresouza]

Originally Posted by HabitualHealth

1. nope
2. i dont have a timeline of events i follow. could progress different with each person.

most guys never make it to first base.

i suck with women....how do i get better?

[harryk387]

i have problems initiating all the physical aspects of a relationship.

i work as a waiter, at a small diner, and i have gotten about 10-15 girls leave me their numbers on the tables after they leave. I've gone out with about 4-5 of them, one of which i went out with for about 5 dates, but never even got a kiss out of them.

i really need help going in for the kiss and furthering the physical contact, but i just cant. i wouldnt know when the right opportunity would be or if i did, i wouldnt know how to approach the situation.

tips?

[shadowsfall19]

Originally Posted by HabitualHealth

1. nope
2. i dont have a timeline of events i follow. could progress different with each person.

most guys never make it to first base.

Wow, strong prude.

It's a wonder you had kids. o_o;

[vparty]

there was a girl i met at a grocery store a while ago while home on break. she was working. she went to my highschool and has matured big time, looks absolutely gorgeous. we quickly chatted and i left because there was a massive line behind me, i went back to see if i could grab her number/chill with her but i didn't see her working, and i went back to school the next day.
i found out she goes to my friends uni. she is on his facebook. i'm having trouble configuring a plan. i would rather not message her from his facebook cause thats kinda weird, and i don't have it.
so? watchugot?

[Mark91880]

Here is the story. Me and my gf were together for 1.5 years when we decided to buy a place together. We talked marriage and all that good stuff prior to living together. This month would have been 2 years. Well after about 4 months of living together she was not happy and moved out. Never got anything more then that. We talk still because we are in the process of selling the place. I have made it clear that I love her very much I hope we can get back together. She tells me she still cares about me a lot. She tell me a was a great guy and good bf. Which don't make sense to me. My problem is I cant stop thinking about her. I hope we can get back together but I don't wanna come off being annoying or anything. I am OK when we don't talk or see each other. But soon as I talk to her or see her I turn into a big puss. I guess I need some advice to help me deal with this situation. I tell her that I cant talk to her anymore then 2 days later she will text me about something stupid. Like recently it was about her computer. I am kinda forced to talk to her though because we own the place together. I am very confused and extreamly hurt. I hate feelings this way but cant help it right now. We spoke face to face weds night and of course I went right back into things that happened with us. I hate bringing it up but sometimes cant help it. I need some advice. Feel free to ask any questions. thanks

[kingvic]

Originally Posted by HabitualHealth

alot of times women just like the attention and the idea that she CAN have you vs really wanting you. not sure if this is the case with her. i wouldn't continue chasing her though if she's doesn't bite.

call...leave a message and mentally be done with it unless she makes the next move. don't go out of your way to approach her in the gym either. if she's just playing games with you for her own ego driven motive...best for you to get out now. but if she's seriously interested, she'll be bothered by the fact that you haven't called and aren't paying her attn at the gym and she'll end up making a move of some sort. whether it's text, call or in the gym.

hooked up with her in family room @gym right before workout