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01-29-2009, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted by torn8o
I get by with none just fine. Sex isn't a need, anymore than having a banana split is a need.
Actually, in a study posted just this week, those who are extremely active sexually in their 20s/30s are more prone to prostate issues than those who keep it in moderation.
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01-29-2009, 09:31 AM
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boom chicka wow wow
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01-29-2009, 10:44 AM
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When in doubt, mumble
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Since this is a serious thread, once a month would be good for me. I just have no libido. I am in the middle of TRT but it isn't helping much.
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01-29-2009, 11:16 AM
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Honestly I am probably one of the biggest pervs on the planet. Once a day would not even be enough to make me happy. If it stretches to 2 or 3 days I get in a foul mood. Some of you here might say you dont need it but I do. I will take those prostate problems thank you very much.
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01-29-2009, 11:20 AM
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One of the reasons I enjoy middle age more than being in my teens or early 20's is that sex no longer dominates my thoughts. I mean, sure, I think about it, and I enjoy it when I do it, but it doesn't rule me anymore. I can't even imagine thinking about it like "how many times did I do it this week, or this day, or this month." It may happen 2+ times a day, if the situation is conducive (like a nice vacation with just my wife and me) or it may not happen for a week. Definitley not something I keep too much tabs on 'tho.
(Now, I realize I've opened my self to obvious shots here, but I'm just sayin')
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01-29-2009, 11:25 AM
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boom chicka wow wow
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Originally Posted by aneas
Honestly I am probably one of the biggest pervs on the planet. Once a day would not even be enough to make me happy. If it stretches to 2 or 3 days I get in a foul mood. Some of you here might say you dont need it but I do. I will take those prostate problems thank you very much.
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Oh, I'll bet my libido can out-sprint yours any day of the week. It took me years to learn to manage it. And I'm not perfect, but it no longer manages me. It's kind of like eating ... I want the food, but I decide what and how much I'm having. Not the other way around.
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01-29-2009, 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted by torn8o
Oh, I'll bet my libido can out-sprint yours any day of the week. It took me years to learn to manage it. And I'm not perfect, but it no longer manages me. It's kind of like eating ... I want the food, but I decide what and how much I'm having. Not the other way around.
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Sure and your in better shape then me to.
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01-29-2009, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by KeepItMoving
One of the reasons I enjoy middle age more than being in my teens or early 20's is that sex no longer dominates my thoughts. I mean, sure, I think about it, and I enjoy it when I do it, but it doesn't rule me anymore. I can't even imagine thinking about it like "how many times did I do it this week, or this day, or this month." It may happen 2+ times a day, if the situation is conducive (like a nice vacation with just my wife and me) or it may not happen for a week. Definitley not something I keep too much tabs on 'tho.
(Now, I realize I've opened my self to obvious shots here, but I'm just sayin')
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i'm the opposite and glad i feel the same libido wise as i did when 20 years old.
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Originally Posted by torn8o
Oh, I'll bet my libido can out-sprint yours any day of the week. It took me years to learn to manage it. And I'm not perfect, but it no longer manages me. It's kind of like eating ... I want the food, but I decide what and how much I'm having. Not the other way around.
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i dunno if i buy that and the reason being hormones run you you don't run hormones no matter how much you think you could.
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01-29-2009, 11:42 AM
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boom chicka wow wow
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Hmm, I don't think I implied that I was in better shape than you, no. That's doubtful. Just have more self-discipline when it comes to sex maybe.
Hormones control your hunger response too, but that doesn't mean you HAVE to eat anything and everything around you. Still a choice.
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01-29-2009, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted by torn8o
Hmm, I don't think I implied that I was in better shape than you, no. That's doubtful. Just have more self-discipline when it comes to sex maybe.
Hormones control your hunger response too, but that doesn't mean you HAVE to eat anything and everything around you. Still a choice.
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More self discipline thats not hard I have none. I was just fooling about with ya no offense ment.
I can control myself 15 years of loyal marriage under my belt.
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01-29-2009, 11:51 AM
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Can you guys send me a little libido? lol
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01-29-2009, 11:52 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by aneas
Honestly I am probably one of the biggest pervs on the planet. Once a day would not even be enough to make me happy. If it stretches to 2 or 3 days I get in a foul mood. Some of you here might say you dont need it but I do. I will take those prostate problems thank you very much.
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hmmm I think you have some competition, I can not go two days without sex, 1 day maybe...the only good thing about it is that my wife ALWAYS accommodates me  and if she didn't then I would have to have the 5 fingers of death in her place.
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01-29-2009, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted by bodyhard
hmmm I think you have some competition, I can not go two days without sex, 1 day maybe...the only good thing about it is that my wife ALWAYS accommodates me  and if she didn't then I would have to have the 5 fingers of death in her place.
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Thats me man. Except my wife seems to get mad at me alot so you know a man has to do what a man has to do.
Man your wife makes meals, accommodates, supports the gym.....she got a sister?
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01-29-2009, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted by namtrag
Can you guys send me a little libido? lol
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Even TRT does not help? That sounds really bad? How long have you been on it? Cant they up the dosage or something?
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01-29-2009, 11:57 AM
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I'm not ashamed to say it. I'm 42 and still love sex. What's wrong with that? Now, I'm married and and I don't stray but I get it whenever I can. And if that causes prostrate problems or such then so be it. What's the point of living if you can't do the things that you enjoy. Besides once a month isn't moderation. It's next to nothing. Three or four times a week sounds about right to me and healthy.
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01-29-2009, 11:59 AM
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Seems like you should listen to your body, in the same way you do for workouts or rest. When you feel you need more, do it.
We all make test at different levels per person and depending on age. We all use it at different rates, depending on workouts, stress etc. Some weeks I am very high libido, even to the point of get this out of me so I can concentrate. Other weeks I am content with less/ or nothing.
Listen to your body, it' knows what you need.
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01-29-2009, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted by aneas
Thats me man. Except my wife seems to get mad at me alot so you know a man has to do what a man has to do.
Man your wife makes meals, accommodates, supports the gym.....she got a sister?
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4 and they are all bitches!
27 years and counting man!
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01-29-2009, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted by strongIT
I want to know bodybuilders and powerlifters ,etc ,how much sex we need during 1 month?to increase our power and be more healthy.
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A hell of a lot more than I'm currently getting!
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01-29-2009, 12:11 PM
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4 and they are all bitches!
27 years and counting man!
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hey some of us women cook that way for ourselves , but in 25 years of marriage my husband cooked twice and he was free to pursue his interests and i never once told him no ,i usually wanted it more than him , so not all women are stereotypical.. i have a healthy house as far as food and i work out now for me
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01-29-2009, 12:19 PM
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It looks like we have a wide range of answers here. I think a lot of this depends on the stress level of the particular individual and what alls going on in their life at the time. Well, at least I"m that way. When I am super-busy or am stressed, I have very little desire and my wife is the same way. When that happens, we don't worry about it or argue over it.
On the other hand, when we both feel good and are fairly relaxed, etc......it's go-time for us in a big way! It balances out though in the end.....we'll go through a mini-drought, but then, when relaxation and time allow, we more than make up for it in frequency.
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01-29-2009, 12:50 PM
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Studies have shown that having sex 2-3 times a week increases chemicals (IgE) in you that decrease your chance of getting sick.
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01-29-2009, 12:50 PM
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Whatever amount I am getting squared, unless you ask my wife then it would be the square root of the amount I currently get...
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01-29-2009, 01:03 PM
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What is this sex you speak of? I have vague recollections...
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01-29-2009, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted by biochick
Studies have shown that having sex 2-3 times a week increases chemicals (IgE) in you that decrease your chance of getting sick.
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Thanks you just gave me some ammo. Its gotta be true.
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01-29-2009, 01:15 PM
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When in doubt, mumble
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What is this sex you speak of? I have vague recollections...
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Me too.
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01-29-2009, 01:23 PM
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Well, no matter how much one is or isn't getting, my guess is that for most people it's not quite enough. The internet is proof of that.
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01-29-2009, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted by biochick
Studies have shown that having sex 2-3 times a week increases chemicals (IgE) in you that decrease your chance of getting sick.
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All that private time has been paying off after all!
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01-29-2009, 02:56 PM
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I've come across a few articles that say abstaining from sex can cause an increase in testosterone. Somewhere around 2 weeks, but any longer and it will decrease again. Test production also drops straight after sex. So from a bodybuilding view, having sex around every 10 to 12 days may be optimal
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01-29-2009, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted by AlanBee
I've come across a few articles that say abstaining from sex can cause an increase in testosterone. Somewhere around 2 weeks, but any longer and it will decrease again. Test production also drops straight after sex. So from a bodybuilding view, having sex around every 10 to 12 days may be optimal 
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That cant be true. Its pure insanity I tell you. 10-12 days what are you trying to do kill somebody.
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01-29-2009, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted by AlanBee
I've come across a few articles that say abstaining from sex can cause an increase in testosterone. Somewhere around 2 weeks, but any longer and it will decrease again. Test production also drops straight after sex. So from a bodybuilding view, having sex around every 10 to 12 days may be optimal 
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Well, if this is the case, then I'll just have to sacrifice any "bodybuilding" benefits......
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