girl help

billy_dean · 12-13-2008, 09:16 PM

so when im talkin to this chick on the phone every once in a while we'll have this awkward silence, wat can i say when these happen

MuscleMan009 · 12-13-2008, 09:19 PM

it means she doesn't really care to talk to you and you are just killing time

Tamandua · 12-13-2008, 09:20 PM

"what are you wearing right now?"

titansmlb102 · 12-13-2008, 09:21 PM

Ask something stupid. like whats your fav. color or something.

billy_dean · 12-13-2008, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by =]

it means she doesn't really care to talk to you and you are just killing time

she told me she liked me..

kickchickbecca · 12-13-2008, 09:22 PM

being able to have silent moments and not be awkward is a sign of comfort..

.. but I think that law only applies in real life.

Just bring up random **** - what are you doing? I saw the funniest thing on tv.. I'm freezing.. So how was your day? Have you ever seen *this* movie.. etc.

billy_dean · 12-13-2008, 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by kickchickbecca

being able to have silent moments and not be awkward is a sign of comfort..

.. but I think that law only applies in real life.

Just bring up random **** - what are you doing? I saw the funniest thing on tv.. I'm freezing.. So how was your day? Have you ever seen *this* movie.. etc.

im talkin about the phone i can handle them in person

MuscleMan009 · 12-13-2008, 09:25 PM

she lied then...
said she doesn't like red people...

stake_n_taters · 12-13-2008, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by =]

she lied then...
said she doesn't like red people...

mayne I was trying to get with her

Twist3dJok3r · 12-13-2008, 09:26 PM

stop talking for so long that you run out of things to say

DoWork13 · 12-13-2008, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by kickchickbecca

being able to have silent moments and not be awkward is a sign of comfort..

.. but I think that law only applies in real life.

Just bring up random **** - what are you doing? I saw the funniest thing on tv.. I'm freezing.. So how was your day? Have you ever seen *this* movie.. etc.

Him: What are you doing?
Her: Nothin'.
*Silence*

Him: I saw the funniest thing on T.V. today.
Her: Cool.
*Silence*

Him: I'm freezing.
Her: Blankets help.
*Silence*

Him: So how was your day?
Her: Eh, ok.
*Silence*

Him: Have you ever seen 300?
Her: No.
Him: Oh.
*Silence*

billy_dean · 12-13-2008, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by =]

she lied then...
said she doesn't like red people...

everybody like red people

Solidified · 12-13-2008, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Twist3dJok3r

stop talking for so long that you run out of things to say

this this this, this, this this, and this.

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billy_dean · 12-13-2008, 09:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DoWork13

Him: What are you doing?
Her: Nothin'.
*Silence*

Him: I saw the funniest thing on T.V. today.
Her: Cool.
*Silence*

Him: I'm freezing.
Her: Blankets help.
*Silence*

Him: So how was your day?
Her: Eh, ok.
*Silence*

Him: Have you ever seen 300?
Her: No.
Him: Oh.
*Silence*

lol that would be the ****tiest conversation...

McCrory · 12-13-2008, 09:27 PM

lol i have the same problem brother...
I can talk to chicks but when it comes to the phone..it goes downhill..

i mean honestly wat is there to talk about for 6 hours straight when all u can talk to is a voice...
people must have alot of free time lol.

but yea sometimes random questions like what are u doing or something like that can sometiems get something started...

billy_dean · 12-13-2008, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by McCrory

lol i have the same problem brother...
I can talk to chicks but when it comes to the phone..it goes downhill..

i mean honestly wat is there to talk about for 6 hours straight when all u can talk to is a voice...
people must have alot of free time lol.

but yea sometimes random questions like what are u doing or something like that can sometiems get something started...

ya when i go to her house we talk for hours but when it comes to the phone i run out of things to say in 5 minutes

DoWork13 · 12-13-2008, 09:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by billy_dean

lol that would be the ****tiest conversation...

Totes. And it ALWAYS ends up like that...

kickchickbecca · 12-13-2008, 09:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DoWork13

Him: What are you doing?
Her: Nothin'.
*Silence*

Him: I saw the funniest thing on T.V. today.
Her: Cool.
*Silence*

Him: I'm freezing.
Her: Blankets help.
*Silence*

Him: So how was your day?
Her: Eh, ok.
*Silence*

Him: Have you ever seen 300?
Her: No.
Him: Oh.
*Silence*

AHAHHAHA repppeedd!

McCrory · 12-13-2008, 09:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by billy_dean

ya when i go to her house we talk for hours but when it comes to the phone i run out of things to say in 5 minutes

yea thats why I like texting better...

MuscleMan009 · 12-13-2008, 09:36 PM

this too

or like just stretch some subjects out ...

keep a notebook with you to take notes on things that come to your head that you can touch on something

i.e.

her: I went to the movies today
you: nicee, wait, howd you get there?
her: oh my mom dropped me off
you: oh i see, if you needed a ride i would've taken you
(*write down note about who she went with*)
her: yea i know, but i didn't want to put you through the trouble
you: its no problem trust me, i like spending time with you
her: aw your so cute
you: thanks doll only for youuu, so what are you doing tomorrow
her: going shopping with my mom
you: haha get me something!
her: haha i will
(*write down note to ask about what she's going to get you*)
you: did you just go to the movies by yourself?
her: nooo, with johnny and sally lol (* here is where you write down the note about what movie to ask*)
you: oh are you serious didn't they break up?
her: lol no they got back together today
you: wow im surprised she seemed really upset

the point is to break up conservations rather than having one single flow ... if you stick on a conservation too long, then that subject matter flows quickly.

kickchickbecca · 12-13-2008, 09:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by =]

this too

or like just stretch some subjects out ...

keep a notebook with you to take notes on things that come to your head that you can touch on something

i.e.

her: I went to the movies today
you: nicee, wait, howd you get there?
her: oh my mom dropped me off
you: oh i see, if you needed a ride i would've taken you
(*write down note about who she went with*)
her: yea i know, but i didn't want to put you through the trouble
you: its no problem trust me, i like spending time with you
her: aw your so cute
you: thanks doll only for youuu, so what are you doing tomorrow
her: going shopping with my mom
you: haha get me something!
her: haha i will
(*write down note to ask about what she's going to get you*)
you: did you just go to the movies by yourself?
her: nooo, with johnny and sally lol (* here is where you write down the note about what movie to ask*)
you: oh are you serious didn't they break up?
her: lol no they got back together today
you: wow im surprised she seemed really upset

the point is to break up conservations rather than having one single flow ... if you stick on a conservation too long, then that subject matter flows quickly.

good man.

theshad31 · 12-13-2008, 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by DoWork13

Him: I'm freezing.
Her: Blankets help.

Him: I'm freezing.
Her: Blankets help.
him: oh i was thinking you could keep me warm.(yes cheesy but ive said it before and it lightend it up) or

Him: I'm freezing.
Her: Blankets help.
him: only if u join me.

just really depends.....she also may be creeped out..depends on how comfortable she is with u lmao.

and having long awkward pauses kinda makes it seem like your just sitting there in silence cause u got nothing better to do.

DoWork13 · 12-13-2008, 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by theshad31

Him: I'm freezing.
Her: Blankets help.
him: oh i was thinking you could keep me warm.(yes cheesy but ive said it before and it lightend it up) or

Him: I'm freezing.
Her: Blankets help.
him: only if u join me.

just really depends.....she also may be creeped out..depends on how comfortable she is with u lmao.

and having long awkward pauses kinda makes it seem like your just sitting there in silence cause u got nothing better to do.

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billy_dean · 12-13-2008, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by McCrory

yea thats why I like texting better...

ya me to but sometimes we'll be in the middle of texting and she will call me

Caseyface · 12-13-2008, 09:46 PM

then say you're busy and you'll call her later.
if you talk on the phone with her for 4 hours a day she'll get bored of you and you wont hang out.

~snake0 · 12-13-2008, 09:47 PM

for every awkward silence, a gay baby is born.

McCrory · 12-13-2008, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by billy_dean

ya me to but sometimes we'll be in the middle of texting and she will call me

I guess she doesnt like textin then..lol
but hey if its meant to be then she will be ok with it..i mean if u actually see her and u are talkative with her then i think it will be ok..

billy_dean · 12-13-2008, 09:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by McCrory

I guess she doesnt like textin then..lol
but hey if its meant to be then she will be ok with it..i mean if u actually see her and u are talkative with her then i think it will be ok..

ya i know but its just weird lol

buillderman552 · 12-13-2008, 11:43 PM

ask her if she has any plans tonight

Staliyo_Lycan · 12-14-2008, 01:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DoWork13

Him: What are you doing?
Her: Nothin'.
*Silence*

Him: I saw the funniest thing on T.V. today.
Her: Cool.
*Silence*

Him: I'm freezing.
Her: Blankets help.
*Silence*

Him: So how was your day?
Her: Eh, ok.
*Silence*

Him: Have you ever seen 300?
Her: No.
Him: Oh.
*Silence*

LOL repped