In shape,single and frustrated!

[ffdrebin]

im 23 and still never had a "real" girlfriend. Dont sweat it. we are so so so young. Have fun, be single, enjoy life. doesnt matter were you live, cali, hawaii or washington... guys and girls are the same...

smile! its good to be YOU!

[soleuvanathlete]

Dear, dear, sweet Gina... You're very young and absolutely gorgeous! I'm sure you've heard this before, but you'll find someone as soon as you quit looking! Join some classes (art, bootcamp, cooking, etc.), get out and make YOUR life as full and fun as YOU can possibly make it. Make YOURSELF happy and your confidence, joy for life and happiness will make everyone want to be around you. Guys smell desperation and neediness (not that you're desparate or needy - I'm just sayin'). Stay strong and concentrate on making you the best you can be - the rest will fall into place. I promise.

[ElishiaMarie]

I find it hard to believe that you don't have guys approching you at the gym. Or maybe it's just the fact that my gym is a big pickup joint.....anyway like everyone else said on here....you are beautiful. It really is true that you will meet someone when you aren't out there looking. Good luck girl

[humblegenius]

I never had a girlfriend until I was 21, and I was married at 25, funny how sometimes the right person is just waiting for you are a time when you arent expecting it.

Either that or you have to stop going to gay bars to meet men

I find it hard to believe that someone who looks like the OP would have trouble meeting men. I would believe it more if she had trouble with them hassling her.

[humblegenius]

Originally Posted by ginarochelle

Maybe protein shakes will be my new liquid courage!

I dont know what you guys call liquid courage in the states, but protein shakes only make me fart bad.








Sorry, Im just so, so sorry.

[ToraAdams]

Being in shape and beautiful is about your dedication to yourself. Your great attitude and respect is what you give to others. I think your winning personality will always get you further in your goals to meet the right guy than whether or not you have a few pounds to lose or muscles to gain.

[ffdrebin]

+1 tora

a killer bod is a nice addition to a relationship, BUT personally and brains is what truely wins me over in the long haul

[DemetriaF]

To the OP, four months is kinda short if you ask me. I need at least a year (maybe more), to cool down from a failed relationship. 'Serial monogamy' isn't my idea of a good time. :P

[yoyoyoimdave]

maybe you intimidate guys o.o you are very beautiful

[Riskoe]

Originally Posted by yoyoyoimdave

maybe you intimidate guys o.o you are very beautiful

This.

I have no problem approaching and talking to women, but when they're super hot (as you are, clearly) it would be allot tougher to approach and talk to you.

Id think you have a partner already, most hot girls do.

[lbleiweiss]

OP i'll have to agree with everyone else. being beautiful is really intimidating. i would recommend you approaching the guys, another plus to that on top of whats already been said is that most guys think its really attractive when the woman takes charge!

Originally Posted by ElishiaMarie

I find it hard to believe that you don't have guys approching you at the gym. Or maybe it's just the fact that my gym is a big pickup joint.....anyway like everyone else said on here....you are beautiful. It really is true that you will meet someone when you aren't out there looking. Good luck girl

this is a little OT but ^^ are you the girl next door? you look just like elisha cuthbert if you're not. lol

[TheBlasterMan]

damn, just from looking at your pictures, guys should be flocking to you.

is there something else we should know about? lol

[Collette]

Ah it's okay girl. I feel you. It always does come when you least expect it, which is so weird. I'm going through something similar now. I've never liked relationships...except one time with my first (and only) love. It's been 2.5 years since I broke up with him, because I didn't want to be tied down in college, wanted to put my career first etc. I've worked a lot of stuff out with myself during that time and now I'm ready to settle down a bit. The only thing I could say is that since you have always been a relationship girl, maybe it's time to focus on you and your friendships and family. Explore what makes you tick instead of relying on someone else to make you feel that way. It never happens when you're looking for it. Keep us updated. The good ones are ALWAYS worth the wait!!!

[MAXMUSCLE86]

Where is washington? Lets meet up.

[bebeklein]

I agree it never happens when you're looking for it. It's like shopping. If I have somewhere to go I can't find a cute dress to save my life. But let me go shopping for no particular reason and cute dresses are all I find.

I was a relationship person for a very long time and had to get use to being single. Enjoy the total freedom while you can...you won't always have that. Whenever you start feeling down about being single, talk to your girlfriends who are in relationships. One of them should have a story to tell and you'll be glad you're not having to deal with that b.s.

[JAWS22]

Originally Posted by bambifox

I feel your pain OP! I know exactly what ur talkin about. I've come to the conclusion that its not YOU...or your APPEARANCE, but its that the man/woman ratio is off the charts. I believe that there's now something like 25 females to every 1 male. If you appear to have a shred of love for yourself or dignity, most men will just opt for the "easy to go" type female. It's terrible, I know...but this has been my observation.

I do believe that there are men out there to appreciate a fine specimen (such as yourself), just few and far between because of the rash of young, low self-esteem having, moral-less, teenie bobbers out there blowing men in the bathroom stalls in nightclubs!

HAHA! The good LORD has answered man's cry for help. Women have too long since been able to crack a smile and have any man she wishes at any whimsical moment! But now, the tide of the war has turned! > : D

[Abena]

so im the same age...going through the same thing..and am HAPPY about it. 22 is so young! i make fun of all my friends who have gotten married already or are in super serious relationships this young. but ive never been a relationship kind of girl. had one long one in college and a few short ones since. hang out by yourself for a while, figure out exactly what you want and dont settle for any less!

[ginarochelle]

Well, I hadn't read this thing in a long time! I must say thanks to everyone for their advice,opinions and jokes! I'm currently still single, not looking really either. Just going to wait and see what happens.....until then I'm focusing on me which means gym,gym and more gym!!!!

[Komadori]

Originally Posted by ginarochelle

Well, I hadn't read this thing in a long time! I must say thanks to everyone for their advice,opinions and jokes! I'm currently still single, not looking really either. Just going to wait and see what happens.....until then I'm focusing on me which means gym,gym and more gym!!!!

Gym's my boyfriend, too. n.n

Good for you, hon! There's a lot singles can do that couples can't do as easily, too. Now's the time to have your adventures and find yourself. The twenties are really good years to develop your independent nature and work out who you are. I think the whole seven year itch thing from marriages of the old days probably came from people marrying so young. (And really, the trend is to marry in your 30s now, anyway. You have gobs of time before that.)

So paint the town red! And flirt with whomever you wanna. n.n And pump those weights, yes! ^_^ v

[dungeonmistress]

same boat here. I don't mind not being in a relationship most of the time as I have a very full life (single parent, work full time, have 4 demanding parrots etc). I am extremely fit, muscular and strong. I'm very inked and look really alternative compared to most women my age. I also dont look my age. This has shrunk my dating pool severely I think. Most men my age are too old (if they don't work out) so I tend to be attracted to men 10-15 years younger then I feel like a pedophile LOL. I heard I scare men but don't know why. If they would take the time to get to know what lies underneath they might be pleasantly surprised. I meet guys at the metal concerts I go to but I'm old em
Enough to be their grandmother LOL.

[Trevor34]

God as a plan for every one.
saying that, don't rush meeting some one. the special some one is out there for you, give it time.

trust me......your hot!!!!!!

[cawagner01]

Originally Posted by parsnip1965

When I was your age, I would have thought you were too hot for me. You really do look like a supermodel.

Now that I'm old and smart... the only thing stopping me would be that I'm too old for ya. And married.

X2!

[Ms.Rock]

Hey girly,take it from someone over the age of thirty,relationships can be nice at times,but they can also be a pain in the ass!!!! Enjoy your time and don't be in rush for all that mess. You don't need a man to feel good about yourself.If I was your age and knew what I know now,I coud rule the world. Maybe that's why i'm not,um?

[ImFocusedMan]

Originally Posted by ginarochelle

Well, I hadn't read this thing in a long time! I must say thanks to everyone for their advice,opinions and jokes! I'm currently still single, not looking really either. Just going to wait and see what happens.....until then I'm focusing on me which means gym,gym and more gym!!!!

While you focus on you, I'll be focusing too!

[ImFocusedMan]

Originally Posted by ElishiaMarie

I find it hard to believe that you don't have guys approching you at the gym. Or maybe it's just the fact that my gym is a big pickup joint.....anyway like everyone else said on here....you are beautiful. It really is true that you will meet someone when you aren't out there looking. Good luck girl

I would love to know how to approach a girl at the gym. I feel like I'm always the skeevy dude that can't help but stare. I figure most women don't want to be approached when they are working out. Also, I have no idea what I would say!

Maybe something like this: "Your form is amazing"

Corny I know. But seriously, how can you tell when a woman at the gym is diggin you?

[IzzyJ]

Originally Posted by precisou2004

i do NOT agree.. why settle for second best !!!!!

totally agree!!!!!!! DO NOT LOWER YOUR STANDARDS

if you settle for less than you're worth you'll get less than what you settled for.

[Cowboy_Jay]

Why not focus on yourself. Go out and see the world. Back pack through Europe, go to Carnival in Brazil, go Sky diving. Do things you wouldn't normally do, becasue in a relationship, those things become even harder to do.

[OnMyWhey]

Hey where do you go to school at in washington?

[CJWells]

Originally Posted by ginarochelle

Well, I hadn't read this thing in a long time! I must say thanks to everyone for their advice,opinions and jokes! I'm currently still single, not looking really either. Just going to wait and see what happens.....until then I'm focusing on me which means gym,gym and more gym!!!!

Ya just gotta say, this thread bumped up a few months, just gotta say, focus on your priorties and be confident in yourself and your abilities, the rest will follow . Your a good lookin girl, so Im sure it will come quick

[healthdiva]

You shouldn't worry if are single no matter for how long. The main thing in concentrate in yourself as a single, successful woman and embrace it.
Use this "alone" time to learn to know yourself, to pamper yourself.

You will love someone else a lot more if you are totally and 100% in love with yourself.