Will it scare her if I bang her like this?

[byates5637]

Cliffs
-Been dating this girl for one month, she has had crush on me for two years.
-She is young (19) and somewhat sexually inexperienced/shy in bed
-I am 24 and have a lot of experience/know what I am doing
-She has never came from sex before
-Today I bought an expensive bondage restraint kit and vibrator.
-Tonight I plan on tying her to my bed, legs in air, gag in mouth, blindfold on, and ****ing the **** out of her/using vibrator on her, without telling her beforehand
-Today I texted her and said "I have a surprise for you!" and refused to give any more details. I told her she had to come over to find out.
-Now I am having second thoughts that I may traumatize this girl
-Need opinions if I should continue as planned.

extra details-

This girl has wanted me for a long time. She has only slept with 3 guys before. She was with the first guy for a couple years, but he always came in under a minute. The next guy she was with couldn't ever get it up. And then she ****ed some fat guy once or twice. And now she is with me - extremely happy - best sex she has ever had in her life.

The girl is kind of shy and has anxiety/low self esteem. She has only had her pussy eaten once before she was with me and said it was terrible. She wouldn't let me do it for a while - when I finally did I completely changed her mind and now she loves it.

She has never came from sex ever. She has only came from a guy stimulating her clit, and this has only ever happened twice. She has some issue with letting go - she gets nervous or something. She also has never used a vibrator. So I had the brilliant idea to buy a vibrator, tie her down somewhat violently, gag and blindfold her, and then bust out the vibrator and use it without telling her. I figure maybe this will help her let go.

I mentioned this to her the other night when we were really drunk. I said "how would you like it if I tied you up, gagged you, blindfolded you and ****ed this **** out of you." She said "I don't know I never tried it before." I asked how she would react if I bought some rope and tied her up later this week. She said "ok I might try to fight but just do it anyway."

But we were really really drunk and I seriously doubt she even remembers the conversation. Will it scare the **** out of her if I invite her over my house tonight, throw her on my bed, and proceed with the plan without warning her?

Need serious advice here.

[TxTreb88]

do it

[buster_hymen]

"i might try to fight but just do it anyways"...... sounds like you're gonna be spending some time in teh prizin.

[Kaptn Krunch]

You gotta introduce sex toys and bondage at seperate times. No use going super crazy freaky only to have her flip the fcuk out on you. I'd say introduce vibrator to her and get it so she's getting off easily.

Then a while later, experiment more.

[Araj]

ass2mouth

[byates5637]

Originally Posted by Kaptn Krunch

You gotta introduce sex toys and bondage at seperate times. No use going super crazy freaky only to have her flip the fcuk out on you. I'd say introduce vibrator to her and get it so she's getting off easily.

Then a while later, experiment more.

Yea this is what I'm thinking too. I think I'll just show her the vib tonight and save the freaky bondage stuff for later. thanks

[lukeridnour08]

sounds like a good plan.
Id only add one thing though.
once you get her blindfolded, tied down, legs in the air, take some pics and post them for us

[QQ]

Originally Posted by byates5637

Cliffs
-Been dating this girl for one month, she has had crush on me for two years.
-She is young (19) and somewhat sexually inexperienced/shy in bed
-I am 24 and have a lot of experience/know what I am doing
-She has never came from sex before
-Today I bought an expensive bondage restraint kit and vibrator.
-Tonight I plan on tying her to my bed, legs in air, gag in mouth, blindfold on, and ****ing the **** out of her/using vibrator on her, without telling her beforehand
-Today I texted her and said "I have a surprise for you!" and refused to give any more details. I told her she had to come over to find out.
-Now I am having second thoughts that I may traumatize this girl
-Need opinions if I should continue as planned.

extra details-

This girl has wanted me for a long time. She has only slept with 3 guys before. She was with the first guy for a couple years, but he always came in under a minute. The next guy she was with couldn't ever get it up. And then she ****ed some fat guy once or twice. And now she is with me - extremely happy - best sex she has ever had in her life.

The girl is kind of shy and has anxiety/low self esteem. She has only had her pussy eaten once before she was with me and said it was terrible. She wouldn't let me do it for a while - when I finally did I completely changed her mind and now she loves it.

She has never came from sex ever. She has only came from a guy stimulating her clit, and this has only ever happened twice. She has some issue with letting go - she gets nervous or something. She also has never used a vibrator. So I had the brilliant idea to buy a vibrator, tie her down somewhat violently, gag and blindfold her, and then bust out the vibrator and use it without telling her. I figure maybe this will help her let go.

I mentioned this to her the other night when we were really drunk. I said "how would you like it if I tied you up, gagged you, blindfolded you and ****ed this **** out of you." She said "I don't know I never tried it before." I asked how she would react if I bought some rope and tied her up later this week. She said "ok I might try to fight but just do it anyway."

But we were really really drunk and I seriously doubt she even remembers the conversation. Will it scare the **** out of her if I invite her over my house tonight, throw her on my bed, and proceed with the plan without warning her?

Need serious advice here.

ROFL

[xMikroNx]

Originally Posted by Kaptn Krunch

You gotta introduce sex toys and bondage at seperate times. No use going super crazy freaky only to have her flip the fcuk out on you. I'd say introduce vibrator to her and get it so she's getting off easily.

Then a while later, experiment more.

^this, take ur time, and ENJOY.

[FunkDaddy]

Originally Posted by Kaptn Krunch

You gotta introduce sex toys and bondage at seperate times. No use going super crazy freaky only to have her flip the fcuk out on you. I'd say introduce vibrator to her and get it so she's getting off easily.

Then a while later, experiment more.

x3.

[B. Roth]

Originally Posted by Kaptn Krunch

You gotta introduce sex toys and bondage at seperate times. No use going super crazy freaky only to have her flip the fcuk out on you. I'd say introduce vibrator to her and get it so she's getting off easily.

Then a while later, experiment more.

Listen to this man. Another great post by the Kaptn.

[moorejustme2]

although this sounds like a good time you have to look at it through her eyes...I am not sure that she will be totally ok with you doing all of this at the same time to her. If she is inexperienced like you say then this might just push her away. You don't want to freak her out so maybe just tie her up and use the toy...i wouldn't go as far as gagging her though.

[samantha08]

introduce just the vibrator first.

slowly bring in the rest slowly or if she seemed really into it bust it all out for next time.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

I agree, slow down there fella. Tying someone up is one thing, but gagging them is a step further that probably would only appeal to someone really into bondage. As she's never done it before, it might really put her off. I think its one of those things you need to work up to slowly.

[Dre2010]

Originally Posted by JobForACowboy

ROFL

lmao I feel better now

[alilmotivation]

scare the **** out of her. haha

[MAXMUSCLE86]

Sounds like rape to me! Have fun!

[stealth_maven]

lol where does this chick come from

[byates5637]

man, you guys got no clue what rape is. Most women love when a man takes control like this, even if they wont admit it.

I do think i'm going to take it a little slower though.

And when I do eventually have her tied up and gagged, pics will follow.

[ay_giz_]

don't gag her. but tying her up and the blindfold should be ok.. just make sure u have a safe word. it can't be something like 'stop' or 'no'. i say blue petunias have fun

[Deja]

laff

Originally Posted by ay_giz_

don't gag her. but tying her up and the blindfold should be ok.. just make sure u have a safe word. it can't be something like 'stop' or 'no'. i say blue petunias have fun

[wimpking]

don't forget some super-sized anal love beads, you wanna make her airtight

[elandry]

[byates5637]

Originally Posted by wimpking

don't forget some super-sized anal love beads, you wanna make her airtight

good idea. thx

[Calhexas]

Originally Posted by byates5637

Cliffs
-Been dating this girl for one month, she has had crush on me for two years.
-She is young (19) and somewhat sexually inexperienced/shy in bed
-I am 24 and have a lot of experience/know what I am doing
-She has never came from sex before
-Today I bought an expensive bondage restraint kit and vibrator.
-Tonight I plan on tying her to my bed, legs in air, gag in mouth, blindfold on, and ****ing the **** out of her/using vibrator on her, without telling her beforehand
-Today I texted her and said "I have a surprise for you!" and refused to give any more details. I told her she had to come over to find out.
-Now I am having second thoughts that I may traumatize this girl
-Need opinions if I should continue as planned.

extra details-

This girl has wanted me for a long time. She has only slept with 3 guys before. She was with the first guy for a couple years, but he always came in under a minute. The next guy she was with couldn't ever get it up. And then she ****ed some fat guy once or twice. And now she is with me - extremely happy - best sex she has ever had in her life.

The girl is kind of shy and has anxiety/low self esteem. She has only had her pussy eaten once before she was with me and said it was terrible. She wouldn't let me do it for a while - when I finally did I completely changed her mind and now she loves it.

She has never came from sex ever. She has only came from a guy stimulating her clit, and this has only ever happened twice. She has some issue with letting go - she gets nervous or something. She also has never used a vibrator. So I had the brilliant idea to buy a vibrator, tie her down somewhat violently, gag and blindfold her, and then bust out the vibrator and use it without telling her. I figure maybe this will help her let go.

I mentioned this to her the other night when we were really drunk. I said "how would you like it if I tied you up, gagged you, blindfolded you and ****ed this **** out of you." She said "I don't know I never tried it before." I asked how she would react if I bought some rope and tied her up later this week. She said "ok I might try to fight but just do it anyway."

But we were really really drunk and I seriously doubt she even remembers the conversation. Will it scare the **** out of her if I invite her over my house tonight, throw her on my bed, and proceed with the plan without warning her?

Need serious advice here.

Too much. You're going to scare the **** out of this girl.

She might go through with it out of some misplaced sense of infatuation or intimidation. I don't think it matters which.

If you come at her all "hail-mary" like this...I don't see her coming back.

Unless she's that desperate.

[slowteg]

Wtf.

[was140]

Originally Posted by lukeridnour08

sounds like a good plan.
Id only add one thing though.
once you get her blindfolded, tied down, legs in the air, take some pics and post them for us

Yeah, Yeah do that

[BB_Surf]

I seriously laughed my ass off reading the OP's post.

[gotDOMS]

this **** is sad

[ay_giz_]

Originally Posted by gotDOMS

this **** is sad

why?