he looks like a player

[Tony_S]

Originally Posted by Al_Pal

lol. damn....



im not a player i just have a lot of STD's.

fixed

[C-Squared]

I've been accused of that when its not the case at all... I think when a guy says some things that don't slip by the radar and are caught as "just a little too perfect," it makes an alarm go off in a girl's head. Basically, its a girl catching you trying to get into your pants, which in fact does NOT make you a player cause you got caught! haha

[Tzone]

a true player does not need to lie to sleep with her. I see all the wannabee's who lie to sleep with her, and convince themselves they are a player

[stealth_maven]

Player's dont lie? Are you serious?

[ccm]

lying is what makes a player a player

[Scarface2883]

I've been accused of this many times as well for being single.. they wonder why I'm single so they have said "you look like a player, I bet you get alot of girls."....

."so, are you a player or just picky?"

I honestly don't consider myself a player so I usually just say I'm pretty picky on who I spend my time with.

[du3ce]

rip big pun

[C-Squared]

Originally Posted by stealth_maven

Player's dont lie? Are you serious?

I know right? That's usually the characterization haha...

But - and ok I'm a dork - but I was watching Two and a Half Men and this thing that Charlie Sheen said totally changed my mentality about approaching women. He's a player, but he never leads women on to the point where he can be "caught in a lie" or trapped in a bad situation... that's totally my new approach, and its definitely KEPT me from getting laid on several occasions, but it keeps my conscience 100% clear, and I do have success with it.

[InfectedWithBB]

Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

I was just about the say the exact same thing. I'll only speak for myself but when I'm out and about, if I see guys, I immediately judge if he could be a player or not (going by what duval said). I don't even think about it.

Wait...so is that bad thing or a good thing? Or do you just use them for temporary fun?

[Sunshine143]

Originally Posted by KillahPriest

but what if he dont wanna be a player no more?

Then he needs to stop banging girls just because they are hawt. He needs to find a real relationship; not just a hook up.

[LovesMuscles]

Originally Posted by InfectedWithBB

Wait...so is that bad thing or a good thing? Or do you just use them for temporary fun?

It will never go past friendship. Maybe it's b/c I live in NY and can easily spot them. IDK.

And that's a bad thing, btw.

[InfectedWithBB]

Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

It will never go past friendship. Maybe it's b/c I live in NY and can easily spot them. IDK.

And that's a bad thing, btw.

That is ridiculous. Seriously, maybe thats my problem. But what does a good looking guy have to do to look NOT like a player and normal but confident guy?

[LovesMuscles]

Originally Posted by InfectedWithBB

That is ridiculous. Seriously, maybe thats my problem. But what does a good looking guy have to do to look NOT like a player and normal but confident guy?

I honestly don't know. It's just a vibe I get, maybe from the way he walk or his gestures when he speaks.

I'm assuming you've been mistaken for one?

[Meptar]

Originally Posted by InfectedWithBB

That is ridiculous. Seriously, maybe thats my problem. But what does a good looking guy have to do to look NOT like a player and normal but confident guy?

lovesmuscles is a very nonsexual girl. shes probably not gonna be havin sex at all until shes like 26 and ready to get married.

she is looking for the right person and doesnt wanna have sex with a man who isnt in love with her, and because theres no way for her to find out if a man really actually loves her...

maybe she doesnt want a man to "love her", but she just wants the man to "not be using her". really its the same concept

lovesmuscles wants to have sex with the right man but there is no way for her to know when a man is the "right man".... lovesmuscles doesnt really know what to do but she isnt a "fukk now and ask questions later" type of girl, so i guess she has to find the answers to her problems first before she starts sexing again

lovesmuscles has a major shield going on. not even the most beautiful hot charming cool guy in the world could get her to spread her legs...

what im trying to say is, looking like a player is a good thing for most women, it just wont get you anywhere with girls like her

[InfectedWithBB]

Originally Posted by Meptar

lovesmuscles is a very nonsexual girl. shes probably not gonna be havin sex at all until shes like 26 and ready to get married.

she is looking for the right person and doesnt wanna have sex with a man who isnt in love with her, and because theres no way for her to find out if a man really actually loves her...

maybe she doesnt want a man to "love her", but she just wants the man to "not be using her". really its the same concept

lovesmuscles wants to have sex with the right man but there is no way for her to know when a man is the "right man".... lovesmuscles doesnt really know what to do but she isnt a "fukk now and ask questions later" type of girl, so i guess she has to find the answers to her problems first before she starts sexing again

lovesmuscles has a major shield going on. not even the most beautiful hot charming cool guy in the world could get her to spread her legs...

what im trying to say is, looking like a player is a good thing for most women, it just wont get you anywhere with girls like her

I'm pretty sure she f8cks boys.

[Meptar]

Originally Posted by InfectedWithBB

I'm pretty sure she f8cks boys.

she keeps talking about how she aint gonna have sex with another guy for a long time for whatever reasons....

[LovesMuscles]

Originally Posted by Meptar

lovesmuscles is a very nonsexual girl. shes probably not gonna be havin sex at all until shes like 26 and ready to get married.

she is looking for the right person and doesnt wanna have sex with a man who isnt in love with her, and because theres no way for her to find out if a man really actually loves her...

maybe she doesnt want a man to "love her", but she just wants the man to "not be using her". really its the same concept

lovesmuscles wants to have sex with the right man but there is no way for her to know when a man is the "right man".... lovesmuscles doesnt really know what to do but she isnt a "fukk now and ask questions later" type of girl, so i guess she has to find the answers to her problems first before she starts sexing again

lovesmuscles has a major shield going on. not even the most beautiful hot charming cool guy in the world could get her to spread her legs...

what im trying to say is, looking like a player is a good thing for most women, it just wont get you anywhere with girls like her

You joined in Aug. How the hell do you know all that? You pretty much summed me up.

And to add, I've heard a lot of girls say that they've gone after the player in an effort to catch him/tie him down. If they can do it, they see it as an accomplishment. I'd probably try this myself.

[InfectedWithBB]

Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

You joined in Aug. How the hell do you know all that? You pretty much summed me up.

And to add, I've heard a lot of girls say that they've gone after the player in an effort to catch him/tie him down. If they can do it, they see it as an accomplishment. I'd probably try this myself.

Hopefully with sex involved or else I'm going to be so screwed with my attitude .

[Meptar]

Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

You joined in Aug. How the hell do you know all that? You pretty much summed me up.

And to add, I've heard a lot of girls say that they've gone after the player in an effort to catch him/tie him down. If they can do it, they see it as an accomplishment. I'd probably try this myself.

im vegeta9000 i got like 50+ banned accounts i been here for years

lol you wanna catch and tie down a player? why?

why not just have sex with the fat nerd who will love you but he lifts weights and is strong and can pound your pussy better than the player? pm me for my info

[LovesMuscles]

Originally Posted by Meptar

im vegeta9000 i got like 50+ banned accounts i been here for years

lol you wanna catch and tie down a player? why?

why not just have sex with the fat nerd who will love you but he lifts weights and is strong and can pound your pussy better than the player? pm me for my info

Just for fun. Not exactly date him but to see if I can take it as far as almost dating. Kind of like a guy tying down a hoe (if it's even possible).

And lol at the last part. Absolutely not.

[milf122]

Casual sex doesn't make a guy a player. It makes them completely skeezy in my opinion but a guy doesn't become a "player" until he starts two-timing. (Or three or four..)

[Meptar]

Originally Posted by LovesMuscles

Just for fun. Not exactly date him but to see if I can take it as far as almost dating. Kind of like a guy tying down a hoe (if it's even possible).

And lol at the last part. Absolutely not.

guys never try to tie down a hoe/slut. they just use them for sex.
a man has never thought about changing a girl... its just not something we think about. its not in a guys nature to want their girl to love him... he just wants sex. men dont really care if their girlfriend loves him or not.

take al_pal for instance. he isnt mad because his girl doesnt love him. he is mad because his girl decided that she would stop giving him sex.

guys want sex out of a relationship. girls want the man to love her and girls want the man to be someone she knows she can love back.

most girls never give an unattractive man a chance at that first date because most girls think she cant ever bring herself to love that ugly man, but really i think if an attractive guy sucks in bed a girl wont love him either. i think girls love a man who is good in bed, but theres no way for her to KNOW if hes good in bed, and attractiveness is like a misleading book cover and girls subconsciously think a bad looking guy is bad in bed, and girls subconsciously think a good looking guy is good in bed.

thats why girls never give an ugly guy a chance until she gets halfway drunk and has drunk sex with an ugly guy, but she is still sober enough to feel pleasure and remember if the sex was good or bad and then if the sex was really really good then she ends up liking that guy even if he was ugly.

sometimes a fat ugly dude can pound pussy good. if theres a fat guy at a gym that can bench 400+ pounds he is probably a god in bed if you give him a chance. you'll get much better pleasure and orgasm's than some stupid pretty boy that has so many girls hitting on him he doesnt even bother trying to be good in the sack.

if a girl actually gives me the honor of letting me fukk her then i try my damn hardest to please her. i go the extra mile i last a long time and i fukk her brains out and when she tells me to stop, i keep going and tell her to stfu and i use some lube too incase her body for some reason is unable to make enough lube. in my experiance if a girl wants to stop it just means she is getting dry for some reason (not enough water in her diet maybe, who knows) so just use lube and finish her off.

2 girls have let me fukk them and both of them are now super in love with my dick, one of them is my girlfriend and the other one is the crazy ex but i found her another boyfriend so she is off my nuts for now... both of them said wtf they never woulda thought i woulda been this good in bed. well if i wasnt fat id be a pretty attractive guy i just eat too much and im too fat but i lift a lot of weights and im strong as hell and i guess im gonna keep lifting weights until i drop teh fat. once i get lean im gonna be like a 10 in male looks

[stealth_maven]

Originally Posted by C-Squared

I know right? That's usually the characterization haha...

But - and ok I'm a dork - but I was watching Two and a Half Men and this thing that Charlie Sheen said totally changed my mentality about approaching women. He's a player, but he never leads women on to the point where he can be "caught in a lie" or trapped in a bad situation... that's totally my new approach, and its definitely KEPT me from getting laid on several occasions, but it keeps my conscience 100% clear, and I do have success with it.

...go on?

[Bako3G]

Originally Posted by DJ-DuvalFLA

I used to hit them with the "Why you worried about it? You aint even my type" in a playful tone whenever they would say you look like a "player"

nice counter-attack. haha

[InfectedWithBB]

Once again, from girls' perspective, what do good looking guys have to do not to seem like players? Look humbler? Stop shaving? Start cutting face?

Its a serious stereotype issue...

[milf122]

Originally Posted by InfectedWithBB

Once again, from girls' perspective, what do good looking guys have to do not to seem like players? Look humbler? Stop shaving? Start cutting face?

Its a serious stereotype issue...

Be honest - if you AREN'T a player then it'll be easy to make her see you're not.

[stealth_maven]

Originally Posted by milf122

Be honest - if you AREN'T a player then it'll be easy to make her see you're not.

I'm not a player, but girls think I am. What I gotta do, write you bitches a poem? a song maybe to prove it? And then after I do that you run to the players, go figure.

Dumb hoes.

[Grug]

If you want to look like a player get yourself a jersey

[JR818]

I've noticed(at least in my experience) that once a girl thinks you're a player, she'll always think that, its like its engraved in their brain from that point. For some reason, I've heard it about a 100 times in the past few months, just because I've become much more confident and have the mentality that I can pick up any female I come across, and somehow girls can pick this up really fast. Basically, "player" is good if you want a one-nighter, but you're not gonna get anywhere with a girl who is looking for a relationship at all.

[musclebound2007]

Originally Posted by stealth_maven

I'm not a player, but girls think I am. What I gotta do, write you bitches a poem? a song maybe to prove it? And then after I do that you run to the players, go figure.

Dumb hoes.

You have claimed you are a player. Even wrote the comparison between female behaviors and their likeness to player's behaviors.

So stfu!