Birth control...and condoms...[serious]

verticalx1 · 08-25-2008, 08:20 PM

So me and my girl - shes on birth control. Been doin her for close to a month, and shes gotten her period and you know, she talked to me about using condoms just for safety while shes on birth control as that isn't 100% effective. Shes been on birth control close to a year if that matters.

My question is: I have no experience w condoms and stuff....will having the condoms help or make sex worst or anything? (I'm not circumcised either if that matters)

This is a serious question as I worry about this **** myself just like everyone else should. Thanks.

Montreal69er · 08-25-2008, 08:31 PM

Well... Condoms Definitely DON'T make sex better!! It makes sex SAFER, but not better. If anything its makes sex more boring and harder IMO.

I last too long with a condom, sometimes I can't even get a hard on with a rubber because I'm so used to sex without a condom... I'm uncut and I personaly hate condoms unless the girl isn't on any kind of birth control... thats the only time where I'll want to wear one. I've been fortunate enough that most of the girls I've bedded were on BC and wanted raw sex (luv it!)... I'm also STD free... If the girl ask' for proof, I usually carry a recent test in my wallet lol.

Chakra · 08-25-2008, 08:35 PM

recent test covers you for 5 minutes ago dude!

quietstormx1 · 08-25-2008, 08:36 PM

my girlfriend is like this. shes on bc but i still have to wear a condom >.<

if youre used to NOT wearing one, than wearing one is going to suck for you, and well probably her too. it wouldnt feel anywhere near the same.

with one on im a champ, without one i dont go for very long lol....cuz im not used to it.

get ULTRA thin and that may help....barely.

verticalx1 · 08-25-2008, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Montreal69er

Well... Condoms Definitely DON'T make sex better!! It makes sex SAFER, but not better. If anything its makes sex more boring and harder IMO.

I last too long with a condom, sometimes I can't even get a hard on with a rubber because I'm so used to sex without a condom... I'm uncut and I personaly hate condoms unless the girl isn't on any kind of birth control... thats the only time where I'll want to wear one. I've been fortunate enough that most of the girls I've bedded were on BC and wanted raw sex (luv it!)... I'm also STD free... If the girl ask' for proof, I usually carry a recent test in my wallet lol.

Can I ask you how long you last without one? I personally will last for like 2 minutes flat (going slowly) and stuff.....I wish I could last longer, but I do it by stopping for a few seconds and doing it again. I might be giving condoms a try...well see how long it takes for me to put it on for a beginner lol.

Quiet Storm: Whats the diff between ultra thin and the others? I have never used or bought one, so some explanation helps.

-Taylor.Made- · 08-25-2008, 08:39 PM

condoms suck...

yoj · 08-25-2008, 08:42 PM

A little while after I first started having sex, my GF's friends all tried to persuade her to use condoms, and that I was an a-hole for not using them (while she had been on the pill for 2 months already). I used them once and told her never again haha. I nutted in her (no pullout) for 3 years, all was well. She always took it within 2 hours of the same time every night. If she ever missed a pill we skipped sex until the next cycle (yeah I opted for no sex/rare BJ over condom sex, thats how bad condom sex is brah!). If you don't think she is the most reliable person, don't trust her with the pill. If it is not taken at the same time every day, things can go south very easily.

Talk to your GF about an IUD. They are cheaper in the long run than BC pill and MUCH more effective because human error is eliminated (and trust me its only one drunk night where she pukes it up and forgets about it, happened to me but she realized she puked it up, no sex that month).

Montreal69er · 08-25-2008, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by verticalx1

Can I ask you how long you last without one? I personally will last for like 2 minutes flat (going slowly) and stuff.....I wish I could last longer, but I do it by stopping for a few seconds and doing it again. I might be giving condoms a try...well see how long it takes for me to put it on for a beginner lol.

Quiet Storm: Whats the diff between ultra thin and the others? I have never used or bought one, so some explanation helps.

How long I last depends on several factors such as: How horny/turned on I am, my mood, how long its been since I last blew my load, my energy level (how tired I am), the girl itself and how she looks/tastes/smells, and food/alcohol/drugs can also have a serious impact. But on average I'd probably say around 25-30 minutes.... theres been times where I lasted about 5 minutes and others where I lasted a full hour or more, so 30 minutes is a pretty good average.

If you want to last longer, one good thing you can do is switch positions often, it will distract you long enough that it calms you down and switching it up is Fun!!

Navigator416 · 08-25-2008, 09:14 PM

The pill is NOT 100%. Remember that. I know girls that have gotten pregnant while on the pill regularly. If you aren't going to use a condom I would not cum in her.

yabudday · 08-25-2008, 09:51 PM

the thing is that if she wants you to wear a rubber then you need to wear one because shes the one letting you smash. at least respect her request and then maybe try to talk to her about having sex without it while shes on BC. dont make it a habit to bust inside of her though. better safe than sorry and the money shot is just as rewarding imo.

_Girgantuan_ · 08-25-2008, 09:54 PM

I hated to have to wear condoms when I broke up with my girl (a year and some months ago?)...

Never really had experience with condoms since she had this copper thing shaped like a T in her. I forget what it's called though.

Any of you know what I'm talking about?

EDIT: NVM! it's called an IUD.

yoj · 08-25-2008, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by _Girgantuan_

I hated to have to wear condoms when I broke up with my girl (a year and some months ago?)...

Never really had experience with condoms since she had this copper thing shaped like a T in her. I forget what it's called though.

Any of you know what I'm talking about?

Thats an IUD (intrauterine device).

healthyChick25 · 08-25-2008, 10:39 PM

Its very rare that me and my bf do not use condoms. I have been on BC forever, but I don't want to take that chance. Plus the odd time we go bareback, it makes it all the more exciting.

It just sucks that magnums don't have the same variety as the regular sized condoms. We usually end up with the same kind everytime, which can make it a bit boring. Torjan needs to change that up.

I'm a strict no glove no love gal.

healthyChick25 · 08-25-2008, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted by yoj

Thats an IUD (intrauterine device).

I'm an IUD baby... haha. Was a good but unexpected surprise from my parents right around the time they were debating removing it.