Dude dont be so cruel to me. I have feelings also ok!
when i decided to grow my hair long my parents thought i was being stupid,
when i came home one day with a studded belt and fingerless gloves they thought i was gay,
when i came home the week after with tight jeans and eyeliner they started acting like i am an embarrassment to the family.
when i dress how i do, i feel comfortable and confident but all my family think i am some kind of freak. im still the same person, just i feel that how i dress now better represents who i am, why should i be treated differently for being myself?
i overheard my parents talking about me a few weeks ago they were saying things like "he used to be such a smart boy" and "its just a phase, it'll pass". they dont understand that this is who i am and they dont accept me for who i am and that makes me really unhappy
Why the **** are you so surprised dude your trying to get attention the wrong way. When you act like a looser or a bitch on an outsider. Guess what people are going to treat you that way. I know its sad but people are mean. You need to forgive your dad for being an ******* and say out of his way or change until your out of his house. Dude you acting like an emo is not something most dad's would like there kids to be doing.
Good luck with life. Hope its not to hard for you. You'll learn and be a stronger person when your older from all this.
OP, is this thread just for gaining sympathy for your situation? I feel your pain, but attracting attention to yourself in the wrong way. If life's getting you down, why not go get some counseling rather than letting your tears flow on a message board?
Sorry if I am sounding harsh, but there are better places to get the help you need.
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Dude dont be so cruel to me. I have feelings also ok!
when i decided to grow my hair long my parents thought i was being stupid,
when i came home one day with a studded belt and fingerless gloves they thought i was gay,
when i came home the week after with tight jeans and eyeliner they started acting like i am an embarrassment to the family.
when i dress how i do, i feel comfortable and confident but all my family think i am some kind of freak. im still the same person, just i feel that how i dress now better represents who i am, why should i be treated differently for being myself?
i overheard my parents talking about me a few weeks ago they were saying things like "he used to be such a smart boy" and "its just a phase, it'll pass". they dont understand that this is who i am and they dont accept me for who i am and that makes me really unhappy
If they say **** about you just knock em one n see what they say ... I would.
They are also right ... pretty much a phase ... you'll soon relise no one will give you a decent job (other than mcdonalds) looking like that.
Your dad obviously shouldn't have been given the privilege of having a child much less raising one.
It's obvious that how he treats you is how he really feels about himself inside. It's not really about you so don't take it to heart.
Why the **** are you so surprised dude your trying to get attention the wrong way. When you act like a looser or a bitch on an outsider. Guess what people are going to treat you that way. I know its sad but people are mean. You need to forgive your dad for being an ******* and say out of his way or change until your out of his house. Dude you acting like an emo is not something most dad's would like there kids to be doing.
Good luck with life. Hope its not to hard for you. You'll learn and be a stronger person when your older from all this.
But he should accept me for who I am, atleast im not making out with other dudes like the emo guys do. I like how I look and I think it is very cruel how people make fun of me for expressing myself!
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Originally Posted by MindlessWork
OP, is this thread just for gaining sympathy for your situation? I feel your pain, but attracting attention to yourself in the wrong way. If life's getting you down, why not go get some counseling rather than letting your tears flow on a message board?
Sorry if I am sounding harsh, but there are better places to get the help you need.
I cant afford counsling, my job pays real low and my father hates me and just wants me out of his life, only place I can vent is here!
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Originally Posted by Nathancl
If they say **** about you just knock em one n see what they say ... I would.
They are also right ... pretty much a phase ... you'll soon relise no one will give you a decent job (other than mcdonalds) looking like that.
McDonalds isnt a decent job hahaha!
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Originally Posted by dksemple
Your dad obviously shouldn't have been given the privilege of having a child much less raising one.
It's obvious that how he treats you is how he really feels about himself inside. It's not really about you so don't take it to heart.
Thanks Trojan, I knew you would understand, your such a good friend of mine Thanks for the comfort!
On a side note!
Ok.. theres this girl i really really really like.. i fink i might even love her <3.. She claims im one of her best friends, and im the only one she can truly trust.. and half of the stuff we talk about is the guys she likes.. shes liked this real punk since be4 october.. and she has had many girlfriends, and she cheats wit her on them.. and doesnt regret anything, but still wants him.. and then this other punk, who she started likeing becuz she heard he liked her, and there goin out now.. and i hung out wit them alone the day they started goin out, so hes my friend and he knows i really like her, and she.. hoos clueless.. so i start crying, so i walk away.. n they follow me.. they know im sad, but dont know y.. and i havent talked to either of them since... my heart has broken completely.. and i feel there is no one for me.. no one at all... and i really need advice on what to do... "he ripped my heart out and left me here to bleed".....
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Thanks Trojan, I knew you would understand, your such a good friend of mine Thanks for the comfort!
On a side note!
Ok.. theres this girl i really really really like.. i fink i might even love her <3.. She claims im one of her best friends, and im the only one she can truly trust.. and half of the stuff we talk about is the guys she likes.. shes liked this real punk since be4 october.. and she has had many girlfriends, and she cheats wit her on them.. and doesnt regret anything, but still wants him.. and then this other punk, who she started likeing becuz she heard he liked her, and there goin out now.. and i hung out wit them alone the day they started goin out, so hes my friend and he knows i really like her, and she.. hoos clueless.. so i start crying, so i walk away.. n they follow me.. they know im sad, but dont know y.. and i havent talked to either of them since... my heart has broken completely.. and i feel there is no one for me.. no one at all... and i really need advice on what to do... "he ripped my heart out and left me here to bleed".....
holy **** ur a queer, you need to control ur ****ing ***gotry. As much as girls say they like a sensitive man, they do not like a little baby.
I am human also and have feelings you jerks, give me a break now!
stfu and grow some balls. .
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Dude dont be so cruel to me. I have feelings also ok!
when i decided to grow my hair long my parents thought i was being stupid,
when i came home one day with a studded belt and fingerless gloves they thought i was gay,
when i came home the week after with tight jeans and eyeliner they started acting like i am an embarrassment to the family.
when i dress how i do, i feel comfortable and confident but all my family think i am some kind of freak. im still the same person, just i feel that how i dress now better represents who i am, why should i be treated differently for being myself?
i overheard my parents talking about me a few weeks ago they were saying things like "he used to be such a smart boy" and "its just a phase, it'll pass". they dont understand that this is who i am and they dont accept me for who i am and that makes me really unhappy
man i feel for you....thats a lot to deal with....you just haave to surround yourself with ppl that are going to build you up, and even when ppl tear you down or question you try not to let it get to you(i kno you've probably heard that a lot)....i mean it coming from your family thats hard....and take it for what its worth but the only thing i can think of is just trust in god and pray....be you no matter what despite what some may say or do....
if you wanna cut your self, got to the gym and cut some some muscles by working out.
anyway people used to call me emo because I had long hair but thats is anerror after they got to know me they didnt calld me emo they called me evo(evil)
oh and people makes emo jokes because you are fakin emo.