Opening a set with 2 girls

I Tough I · 01-22-2008, 02:31 PM

Ok heres the deal ill try n make it short..I made a thread on this a while back about a gril i REALLY like thtas in my global class n that i usally see her once in a wile near the train.So all the times i seen her so far she been by herself waiting for the train but i was to much of a puss to talk to her plus i didnt know what to say...Now im a little(just a little)more confident to talk BUT now shes always either not at the train or at the train with a freind or 2.So today im like while im taking my midterm lol give me a fukin brake plz let her be at the train today.Great shes on the bs in the back i get of n she with a freind how am i suppose to talk to her if she with a freind every time?The train came in about 3 mintues any so its not like i was waiting there 20mintes or anything but im still a little pissed any advice on what to do?Oh yeah i never really talked to her yet

mikecart1 · 01-22-2008, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by I Tough I

Ok heres the deal ill try n make it short..I made a thread on this a while back about a gril i REALLY like thtas in my global class n that i usally see her once in a wile near the train.So all the times i seen her so far she been by herself waiting for the train but i was to much of a puss to talk to her plus i didnt know what to say...Now im a little(just a little)more confident to talk BUT now shes always either not at the train or at the train with a freind or 2.So today im like while im taking my midterm lol give me a fukin brake plz let her be at the train today.Great shes on the bs in the back i get of n she with a freind how am i suppose to talk to her if she with a freind every time?The train came in about 3 mintues any so its not like i was waiting there 20mintes or anything but im still a little pissed any advice on what to do?Oh yeah i never really talked to her yet

You live in NY. Make the train station your field. Just say anything.

adam75south · 01-22-2008, 02:41 PM

suck it up and talk to them. sit kinda close to them on the train and ask them where they're headed...non creepy though.

pcinternet · 01-22-2008, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by adam75south

suck it up and talk to them. sit kinda close to them on the train and ask them where they're headed...non creepy though.

Sounds like you see her everyday... IMO just make an eye contact and say hi... keep it simple untill you feel more comfortable...

Al_Pal · 01-22-2008, 02:49 PM

you'll never get any acting like one.

figure it out.

I Tough I · 01-22-2008, 04:02 PM

Lot easier said then done well atleast for me.I wouldent be as nervous if she was by herself but lately it seems like shes always with freinds.Should i just wait until she by herself?Dam i planned out everything i wanted to say to her today too

Harry Balsagna · 01-22-2008, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by I Tough I

Dam i planned out everything i wanted to say to her today too

Do not EVER do this...you will be ****ed.

I Tough I · 01-22-2008, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Harry Balsagna

Do not EVER do this...you will be ****ed.

Why i though that can atleast get me into a good convo instead of just saying hi to her with a blank mind with nothign tot alk about..If she was by herself today i was planning on goinjg up to her n saying Hi your (her name) your in my global class.....she talks....so what did u think of the global midterm,,,she talks....etc......and then it seem it would be great from there

I Tough I · 01-22-2008, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by I Tough I

Why i though that can atleast get me into a good convo instead of just saying hi to her with a blank mind with nothign tot alk about..If she was by herself today i was planning on goinjg up to her n saying Hi your (her name) your in my global class.....she talks....so what did u think of the global midterm,,,she talks....etc......and then it seem it would be great from there

ANyhting..I got nice green boxes

BBLaw30 · 01-22-2008, 10:54 PM

opening sets with 2 girls are money cuz you just greet them and then you say something like "so how long have you guys been best friends for" and then when they respond say something about that and then compare them to eachother and stuff. its a good way to involve them both in the convo without focusing on one cuz thats rude and they wont respond to that.

So you ask them how long and they say since kindergarten...Be like o sweet so were you guys the cool kids in kindgergarten who had the badass lunches or were you those weird creepy kids with buggers on their face and eating paste?...

just go on be funny dont be creepy and dont talk about boring mindless chatter....

gl

Beagle269 · 01-22-2008, 11:04 PM

exactly, as that prior post, let them do the talking. it doesn't matter what you say at first, but, turn it over to them, and ask them questions. Try and be funny, and cheerful. I might recommend talking mostly to the one that your not interested in at first, it puts the one your interested in the right mindset so shes not on the defensive. And even more-so, just talk to them for fun, challenge yourself to talk to them so 'see if you can do it' And not simply just to be hitting on them. Well, wtf, why I am responding, I suck at this stuff! haha

MrBrain- · 01-23-2008, 06:15 AM

I can tell from ur mindframe that ur already ****ed...garunteed crash and burn.ur best bet would be to try and blow urself out, so that ur acctually confident cose u know ur gonna fail anyways. walk in and talk absolute ****.

'Yeah ****ing bannanas....god damn, they just talk to too many rabbit hey? Like seriously...im ****ign sick of it....we reallly need to tell them to be more like umbrellas cose im just over it. im over it.;

lol might be liberating, and at least u wont be a puss saying that.

dog20 · 01-23-2008, 07:11 AM

just say the most random ****.

"who here likes bananas? you do? WOW! ME TOO! they are my favorite fruit, blah blah."

captainhorseboy · 01-23-2008, 07:50 AM

thats very interesting because Ok heres the deal ill try n make it short..I made a thread on this a while back about a gril i REALLY like thtas in my global class n that i usally see her once in a wile near the train.So all the times i seen her so far she been by herself waiting for the train but i was to much of a puss to talk to her plus i didnt know what to say...Now im a little(just a little)more confident to talk BUT now shes always either not at the train or at the train with a freind or 2.So today im like while im taking my midterm lol give me a fukin brake plz let her be at the train today.Great shes on the bs in the back i get of n she with a freind how am i suppose to talk to her if she with a freind every time?The train came in about 3 mintues any so its not like i was waiting there 20mintes or anything but im still a little pissed any advice on what to do?Oh yeah i never really talked to her yet

seriously though, i couldnt understand a goddamn thing you posted

kartikr · 01-23-2008, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by captainhorseboy

thats very interesting because Ok heres the deal ill try n make it short..I made a thread on this a while back about a gril i REALLY like thtas in my global class n that i usally see her once in a wile near the train.So all the times i seen her so far she been by herself waiting for the train but i was to much of a puss to talk to her plus i didnt know what to say...Now im a little(just a little)more confident to talk BUT now shes always either not at the train or at the train with a freind or 2.So today im like while im taking my midterm lol give me a fukin brake plz let her be at the train today.Great shes on the bs in the back i get of n she with a freind how am i suppose to talk to her if she with a freind every time?The train came in about 3 mintues any so its not like i was waiting there 20mintes or anything but im still a little pissed any advice on what to do?Oh yeah i never really talked to her yet
seriously though, i couldnt understand a goddamn thing you posted

Your problem seems pretty similar to that of the OPs . But I think you went about it completely wrong. This reminds me of when I was faced with a similar situation.

A girl i really like thtas in my global class n that i usally see her once in a wile near the train.So all the times i seen her so far she been by herself waiting for the train but i was to much of a puss to talk to her plus i didnt know what to say...Now im a little(just a little)more confident to talk BUT now shes always either not at the train or at the train with a freind or 2.So today im like while im taking my midterm lol give me a fukin brake plz let her be at the train today.Great shes on the bs in the back i get of n she with a freind how am i suppose to talk to her if she with a freind every time?The train came in about 3 mintues any so its not like i was waiting there 20mintes or anything but im still a little pissed any advice on what to do?Oh yeah i never really talked to her yet