My friend is in Iraq- his fiance getting close with another dude? - Page 2

Patrice_Lumumba · 01-09-2008, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by xagdxvips

doesn't have to be for military, but all women cheat. even if she says she was at work, how do you possibly know she's not meeting up with some guy at his place and sucking his dick? are you gonna follow her around all the time? relationships are a joke. ladies are nothing more than sex objects. they're not funny, and are annoying. they're only good for sucking dick and cooking, and if they end up cheating on you, they take half because our system is soooo ****ed up in many ways. my advice, don't get attached to women. all whores.

Yeah, but this guy is in a warzone on the other side of the world, there isn't a damn thing he can do about it. At least if your chick cheats on you while you share the same area codes, you can get revenge or go out and fuk other chicks.

Freestyle72 · 01-09-2008, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by xagdxvips

doesn't have to be for military, but all women cheat. even if she says she was at work, how do you possibly know she's not meeting up with some guy at his place and sucking his dick? are you gonna follow her around all the time? relationships are a joke. ladies are nothing more than sex objects. they're not funny, and are annoying. they're only good for sucking dick and cooking, and if they end up cheating on you, they take half because our system is soooo ****ed up in many ways. my advice, don't get attached to women. all whores.

how can you generalize **** like that about women. What about your mother?

puro supafly · 01-09-2008, 09:29 PM

To the OP, why don't you look into hiring a private detective? That way they won't know you're involved. Some other guy who has the time and resources will follow them. I'm not sure if its expensive or not, but even if it is, he's a really close friend of yours. If his girl is cheating, and he finds out, at least he'll know that his buddy is looking out for him and willing spend some money to protect his name from some cheating whore.

At least look into it...

Kanji4488 · 01-09-2008, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by puro supafly

To the OP, why don't you look into hiring a private detective? That way they won't know you're involved. Some other guy who has the time and resources will follow them. I'm not sure if its expensive or not, but even if it is, he's a really close friend of yours. If his girl is cheating, and he finds out, at least he'll know that his buddy is looking out for him and willing spend some money to protect his name from some cheating whore.

At least look into it...

best suggjestion so far...repped

MaximumVelocity · 01-09-2008, 09:42 PM

Only if this was the first time I heard about this. It is not really that the finance is getting closer. It could be that the guy is trying to cross boarders he should not be. Most, not all! I am not going to generalize on this but every women I known so far besides my sister, they don't realize when a guy is trying to move in on a relationship to take advantage of the woman. Changes are this chick could be fully committed and the guy is just not respecting the boundaries. Women seem to not realize when guys are moving in on them.
Of course that is what you should hope for. The worse matter could be that she is actually getting closer to this guy.

velardesd · 01-10-2008, 03:26 AM

Ok, I think that you are looking out for your buddy and that is ALL GOOD. I have heard a lot of **** about guys coming home and their girl not being there and THAT SUCKS. BUT, make sure that you are checking with your buddy too...I know A LOT, I repeat A LOT of military couples that have "friends" that their man knows about. Yes, that "A" man, that he calls up and say, "hey buddy, I am going on deployment, take care of her until I get back." it is a mutual agreement and he helps the other one out when he is gone too. I don't do this, I never had to , and I haven't been deployed, so don;t go there! BUT, I am just saying, you would be surprised what "agreements" that couples have to keep the each other close and not have her running off or him running off falling "in=love" out of loneliness or boredom/ stress. Just keep it in mind, You night want to have a heart to heart with your buddy and find out if he even knows about "Jimbo the Neighbor " or whoever he is...
Just a little prior service wisdom and insight

Poofy Nesbit · 01-10-2008, 05:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Orpheus333

I got a call from this girl who kept asking if my my friend and his fiance were still engaged... I've not heard otherwise so yes. Then shes like "well, shes here with another guy and they were holding hands." They were at a mall, not the one in town, the better one about 30-45min away, not a big trip but you'd make a day out of it.

My buddy I have known since before 1st grade and we graduated high school together. He is currently in deployed in Iraq running around Bagdad somewhere. This is really his first serious girl.

Now, I'm not one to jump to conclusions easily, but what do you think? I want to know who he is and figure out their deal, but for now thats all I know. Maybe its nothing?

The guy is a hero; the chick is obviously fucking trash if she is gonna pull that **** whilst he is putting his life on the line for his country and countrymen. Tough to know if you should tell him or not; you'd have to spend a bit of time with him first - but fucking cane her for it right now. Rip her a new ass. Ho

Poofy Nesbit · 01-10-2008, 05:19 AM

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Originally Posted by juggerburn

i'm starting to believe that women just can't help themselves...it's time to stop looking at them like they have that much more control then us.

I stopped that about 6 years ago. Best decision I ever made.

nognig · 01-10-2008, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by importrev

that kinda **** is really horrible. the dude is in the desert literally sweating his balls off and women do **** like this......

Makes me fckin' sick.

I'm not sure if the OP should say something right now or not. The guy is stuck in Iraq (risking his ass) what can he do?

I'd say wait, gather more evidence and let him know next time he gets leave to come back to the US.

NN

sgteddie2007 · 01-10-2008, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by velardesd

Ok, I think that you are looking out for your buddy and that is ALL GOOD. I have heard a lot of **** about guys coming home and their girl not being there and THAT SUCKS. BUT, make sure that you are checking with your buddy too...I know A LOT, I repeat A LOT of military couples that have "friends" that their man knows about. Yes, that "A" man, that he calls up and say, "hey buddy, I am going on deployment, take care of her until I get back." it is a mutual agreement and he helps the other one out when he is gone too. I don't do this, I never had to , and I haven't been deployed, so don;t go there! BUT, I am just saying, you would be surprised what "agreements" that couples have to keep the each other close and not have her running off or him running off falling "in=love" out of loneliness or boredom/ stress. Just keep it in mind, You night want to have a heart to heart with your buddy and find out if he even knows about "Jimbo the Neighbor " or whoever he is...
Just a little prior service wisdom and insight

Not to go waaay off topic but...

Sorry I've been doing this military game for a little while now and I couldn't help but think you couldn't be any more off base with that comment. Sure you have some people who are into things like that. Maybe a couple people you knew were into stuff like that, but to say "A LOT" of couples are into it? That's like going to a swing club and assuming every girl everywhere will f*ck anyone anywhere at a drop of a hat... I think thats about the most ridiculous statement I've ever heard..."Just a little prior service wisdom and insight" ?? Jesus what were you in...the Skank scouts?

Leeroy_Jenkins · 01-10-2008, 03:14 PM

cheaters.com - nuff said

Hard thing to tell a friend but wouldnt say it now. It drive him insane being so far from home.

luckyshark · 01-10-2008, 03:43 PM

Time to step in, wingman...OO-RAH.

velardesd · 01-14-2008, 01:50 AM

And as I so OBVIOUSLY stated, that I do not conform to that lifestyle, nor do I want to. It makes me SICK to hear about significant others that do this kind of CRAP while the other is deployed, and YES my fiance has been deployed 4 times to the Middle East as Marine and I just got out of the Army in August. And I am saying that I heard of it a lot, sorry that you felt that you have to go to the low blows right away, but of course that reflect on your character and intellect now , doesn't it? I am not surprised to read this response nowadays. Jusping as QUICKLY to conclusions as possible...just so that you can spot something ignorant out of your mouth.
I was just putting it out there to be wary of things UNKNOWN to some that are not in the relationship. He DID say that he didn;t know the girl very well, blah, blah....so whatever.

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Originally Posted by sgteddie2007

Not to go waaay off topic but...

Sorry I've been doing this military game for a little while now and I couldn't help but think you couldn't be any more off base with that comment. Sure you have some people who are into things like that. Maybe a couple people you knew were into stuff like that, but to say "A LOT" of couples are into it? That's like going to a swing club and assuming every girl everywhere will f*ck anyone anywhere at a drop of a hat... I think thats about the most ridiculous statement I've ever heard..."Just a little prior service wisdom and insight" ?? Jesus what were you in...the Skank scouts?

aenz1879 · 01-14-2008, 04:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Orpheus333

I got a call from this girl who kept asking if my my friend and his fiance were still engaged... I've not heard otherwise so yes. Then shes like "well, shes here with another guy and they were holding hands." They were at a mall, not the one in town, the better one about 30-45min away, not a big trip but you'd make a day out of it.

My buddy I have known since before 1st grade and we graduated high school together. He is currently in deployed in Iraq running around Bagdad somewhere. This is really his first serious girl.

Now, I'm not one to jump to conclusions easily, but what do you think? I want to know who he is and figure out their deal, but for now thats all I know. Maybe its nothing?

It happens all the time. Your friend will get over it.

PhoenixBuff · 01-14-2008, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Zab_Judah

That's why if I were ever to join the military, I would cut all relationship ties with the opposite sex, for I wouldn't be able to sleep at night wondering if my girl was staying faithful or not (thinks of Jarhead). And a fiance at 20, why getting engaged so early? Either way it's a bull**** predicament, and that girl is a ****, hope it's nothing.

That's what I did. Right before boot camp, I broke off my relationship with my girlfriend for these vary reasons. I saw this crap night and day while I was in the Navy - even my friends wives were screwing around while thier husbands/boyfriends were on deployment. Thank god I saw this before I even entered the Navy.

Relationships in the military never work.

FIVE OAKES · 01-14-2008, 06:34 AM

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Originally Posted by velardesd

And as I so OBVIOUSLY stated, that I do not conform to that lifestyle, nor do I want to. It makes me SICK to hear about significant others that do this kind of CRAP while the other is deployed, and YES my fiance has been deployed 4 times to the Middle East as Marine and I just got out of the Army in August. And I am saying that I heard of it a lot, sorry that you felt that you have to go to the low blows right away, but of course that reflect on your character and intellect now , doesn't it? I am not surprised to read this response nowadays. Jusping as QUICKLY to conclusions as possible...just so that you can spot something ignorant out of your mouth.
I was just putting it out there to be wary of things UNKNOWN to some that are not in the relationship. He DID say that he didn;t know the girl very well, blah, blah....so whatever.

I'm gonna have to back up SgtEddie2007 on this one. The people you're talking about would be an extreme minority. And keep in mind - just because someone (especially a woman) tells you they have a "mutual agreement" with their spouse, doesn't mean their spouse actually knows about it. Cheaters will do/say anything to hide and justify cheating. No man I've ever known would give another guy permission to **** his girl while he's deployed. When a guy tells his friend to "take care of" his girl while he's gone, both guys understand that "taking care of" means making sure she is safe and doesn't cheat - not being a surogate cock.

Mycophage · 01-14-2008, 07:02 AM

yeah, he def made two huge mistakes- young marriage, and relationships + military service.

i wouldn't even tell him until he's back, that's the last thing he needs on his mind when he's being shot at.

also, the few military friends i have are ALL huge into banging the local hookers in whatever country they're stationed in (not sure if they're representative), so he might not exactly be an angel, either.

vaporxx188 · 01-14-2008, 08:29 AM

ya man, DO NOT tell him yet. the last things he needs is another distraction while walking a beat in a tough neighborhood. if he asks tell him your keeping an eye on her and she's doing great. in the mean time, listen to everyone you need to gather evidence by means of friends (but always take third party info with a grain of salt). befriend some of her friends and then her, take your time tho.

women kill me. they want us men to respect them yet they sleep around and cheat. i dont ever feel bad for a woman these days. it just seems that a good portion of them have lost all morals

bone001000 · 01-14-2008, 09:35 AM

Your buddy made a few mistakes .
He engaged to a girl before being deployed overseas to combat. His girl is young and she's not going to want to wait for him if someone else comes around. It's a BIG GAMBLE.
This almost never works out.. Don't tell him while he's over there. It might cost him his life while in combat..He needs to focus in order to survive..Telling him now will devastate him and cause him to lose focus..

shivsean · 01-14-2008, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Rigit23

No ****. After reading some of this stuff, I strongly don't trust women.

That is called a cathartic moment, or cartharsis.

The term in drama refers to a sudden emotional breakdown or climax that constitutes overwhelming feelings of great sorrow, pity, laughter or any extreme change in emotion that results in the restoration, renewal and revitalization for living.

The key to the universe's problems lie in the golden rule to never trust a woman.

psamty · 01-14-2008, 11:27 AM

I lived in Dubai all my life before coming to the U.S.

The Marines were well-known for eating vast quantities of food and being the best customers of the sex industry. Chances are your friend has banged a hooker somewhere. Not blaming him though, after the level of intense stress that the servicemen go through, it is natural that they will not be in the state of mind to be faithful. They'll pretty much f*** anything that walks.

Oh, and expecting a girl to stay faithful is foolish. If she was over 25 and they had been together for a while, then its more likely that it would have worked. This situation is pretty much f***ed

velardesd · 01-21-2008, 02:04 AM

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Originally Posted by psamty

I lived in Dubai all my life before coming to the U.S.

The Marines were well-known for eating vast quantities of food and being the best customers of the sex industry. Chances are your friend has banged a hooker somewhere. Not blaming him though, after the level of intense stress that the servicemen go through, it is natural that they will not be in the state of mind to be faithful. They'll pretty much f*** anything that walks.

Oh, and expecting a girl to stay faithful is foolish. If she was over 25 and they had been together for a while, then its more likely that it would have worked. This situation is pretty much f***ed

OMG, finally someone who is being realistic. You just have to love them for who they are and **** the rest.

ineed$ · 01-21-2008, 02:16 AM

don't tell him yet. Take pics

Heavensport · 01-21-2008, 02:18 AM

Lucky he isn't married yet. One thing which will make me ****ing angry is seeing women get into a relationship with military personell, who risk their lives for the money they earn, then seeing these women cheat and take half of their earnings away from them. If that kinda **** ever happened to me I wouldn't ever let her forget what she did. I'd def make sure i got revenge.

Rexy · 01-21-2008, 04:55 AM

tell your friend when he gets back. Im the meantime, go to her house and attempt to piitb

Rammie11 · 01-21-2008, 04:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Orpheus333

I got a call from this girl who kept asking if my my friend and his fiance were still engaged... I've not heard otherwise so yes. Then shes like "well, shes here with another guy and they were holding hands." They were at a mall, not the one in town, the better one about 30-45min away, not a big trip but you'd make a day out of it.

My buddy I have known since before 1st grade and we graduated high school together. He is currently in deployed in Iraq running around Bagdad somewhere. This is really his first serious girl.

Now, I'm not one to jump to conclusions easily, but what do you think? I want to know who he is and figure out their deal, but for now thats all I know. Maybe its nothing?

even if it's nothing have a talk with the guy quietly and let him know how you feel in a non threatening way

Barbell Brandi · 01-21-2008, 07:59 AM

WOW!!! A woman that can do that to a man when he is giving his life to protect our country!! I cannot belive this. Honestly at his welcome home party take him aside and let him know. Deffintely do this if she is there. I know some women who just can stay single or faithful while there man is out wroking hard to protect us and our country!!! Be his best friend and let him know!!!