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To be clear, she didn't say she lost attraction. She gave me the "something's not right" and "I feel confused" etc. I take all of that to mean she lost attraction.

Thanks for your advice back in...

Yes, after we reconnected we fuked nearly everytime we saw each other. The last time we had sex she had two orgasms through penetration alone so I don't think sex was the issue.

Figured I’d give you guys an update.

She ended things with me last Tuesday. She said she was confused, feels like “something’s off/not right”, has anxiety around meeting my friends when she...

idk why this thread keeps getting bumped...it seems to be a settled matter, but i guess it's a good discussion topic.

Anyways, latest update since our date after reconciling...went out again on...

Because she said she "wasn't sure" about hanging out again. I was used to her saying yes. And, as others in this thread have said, "not sure" for many women means "no". So I took it to mean she was...

It went well, lasted 3 hours. 90% of it was her talking and me listening, asking follow up questions, etc. We didn’t even talk about the “breakup” at all, it’s like it never even happened. Didn't...

I've been on 4 dates this year, 3 of them have led to 2nd dates.

The other one...neither of us texted after the first date.

Thanks, will do.

Yeah I was living with regret given my bad performance last time. But given that she was open to "hanging out" again...maybe it wasn't that bad...? Dunno. Either way, she's...

Thanks guys for your help. Without this thread I would have just assumed she dumped me and it was over.

I asked her in follow up texts if it's workable, told her I'm not inflexible with the...

Yeah I agree she's on the fence. I was surprised how quickly she was willing to walk because of me not texting back soon enough and/or not getting the vaccine. A bit of a warning sign.

Yeah, minor detail I forgot to mention (sarcasm). But I also didn't realize it until later. Definitely not when we were texting on Monday.

As far as her asking me about my vax plans, I don't know...

If she's saying No, then why are we going out again this week?

Should could have ghosted me (got back to me in 20 mins), told me "I'm just not feeling it", etc etc. Not hard to do, she's done it...

I never said that

I'm 32. And, if I'm going to get the vaccine anyways (which I prob will) why not do it now?

I wouldn't get it for the girl, but there are other problems I'm coming across with not being vaxxed. I...

20 mins later...

https://i.imgur.com/MTu7C49.jpg

Ok I sent it.

Knowing her texting habits, she could get back to me in 5 mins, 6 hours, or 2 days.

Hold me misc...

Sending it early tomorrow afternoon. Didn't seem like a good text to send on a Friday night.

I'll update when I send it.

Dude that is KILLER. Love it. Casual, not sounding desperate. Making it clear I like her. I might send exactly that lol

The thing is, her dad is immunocompromised. So I think when she means it would "eventually" be an issue for her is...if I "eventually" meet her dad.

lol if she doesn't reply to my initial text I'm not gonna follow up again

What you guys don't see, is that she has mentioned to me in the past that me texting 1-2 days after a date is a little...