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Don't do it bro, it's not worth it.

It just makes you feel worse in the long run.

It took me 18 months to get over my ex, and part of it was because I kept breaking NC.

I went through the alone thing too, for ages, but you get past it eventually. Now I'm okay with being alone.

Ignoring everything is the best way to go. She's not worth it bro.

Yeah, I had a few girls flake out on me too over the last year or so, but it does get better.

*drops in*

Been about 7 months since I posted here, doing great myself.

How's everyone else doing?

Because temptation is so difficult to avoid.

I checked my ex's FB, Instagram, even searched her posts on forums we were both on in the first few months. All it did, however, was make me feel...

Yeah, I gotta agree.

I look back now at how I handled it, my posting on here, trying to get her back, all that crap and wonder now WTF what I thinking?

We have to all go through the crap, but...

This.

There is NOTHING you can do, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.

This is why you have NC. You don't talk to her, look at her, or her social media, have NO contact with her whatsoever.

Everytime you...

Don't do it, trust me, DON'T.

You can't be friends until you are completely over each other.

Cut contact with her completely bro. She's just trying to keep you in reserve. You have a new girlfriend, rejoice in that, and make HER your focus. Your ex isn't worth it bro, especially as she was...

Of course the sex is great; I bet it would be great with my ex too, because you already know each other so well.

Just be careful bro, that's all I'm saying. Guard your heart, if you decide to go...

Well, I can say from what I've seen that FWB doesn't work; someone always falls for the other, and given your history together, it's pretty likely to happen.

I'd say you need to work out what you...

Well... as far as slipups go, that's probably the worst.

But, tell me - what are you feelings towards her like now? Have they changed?

If it was just sex, with someone who knows what you...

I was the same, I wanted her to make her feel like she make me felt, but in the end, that just still means she has power over us, because we still care about what they feel.

I said some nasty...

Make sure you don't reply bro, this is perfectly normal. Yes, messages will bring the feels back, I know that personally, but you can't give in, else you'll be back to square one. Stay strong.

She's your ex and you're seeing someone else. Stay NC, or at the most just tell her you're doing great.

Well, yes, I guess it's more I miss what we had, rather than her itself. We were really good friends before we got together. That said, I have a new girl in my life, and it's different, but it's...

3 months is seriously nothing bro. It took me 12 months, and then, every now and then I miss her a little.

You'll get over things at your own pace, but remember, it's an active process, not a...

Anytime :)

Just DON'T make the mistake I did and LIVE here after your break up. This thread and it's predecessor are useful to get you started, and if you have a bad day, but being here TOO MUCH...

This is pretty normal - they go cold, cut it off quickly, and move on to the next guy. Avoids having to deal with break-up feelings; why deal with the fallout of one relationship when you can enjoy...

For me, the worst was work - I work night shift, alone, in a pretty quiet area. Boy was it hard early on, because my job is kinda brainless, it used to get to me.

Now it doesn't bother me in the...