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Yeah Lmaoo so many servers posting they make below minimum wage, BS, especially in California they get paid usually minimum wage plus tips.

So crazy people fall for that crap.

$1850 Including taxes/insurance, in California no less, I’m in a lower cost of living area though 20% down $410k purchase price remodeled home in a good neighborhood.

$135k income

No reason to time the market for 1 week man

Remember when they kept saying to trust the scientists and all that. Okay the “scientists” are saying no more masks if you’re vaccinated.

Do they not believe science? Lel

I know brah.

Reached out to the ex tonight after nearly 2 weeks.

She’s willing to meet up tomorrow and states she misses me, also stated if I need this for closure that’s okay LOL, probably going to not get...

Honestly ended on good terms and it was “mutual”, although I must admit she seemed much more ready to move on than myself but who knows.

Yeah I know it’s a risk to reset the NC countdown if you...

Yeah they indeed are very difficult to resist. Crazy too in the last 6 months I increased my pay from 90k to 130k, just had an offer accepted on a house this month and finally started hitting the...

You couldn’t have said it better tbh, In fact it’ll likely yield worse outcomes and likely would have her seeing me as weaker and have her holding all the power.

Life’s tough, I think it’s just...

Yeah literally everyone is telling me not to, literally think it’d just make her repulsed by giving her a beta letter trying to get her back tbh. It’s desperate but in a sense I also want closure...

Might be pathetic but it’s been nearly 2 weeks no contact with my ex since we broke it off.

I plan on reaching out, and if it goes poorly which it probably will, I’ll just have to strict no...

Yeah sad thing is, I know I shouldn’t do it. In fact I wouldn’t be surprised if she was disgusted with it, or would think less of me for reaching out, pouring the heart out.

How beta/10 would it be to give her the letter lmao.

Yeah I realize that

Yeah I ignored this on my 4.5 year relationship, thankfully never married or engaged. But truly believe I may have dodged a bullet even though it took me a long time to pick out the red flags.

Recently out of a 4.5 year relationship, it’s been a long time since I’ve dated someone new.

Thinking about giving online dating a shot for now, nothing serious. Keep it casual, it’s been a...

I hear you brother. Against everything in my head/advice I’ve received. I still want her back, I still want to reach out, I want to give her a letter I wrote etc.

Sometimes for closure I’d rather...

I was definitely more open minded, I think I made mistakes when the ex would go on the attack and I’d get defensive/respond.

Essentially a emotional response at times versus a level headed.

Good point.

Yeah I get it, my last gf used to be fun to be around and then Trump 2020 turned her into a deranged and straight up hate filled person. Acted like I was killing her by even supporting...