All these questions you ought to be asking the doctor once surgery is done. Of course you'll have some limitations but you'll probably still be able to go to the gym.
How much stretching do you do? Have you invested in a foam roller? Try foam rolling that area out and do some stretching if you aren't already. Can you describe the pain? Shooting pain, stabbing...
I'm sure over time you'll be able to lift heavy again. Look at all the athletes who go through pretty terrible injuries and they're back at it. Just give it time and gradually build your weight back...
You have to understand your path early on in life as a woman, though bro. If you're hot early on then you've got it made as long as you play your cards the right way. If you're looking to do the...