The skinny abs look will get you by in high school and the first couple years of college. After that, as they start getting older, women tend to look for guys with a little more meat on their bones...
It's a tip that a lot of women go to gay clubs too. Straight women, bisexual women and gay women. In my experience these women are a lot more uninhibited at gay clubs than they are straight clubs in...
I'm straight and I go to gay clubs all the time. A number of my friends are gay and I feel it's only fair that when we go out we hit their clubs sometimes too. No big deal. Yeah there are guys there...
What if they're hitting on you? Just turned 35, had a 23 year old chick take off my shirt at a bar last week and then proceed to take her shirt off and grind me on the dance floor skin on skin....