I think you'll find out there is no perfectly right way. Try em both out, I personally try and get as close to parallel as I can to really feel it in my lats.
Thanks a lot Hola, I'm on day 3 of this program and I'm in major pain haha, it feels nice for a change though. I'm definately scared of the 2nd leg day...
Exactly, its more of a combination of things not just how pretty the person looks. A really hot woman who has guys falling all over her will generally be extremely confident which can help greatly.