Hey man! I would just recommend lifting heavy, eating when you want but making it clean, and stay athletic. Especially at your weight/height you'll be ok.
To start off sorry but you come off rude when you start calling people " *******s " even if it is a joke. Anyways if you've talked to a therapist and that didn't work try to talk to your parents or...
I definitely wouldn't recommend you get the surgery. You barely have any loose skin and as you keep getting bigger it should go away. Plus the surgery is one of those things that takes a while to...