Sadly I think this is the problem. No judgment but try and privately seek professional help for this issue. No sane man cares about what girl he missed out on in HS when he becomes and adult.
Place is trashed, she is a hoarder. We spent 16 hours straight cleaning the place and she took back all her trash and put it right back where she likes it....all over the property
My schedule is I wake up at 9am to get ready snd commute by bus to arrive at 10:30am to 7:30pm and get home at 8:30 pm so 2 jobs is impossible with that schedule.