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I've been NC for about two months. Met up with a friend at a bar on Sunday to watch football game. I see my ex at the bar when I got there, and our two groups of friends grabbed a table together. ...

About 6-7 weeks NC going strong. I've been doing well and dated a few girls.

I got invited to a party next weekend, but I know she will be there and I'm not ready to see her in person. Since...

This is going to suck to hear, but she's been planning it for a while.

Stay NC and enjoy yourself this semester. You're around thousand of girls that love to get drunk and smash between the...

Having a rough night brahs. I think it's because it's 5 weeks of NC and the longest time we've ever not spoken. Part of me wants her to reach out, but part of me wants to know that I'll never hear...

It will get easier from today. You are young and you will meet a lot more women in the future. If she needs space, then it's the best thing FOR YOU to move on.

I find that staying away from this thread actually helps me because when I read through it I think about her.

NC has worked for me in the past though - if you don't feel like it's the best...

Don't feel like you have to respond. Only if you think responding would be best for you.

I'm around the 4 week mark and it's starting to grate at me. No word from either side. I'm trying to...

You probably didn't need to reply but that's OK. Time for NC and to move on. For you.

I woke up at 3AM and couldn't sleep and wanted to text her (I deleted her number thankfully). Had such a...

I had a similar slip up where I saw her in a bar and ignored her for most of the time. Then we ended up running into each other at one point and talked for an hour like old times (flirting, etc) and...

I ran into a mutual friend at Starbucks this morning. She said I looked great - I've lost about 10 pounds and gotten tan from the summer - and asked me about the breakup. I kind of smiled and blew...

I've been keeping out of this thread because it makes me think of her. About 21 days in and everything is getting better. No peep from either side. It's better that way - I'd rather pretend she's...

Yes! Keep it going. I'm at day 15 (had to look it up and count). Enjoy the weekend.

She doesn't exist anymore. Why would you care about anyone that doesn't exist?

Now that it's over, go find your second girlfriend. Hopefully you're going to have a lot more than one in your life.

It's all good brahs - you guys will all be fine. If you have to vent or want to contact her, write in this thread instead. No contact does help. I've used it on one ex before and a oneitis girl. ...

Truth. Take away your attention and girls go nuts. This worked for me in converting a LJBF -> relationship as well as getting over one of my old exes. She later reached out to me wanted to meet...

Yes - most of her guy "friends" are WKs who text her all day and night. I have zero interest in being one of those. Now when she texts, I troll her hard to escalate. Example:

Girl: Heyyyy...

Thanks bro. This worked for me last time. Whenever I have to urge to contact I just post here.

We're all gonna make it.

Been only 10 days but I feel like contacting her so much right now.

I'm not going to do that, tho.

Keep it going fellas.

Just remember how you feel right now. The next time you want to break NC, this is how you're going to feel. Since you don't want that, don't break NC.

Keep strong everyone