Lol don't listen to that idiot. Just google search your city or state and bodybuilding/physique competition 2013 and you'll find some. Good luck and stay motivated!
Just switch over and let them pass. No need to start problems, maybe they have sonewhere more important to be. Obviously more important than where I have to be if they're trying really hard to pass...
I went from doing 65lbs 6 reps to 2 plates 12 times in one year. I also gained 100lbs from a dreamer bulk and got fat. Depends what you really want I guess.