So let me get this straight: you made up mind, you sought validation of that decision, when you were approached with an alternative opinion and outside perspective, you replied with sarcasm,...
He does care about you enough to take care of both of you (living together while your unemployed). I don't think you realize how hard it is to sacrifice your wants and desires in order to support...
Idiot. He LIVES with her, thus explains OPs predicament. This isn't a put it all out on the line scenario. This is a tread lightly else live in awkwardness scenario.
DO NOT tell her how you feel. That's an awful ****ing idea. You need to put yourself into situations where she shows her cards. If she's into it, you'll know. That's when you make a move.
This reminds me of this chick that's a friend with my gf. No one knows but her close friends, but she's got the herps. Sluttin up one too many times. She's got a long-term bf now. Everytime I look at...