How much sex do you think is normal in a long term relationship, like weekly?
Past honeymoon phase and all that. I will tell you why I'm asking in a little bit.
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How much sex do you think is normal in a long term relationship, like weekly?
Past honeymoon phase and all that. I will tell you why I'm asking in a little bit.
We do it 4-5 times per week. Would probably do it once a day if could see each other every day
id be happy with sex every other day but when we do have sex i like to do it atleast two times.
in my current relationship anytime were alone we have sex depends on how often we see each other really
very minimum once a week of circumstances are like winterfresh (crazy workload on both etc)
3-5 seems to be the standard response
Yeah 3-5 appears to be right in my case. The girl I'm with now thinks that more sex = more affection and love or something and it is coming to a point where we are having to talk about it. Just wanted to get some clarity.
[QUOTE=sword_;801718251]How much sex do you think is normal in a long term relationship, like weekly?
Past honeymoon phase and all that. I will tell you why I'm asking in a little bit.[/QUOTE] I don't know. But I've heard that during the initial, exciting dating-phase couples go at it like rabbits; they f*ck every day, mix things up via positions, and f*ck in every room of the house. This is the norm for most couples during the exciting first few months of dating.
Curiously, with my ex-girlfriends, I was lucky to get laid 2 times a week during the initial, exciting dating-phase. And when I pestered them for more sex they kept saying "All you think about is sex! A relationship is more than just sex!" Yet my then-friends and their new girlfriends would be f*cking like Energizer Bunnies every single day. Maybe I'm just not that good in bed and/or attractive? Hmmm....
Anyway, as for a long-term relationship, I think many couples who still feel that passion and excitement still get it on fairly often, more than once a week, but less than when they did during the initial dating-phase.
[QUOTE=Swanky;801731081]I don't know. But I've heard that during the initial, exciting dating-phase couples go at it like rabbits; they f*ck every day, mix things up via positions, and f*ck in every room of the house. This is the norm for most couples during the exciting first few months of dating.
Curiously, with my ex-girlfriends, I was lucky to get laid 2 times a week during the initial, exciting dating-phase. And when I pestered them for more sex they kept saying "All you think about is sex! A relationship is more than just sex!" Yet my then-friends and their new girlfriends would be f*cking like Energizer Bunnies every single day. Maybe I'm just not that good in bed and/or attractive? Hmmm....
Anyway, as for a long-term relationship, I think many couples who still feel that passion and excitement still get it on fairly often, more than once a week, but less than when they did during the initial dating-phase.[/QUOTE]
Tend to agree.
I don't think there is a standard amount ... whatever frequency both partners are happy with is "normal".
[QUOTE=sword_;801718251]How much sex do you think is normal in a long term relationship, like weekly?
Past honeymoon phase and all that. I will tell you why I'm asking in a little bit.[/QUOTE]
Just enough sex to keep up a constant state of genital chafing ;)
That being said, I've only had 3 LTR's, main reason being I dont commit to a girl unless I'm extremely sure we satisfy eachother physically, sexually and spiritually. So usually we want to hump eachothers brains out every free second we get.
Last relationship was once to twice daily at the least for nearly 3 years.
When pulling strange or with one of the fwb I usually bust once or twice and want to leave, unless I enjoy their company to some extent and chill out watching tv or laying in bed talking.
[QUOTE=Swanky;801731081]I don't know. But I've heard that during the initial, exciting dating-phase couples go at it like rabbits; they f*ck every day, mix things up via positions, and f*ck in every room of the house. This is the norm for most couples during the exciting first few months of dating.
Curiously, with my ex-girlfriends, I was lucky to get laid 2 times a week during the initial, exciting dating-phase. And when I pestered them for more sex they kept saying "All you think about is sex! A relationship is more than just sex!" Yet my then-friends and their new girlfriends would be f*cking like Energizer Bunnies every single day. Maybe I'm just not that good in bed and/or attractive? Hmmm....
Anyway, as for a long-term relationship, I think many couples who still feel that passion and excitement still get it on fairly often, more than once a week, but less than when they did during the initial dating-phase.[/QUOTE]
Bud, save your relationship-power for a woman who wants you as much as you want her. You deserve to being treated right and ****ed eagerly by someone you've decided to commit your time to and bond with.
Never settle for being unfullfilled because it's more convient to getting laid twice a week than being single for a while. Work on your charms a bit and you can pull some regular strange from a local bar or get a couple of fwb.
My exgf broke up with me because I wanted less sex, as in only 1 time per week
As long as both people are satisfied. I rather have amazing sex once a week than so-so sex 2-3 a week.
[QUOTE=Panahi85;801804911]I dont commit unless I'm extremely sure we satisfy eachother physically, sexually and spiritually.[/QUOTE]
This... I'm pretty selective.
Anyways, less than 4-5 times a week and I start getting cranky.
Once a week isn't terrible when life starts to get in the way
I have been with my bf for 2 years, we usually do it about on avg 2 times a day, one weekends probably double.
I would like to have it daily but 5 times a week is fine. Anything less and I just think "Why aren't we doing it?".
[QUOTE=daitrong;801808781]As long as both people are satisfied. I rather have amazing sex once a week than so-so sex 2-3 a week.[/QUOTE]
This.
Lol @ virgin misc and people in 5 month relationships thinking they're gunna get it 2x daily.
If you can find a woman that you'll enjoy fukking 2x a day for 2+ years I'll paypal you a thousand dollars.
I have more important sht to do than have sex like the gym, studying, etc. Old pussy gets boring, and I tend to just smash 2-3 times a week at most. During finals week it aint happening. If I'm stressed out or not feeling well, it aint happening.
I've been with a girl about 5 months. we do it 2-3 times a week.
I fap once a day.
[QUOTE=Candees;801922481]I fap once a day.[/QUOTE]
pics or negs
I did it every day or 2-3 times (not everyday but sometimes) a day for about 2 years until I broke up with her. I think if the girl declines for no reason Id snap. I need my sex
[QUOTE=sword_;801718251]How much sex do you think is normal in a long term relationship, like weekly?
Past honeymoon phase and all that. I will tell you why I'm asking in a little bit.[/QUOTE]
id say every other day minimum
-StrongMeat-
I smashed my last gf around 2-3 times a day....However she seemed sorta selfconcious about it.
After breaking up and getting back together, she pretty much was like wtf...having sex this much isn't normal. Kinda like she was once again like worried about the fact that we were doing it (like the idea in general) but she didn't seem to have an issues with actually getting down and sucking my D or sex'n. She seemed to enjoy getting me off.
daily, but if there is distance involved I can see where traveling could be problematic.
if she's an hour away, maybe 2-3 times a week.
[QUOTE=sword_;801718251]How much sex do you think is normal in a long term relationship, like weekly?
Past honeymoon phase and all that. I will tell you why I'm asking in a little bit.[/QUOTE]
It is rather subjective. I need it frequently and long sessions. The current girl, the one I prioritize most happens to like rest periods in between. I want to keep going. She wants water. lol
Diff chick. I been doing keto too so, I actually turned down sex with a fwb recently which is very uncharacteristic of me. Then again, I feel fatigue, lethargic as **** both mentally and physically when I first started the kcd. Low carbs is brutal but, getting ripped is the ****.
Sword, only problem I could ever have is if a girl comes @ me with "not in the mood." Deal breaker. 100% CEREAL><
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[QUOTE=picartman;802074511]Sex once a week but like 3-5 times in one session sound good? I'd rather spread it among the week but with work and all...[/QUOTE]
She'll cheat.
You need to make time dammit.
[QUOTE=Candees;802074901]She'll cheat.
You need to make time dammit.[/QUOTE]
once a week does not usually satisfy most people.
[QUOTE=picartman;802078211]Yeah I wasn't really happy about it either but whatever when we do get together it's usually fooling around/****ing for a couple hours. It's not that I'm bad it's just that her work is a bitch...[/QUOTE]
unless she is a TRAUMA SURGEON, her work is not that bad. honestly, people over state how tough their lives are.