It's so effective! You ignore them, and here they come!
WHY?
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It's so effective! You ignore them, and here they come!
WHY?
Scientifically speaking from the position of a man who has spent his life studying and researching the field;
because they're used to 100s of guys blowing them up constantly.
when you don't they wonder why and think they're not good enough for YOU, so they try harder.
[QUOTE=janky;283036211]Scientifically speaking from the position of a man who has spent his life studying and researching the field;
because they're used to 100s of guys blowing them up constantly.
when you don't they wonder why and think they're not good enough for YOU, so they try harder.[/QUOTE]
x2. I let girls I am dating do 75-80% of the texting and calls. Of course I will make a call or text if it's important, but generally I will wait for it.
It works because they know you have a life of your own, you value yourself highly and sometimes they just wonder what you're doing and want to connect. It also tells me they like me and value spending time with me.
[QUOTE=janky;283036211]Scientifically speaking from the position of a man who has spent his life studying and researching the field;
because they're used to 100s of guys blowing them up constantly.
when you don't they wonder why and think they're not good enough for YOU, so they try harder.[/QUOTE]
when do they stop trying harder?
[QUOTE=justinslayer;283037351]when do they stop trying harder?[/QUOTE]
when they realise its not worth it??
[QUOTE=theflip44;283037801]when they realise its not worth it??[/QUOTE]
Well if you are not worth it, they would not be trying so hard
Its true, take last week for example...
Chick doesn't return my call in two weeks, then shouts my name out in college, expecting me to go over and talk to her like some pussy whipped half wit.
I ignored her, and carried on with what I was doing.
2 minutes later she texts me apologising. I ignored that too.
Lesson learnt: The more attention you give them, the more inclined they are to look elsewhere. Being ignored is like being a challenge to them.
Women subconsciously want a challenge.
[QUOTE=justinslayer;283038121]Well if you are not worth it, they would not be trying so hard[/QUOTE]
Not like that i mean, but after a while they are gonna give up or realise its not worth it to try hard for one guys attention IF there are other guys interested, atleast that makes the most sense to me but girls are a little different in there thinking somtimes
[QUOTE=justinslayer;283037351]when do they stop trying harder?[/QUOTE]
after you fck them.
or after you give them your full attention.
dish your attention out to them in incredibly small doses.
make them realize your life does NOT revolve around them, and you'll get at them when YOU have time, not the other way around.
-women thrive on attention
-if you deny them it, they will give you attention to try to get it
Women are much more inclined to talk allot as compared to men (it has something to do with the brain (seriously)).
Sometimes, it is best to just let them say what they have to say; generally, they like to express their emotions with their mouth.
Ive noticed this as well...I have a girl that has chased me for over the past coupe years....once and a while I hang out with her and such.
Now im curious about all this...how do you effectivly go from ignoring her to showing her attention but not seeming whipped?
[QUOTE=cavfiredesire;283047961]Ive noticed this as well...I have a girl that has chased me for over the past coupe years....once and a while I hang out with her and such.
Now im curious about all this...how do you effectivly go from ignoring her to showing her attention but not seeming whipped?[/QUOTE]
"hey come over and watch a movie tonight"
lol
piitb
profit
It works because people feed off validation, especially women... take it away without being a COMPLETE jerk (which too many guys don't get in their teens/20's), and you've got it made.
[QUOTE=drew101;283047821]
Sometimes, it is best to just let them say what they have to say; generally, they like to express their emotions with their mouth.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=janky;283088421]"hey come over and watch a movie tonight"
lol
piitb
profit[/QUOTE]
Yah..done it..have the shirt lol...
I had to go back to ignoring her..cest la vie...
[QUOTE=janky;283036211]Scientifically speaking from the position of a man who has spent his life studying and researching the field;
because they're used to 100s of guys blowing them up constantly.
when you don't they wonder why and think they're not good enough for YOU, so they try harder.[/QUOTE]
exactly! This is what constantly due to chicks, especially they one's that expect you to check them out.
[QUOTE=Richie_Awesome;283096671][img]http://thumb15.webshots.net/t/59/59/2/36/49/2733236490061045195BqRPyu_th.jpg[/img][/QUOTE]
I guess not only verbally....
[QUOTE=janky;283036211]Scientifically speaking from the position of a man who has spent his life studying and researching the field;
because they're used to 100s of guys blowing them up constantly.
when you don't they wonder why and think they're not good enough for YOU, so they try harder.[/QUOTE]
Truth.
I think it works better with girls rather than confident women. If a guy was ignoring me I would just assume he wasn't interested and quit.
they crave attention, if they dont get it, they will try harder to make you look/react.
Only in certain situations does it work.
This isn't like a universal thing.
ok guys, i have a question. i went out with this 9 IMO this weekend for the first time. we had a couple beers, talked about 2-3 hours so i know she was kind of enjoying herself, beacuse if not the meeting would probably end sooner right? plus we had a nice conversation, no moments of silence and i was doing my best to be the PUA confident funny guy.
shes really sexy and probably has guys hitting on her all the time so i dont want to be like that. but im not really expecting her to call me up for a next date because afterall im the guy and i have to show some initiative. whats a cool and original way to tell her i had a good time and wanna see her again?
im thinking of taking her to a capone n noreaga concert to spend some more time with her even though i dont think she likes hip hop. but does it really matter? how would u pimps approach this situation? keep in mind that shes really sexy, like a model or something.
[QUOTE=samantha08;283285501]i generally won't try to keep in touch with a guy unless it's being reciprocated.
what fun is it to pursue someone who seems disinterested?[/QUOTE]
sounds good to me.
[QUOTE=samantha08;283285501]i generally won't try to keep in touch with a guy unless it's being reciprocated.
what fun is it to pursue someone who seems disinterested?[/QUOTE]
You spend time on this forum and thus, spend lots of time around guys..
You know our secrets and how to defend against them, so you don't count!
Ignore works. But some girls will find someone that doesn't ignore them or they will keep an eye on you to see if your with another girl. If they figure out you dont have another girl then they will not care and ignore you.
Women always want what they can't have, so ignoring works. Once you give in, she's gone, and she'll search for another guy who's ignoring her. It's a constant cycle that repeats itself
[QUOTE=Armando777;283290121]Ignore works. But some girls will find someone that doesn't ignore them or they will keep an eye on you to see if your with another girl. If they figure out you dont have another girl then they will not care and ignore you.[/QUOTE]
You don't need to have another girl. Just talking to any random girl in her presence will do damage
lol @ samantha and tiffany
So my ex who dumped me after 5 months, just refriended me on ********. Who else votes ignore?