Reason I ask this is because, as much as I love porn, I've masturbated to erotic writing before too. I find that mental stimulation like that can be pretty hot as well
What do you guys think? Are women incapable of being turned on visually and are man incapable of being turned on mentally? My own experience would say that's absolutely false, but I dunno if I'm a rare exception
A girl being smart and not being another cookie cutter hobbyless drone that has non substance aka most women legit makes me attracted to them. srs.
[QUOTE=otakutrevan;898450301]A girl being smart and not being another cookie cutter hobbyless drone that has non substance aka most women legit makes me attracted to them. srs.[/QUOTE]
agreed 100%, also if they're kind of sweet and feminine + humble, I get a boner
But according to all this PUA/Dating research material, all men care about is a pair of tits and a round ass while all women care about is status and dominance
[QUOTE=StringerBeII;898452591]agreed 100%, also if they're kind of sweet and feminine + humble, I get a boner
But according to all this PUA/Dating research material, all men care about is a pair of tits and a round ass while all women care about is status and dominance[/QUOTE]
Seriously. If a girl isnt fat, kinda cute face, and like...is about stuff I'm all in. Girls that text text text and worry about how they look 24/7 make me fuarking rage.
There is some truth to that PUA...but idk man.
If girls weren't turned on by visuals then initial attraction for them would be impossible.
Also reps for the username OP
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Women respond to emotions the most, not ideas
[QUOTE=FeelTheFear;898454711]Women respond to emotions the most, not ideas[/QUOTE]
or guys that look good
most of the time yes
nothing is 100% the cause. but for the most part guys = visual (how hot a girl is) girls = mental aspects (dominance, confidence, social standing, money).
I wish women understood this during sex. They just think it's about the penetration, feeling good, and different positions. It's about presentation too.
It's like yes, I enjoy having my dick sucked, but if you suck that **** in the piitch dark and I can't see anything the experience is well, just as good as the blowjob.
But if you suck that shiit in some sexy outfit, have your back arched or whatever and are moaning like no other and gagging yourself on it then it's a whole other ball game. Like Chris Rock says, men have two levels of orgasm, and most likely you've only seen level 1.
[QUOTE=otakutrevan;898461891]or guys that look good[/QUOTE]
Well technically looks trigger emotions in girls, just like looks trigger emotions in guys. But girls mostly respond to behaviour and how that behaviour effects their emotions. Looks are only a small part of it and anyone who thinks looks are THAT big of a deal is just trying to make excuses for their failure ("im ugly")
so actually it's more accurate to say
men=looks
women = behaviour/emotion
[QUOTE=FeelTheFear;898464171]Well technically looks trigger emotions in girls, just like looks trigger emotions in guys. But girls mostly respond to behaviour and how that behaviour effects their emotions. Looks are only a small part of it and anyone who thinks looks are THAT big of a deal is just trying to make excuses for their failure ("im ugly")
so actually it's more accurate to say
men=looks
women = behaviour/emotion[/QUOTE]
If you're a ugly cat you are going to have a harder time pulling good looking girls generally. Lol why the **** does the misc deny this so much. Go walk outside, jesus christ.
girls initially find men attractive just like us guys are visual. and we can be turned on by what women tell us as well without seeing anything.
Tell me you guys have never been turned on by your girl saying something really dirty to you.
We all go both ways (visual and physical) no homo
[QUOTE=otakutrevan;898466221]If you're a ugly cat you are going to have a harder time pulling good looking girls generally. Lol why the **** does the misc deny this so much. Go walk outside, jesus christ.[/QUOTE]
extremes dont really prove much. Yea if you are extremely ugly it matters, but as long as you are a man, over 5'4", and don't have a fukked up face then you are good.
As in the different between average and good looking hardly matters. But the difference between hideously ugly and average does matter. As long as you aren't hideously ugly then your looks don't matter much.
Get it?
[QUOTE=otakutrevan;898466221]If you're a ugly cat you are going to have a harder time pulling good looking girls generally. Lol why the **** does the misc deny this so much. Go walk outside, jesus christ.[/QUOTE]
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