Think i messed up pretty bad...

So aafter my girlfriends graduation party, i was chilling at her house. She hands me her phone and goes to the bathroom. I always use her phone because she still has unlimited data, but today i was using it and a text came up.. It was from a guy ive had problems with before. It said "hey im sorry i missed your call last night ill call you after i get off work"

I didnt mention it for a while, but it finally got to me and i asked her about it. After a while she breaks down crying telling me i always f*** up her good days, every thing is about me, and other various phrases of that stuff.

Now i feel bad for ruining her day, help me out guys. Please.


Tl;dr gf got text from guy. She apparently called him for unknown reason. I ask her bout it. She rages, then cries. Lots. Now im asking for help on what to do.

Leave this chick seriously.. if shes talking to other dudes..

Don't feel bad. I don't think you did anything wrong. I think she is overreacting. Also, I feel like she may be cheating on you with this guy.

More details: weve been together for 4 years.
Im leaving for basic in 65 days.
I dont think she is cheating, i just dont.
I really hope she isnt.
I was planning to ask her the question after i get through basic, now i dont know what i am going to do.

Think were all good now. If i can get help posting pics in a thread via iphone, ill show yall. I found a really good copy pasta for this situation.

[QUOTE=dwarfbulldog;1073930191]Think were all good now. If i can get help posting pics in a thread via iphone, ill show yall. I found a really good copy pasta for this situation.[/QUOTE]

Upload pictures to imgur, copy link and paste here inbetween [img][/img].

You're a ******* OP.

Well done making this next b#tches boyfriend's life a misery, for making her think she can get away with nonsense like this.

She's cheating on you *******, and can you blame her for you're a man acting like a desperate little boy.

I bet your gf's sugar(sand paper) walls are getting blasted right now.

if you don't break up with her, it's all your own fault.

If you have been together for 4 years obviously its pretty serious. Don't loose something like that over a hunch. Try and make it work with her. Don't do anything stupid.

Talk to her about it. And that you don't like it. Tell the truth.

She's obviously cheating, and feels bad so she broke into tears and got angry. Confront her about it, don't just roll over like a beta. And get the fuk out of Denial City, "I know she wouldn't cheat," follow your gut dude, its obvious you feel something is up.

You did nothing wrong confronting her, and if she refuses to talk, then its probably time to break it off.

[QUOTE=AKornilov;1073926931]Leave this chick seriously.. if shes talking to other dudes..[/QUOTE]
Define "talking"
If I had a gf I would never stop them talking to other people if they was just friends. But if she was crying then it might be a bit more serious then "friends"
Just sit down and talk to her, if nothing comes out, alcohol goes in and truth comes out (Not srs)
Give it a bit of time and questioning, if nothing then maybe even a break...

Talk to her op if she keeps crying and denying then its time to get a new girl op

Tfw my girl talks to other guys on the phone all the time, what do? Chit.

If she is crying and **** than she is hiding something and probably if it's bad might be cheating on you
and if she gets mad and argues against you than she is telling the truth!, that's my experinse good luck op! :c

Oh **** my girl always cries when I confront her over **** to and doesn't argue just ignores me, srs.

[QUOTE=iKickMidgets;1074159891]Oh **** my girl always cries when I confront her over **** to and doesn't argue just ignores me, srs.[/QUOTE]
I'm not saying every girl is so, but that is what i belivie! good luck bro

[QUOTE=Dodo4876;1074160401]I'm not saying every girl is so, but that is what i belivie! good luck bro[/QUOTE]

I know she doesn't cheat on me but it still a par.

if shes being shady with another guys shes likely flirting with him, keeping him on the back burner if things go poorly with you guys. ask if she would be willing to dead him completely and when she says she wont dump her.