Week 169 :: How Can One Increase Their Sex Drive?
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TOPIC: How Can One Increase Their Sex Drive?
For the week of: August 20th - September 2nd
Tuesday @ Midnight Is The Final Cut (Mountain Time, US & Canada).
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Whether you're a man or a woman you may notice a decrease in your sex drive, but don't panic, there are plenty of ways to boost your libido.
What are some causes for a decrease in sex drive?
How can a male increase his sex drive?
How can a female increase her sex drive?
Are supplements a good option? If so, which ones?
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How Can One Increase Their Sex Drive?
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* Note: How can I win? 1. Answer all questions in the order that they are asked. 2. Go over reviews (located at the bottom of past TOTW articles) and see what was said about those that did not win. Good Luck!
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TOPIC: How Can One Increase Their Sex Drive?
For the week of: August 20th - August 26th
Tuesday @ Midnight Is The Final Cut (Mountain Time, US & Canada).
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Whether you're a man or a woman you may notice a decrease in your sex drive, but don't panic, there are plenty of ways to boost your libido.
What are some causes for a decrease in sex drive?
How can a male increase his sex drive?
How can a female increase her sex drive?
Are supplements a good option? If so, which ones?
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* New Rule (beginning: June 1st, 2006): Any exercise not listed on our exercise listing ([url]http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/exercises.htm[/url]) must be accompanied by a full and complete description and pictures (or a link to the exercise(s) where pictures and description are given).
Thanks.
Don't discuss any other topic in this section. ONLY discuss the question above.
The best response will get $75 in credit to use in our online store! The other good responses will be used in an article on the main Bodybuilding.com site, with the poster's forum name listed by it. Become famous!
Thanks,
Will
Webmaster
Bodybuilding.com[/QUOTE]
Week 169: How Can One Increase Their Sex Drive?
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Whether you're a man or a woman you may notice a decrease in your sex drive, but don't panic, there are plenty of ways to boost your libido. A decrease in sex drive can stem from physical conditions or psychological problems.
What are some causes for a decrease in sex drive?
There are many causes for a decrease in sex drive, and every individual, whether a male or a female has his own reasons for the dysfunction. Some of the causes for a decrease in sex drive are listed as under:
? Psychological Factors: Stress, fear and anxiety are the major factors that can decrease sex desire. Anxiousness and fear over an ability to perform in bed or to satisfy a partner may sometimes lead to "spectatoring," in which individuals are so concerned about monitoring the experience that they are unable to enjoy it. Other issues like the size of the organ, orgasm completion simultaneously can be the factors for lower sexual desire.
? Drugs and Alcohol: Many men and women report that alcohol has a numbing effect on their sex desire. Research has proved that alcohol has no role in increasing sex drive, rather it decreases the libido. Also many drugs, such as anti-depressants to treat anxiety or depression; anti-psychotic drugs to treat severe mental disorders; anti-hypertensive agents to treat high blood pressure, may interfere with arousal and the ability to achieve orgasm.
? Obesity or Anorexia: Women come in all shapes and sizes, and in most cases, weight is irrelevant to sex drive. However, those who are medically obese may be deficient in certain sex hormones that can influence desire. They may also feel less sexually attractive and may therefore avoid intimate contact. Same is true with Anorexia too. People with obesity also have a lower blood flow, which does not ensure enough blood supply to the genitals during love-making or intercourse.
? Illness: Various diseases have been reported to decrease the sex drive. Several of them have been found to directly reduce sex drive: 1. Addison?s Disease in which the adrenal glands (glands located above the kidneys that produce many of the body's hormones) fail. 2. Cushing?s Syndrome, a condition caused by high levels of a hormone called cortisol in the body over a long period of time; 3. Diseases of the pituitary gland, a gland located near the brain that produces many important hormones.
In many Cases, it is not the disease itself, but rather the medications used to treat the disease, that reduces a woman's sex drive. This is particularly true of high blood pressure medications and some diuretics. Other conditions that may affect sexual function include:
o Cancer
o Arthritis
o Diabetes
o Kidney disease
o Spinal cord Injury
o Epilepsy
o Thyroid Disorders
? Menopause: It means the end of menstrual cycle in females. In this stage, it takes her longer to get aroused, hence less sexual desire. Lack of estrogen also causes dryness in the vagina, which makes a considerable decrease in libido.
? Pregnancy: Changes in hormone levels can affect her physically and emotionally during her pregnancy As a result, her desire for sex may temporarily change, but it can be also opposite in many cases
? Relationship Issues: If there is a poor relationship between a couple, chances are high that there will be a decrease in the sex drive, as they wont understand and compliment each other well.
? Sexual Abuse: It is a deeply traumatic experience and may lead to fear and avoidance of sexual experiences later in life. Some women who have been victims of past abuse are afraid to trust a man; others respond to these negative experiences by losing sexual desire altogether.
How can a male increase his sex drive?
A male can increase his sex drive by the following ways:
? He should try to remove all psychological issues, which concern him. Examples being stress, shyness, fear of not performing, etc.
? Avoid Excessive masturbation, as it leads to loss of libido. Perform the sex only in real round.
? A male should resort to a healthy diet. The foods he should take regularly are: Salmon, cottage cheese, steak and low-fat yogurt. Foods rich in Omega ? 3 increase the blood flow around the body and to the genitals and are vital for fighting impotence. Inclusion of dry fruits, such as almonds, cashews, walnuts, etc, act as aphrodisiacs, and naturally boost up the libido. Cherries, raspberries, blackcurrants and aubergines are rich in anthocyanins an antioxidant that prevents fatty deposits on the walls of blood vessels keeping blood running smoothly. Low levels of iron can also cause fatigue and kill sex drive, so a male should eat plenty of lean red meat, dark turkey meat, chicken, eggs and oily fish; all of these are a good source of iron.
? Exercise should become a part of his daily routine. Exercise enables men to remain fit and promote healthy blood flow to the genital area. Men should try Kegel Exercises. These exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. He can do them by tightening and then relaxing the pelvic floor muscles (it's as if you are starting and stopping the flow of urine). Kegel exercises can improve sensation during sex and also can decrease urinary incontinence (many cases of incontinence are linked to weakened muscles).
? Treatment of certain diseases which affect the sexual desire. It will certainly help.
? Lastly, a male should not feel shy of his low sex drive. He should make every effort to increase his drive and live a healthy life. Shyness will only mar the show.
How can a female increase her sex drive?
Well, frankly speaking, understanding the female sex drive is a very complex phenomenon. A female in most cases likes to be loved, and she gets aroused by love rather than plain sex. It drives them naturally to sex. For the others, who are not in the list, here are some valuable tips to increase the sex drive:
? A female should learn to communicate freely and effectively with her partner to gain the most from her shared sexual experience.
? Considering counselling to help, and her partner talk through any sexual frustrations and open up to each another.
? Realising that exploring her own body is a healthy way for a woman to learn what truly arouses her.
? If a female faces serious psychological issues, particularly prior sexual abuse, it is crucial to get help from a mental health professional.
? By not falling into the common trap of believing that only intercourse "counts" as sex. Touching, kissing, and holding can all be good ways of overcoming obstacles due to illness, and can add intimacy to a relationship.
? As with the males, females should also take proper nutrition and exercise daily to increase their blood flow to the genitals and reduce the daily stress. (It is already discussed under the heading of males). Kegel?s Exercises can also be helpful for females too.
Are supplements a good option? If so, which ones?
Supplements can be a good option, provided they are taken with a good combination of diet and exercise, and treatment of any disease leading to lower sexual desires. Some of the supplements which can be beneficial in improving sexual desire are as under:
Ginseng:
Korean Ginseng has been used in China as a sexual balancer and revitalizing tonic for thousands of years. It is stimulating and restorative and helps improve physical and mental energy, stamina, strength and alertness as an adaptogen, it also helps to combat physical, emotional stress and fatigue.It has a normalizing effect on hormone imbalances and increases metabolic rate and improves blood flow to the genitals. We know stress and tiredness are sex drive killers so by your diet right and taking proven supplements to enhance your sexual mood, you will feel healthier and have a stronger sex drive. Among Ginseng, prefer Korean Red Ginseng, because it is much effective than other varieties of Ginseng, such as Korean, Panax, American in increasing blood flow to the genital area. Adequate water should be taken daily when taking Ginseng. Doses of 600 mg ? 1200 mg a day will suffice for increasing sexual desire.
L-Arginine:
This nutrient is highly important for peak male sexual health and is probably the BEST Supplement you can take for male sexual wellbeing. Unlike many other supposed sex drive boosters; this one is medically proven to enhance sex drive in healthy males. Current studies support the use of argentine supplements to ensure that nitric oxide secretion is sufficient to keep blood flowing to the penis. Nitric oxide insufficiency can stop the penis from becoming erect. A recent study showed an 80 percent improvement in the erectile function of men who took about 2.8 grams of argentine a day for two weeks.
There are other supplements in the market too for increasing sexual desire. Some of them are Macca, Horny Goat Weed, Yohimbine, Gingko Biloba and other herbs. But research indicates that either they have lesser impact or have adverse side effects. So they should be avoided or taken with the recommendation of a doctor only.
Bodybuilding.com has varieties of libido boosters. You can give them a try only after a proper recommendation by a doctor or a health care professional. You can try out yourselves.
GOD makes everything better
For a great sex drive here is a quick list of do's and dont's, which most certainly can also be unabridged, but here are some the highlights. I'll be happy to expound on them later if asked. However, until then:
DO:
1. Go to Church at least once a week from the start of the service to the very end.
2. Seek a true and active relationship with God. Not just one of duty & obligation, or when you need something.
3. Love your wife/husband passionately during everything, not just when they are being wonderful. The key is to be as loving when they are not as nice as they should be. This leads to the next point.
4. Lead by example.
5. Read things that will help strengthen your soul (i.e. the Bible, but also other books. Authors like C.S. Lewis, Max Lucado, Rick Warren, & Joel Osteen are great). And read them with your spouse (one chapter a night is all you need, or one Bible passage).
6. Think positive -- ALL THE TIME! The glass is always 1/2 full.
7. Finally, dedicate as much time to your spiritual well-being as you do to your physical well-being. Pick up a book, go for a walk, have some quiet time.
And now the flipside:
1. DON'T PUT GOD ON THE BACK BURNER. You go to work to enrich yourself financially. You go to the gym to enrich yourself physically. You go out and meet people to enrich yourself socially. School is for mental enrichment. What do you do for your soul? That is the most important element. On your soul, all things are built.
2. Don't lose control of your emotions. This does not equate to "turn yourself into a cold-hearted fiend," but instead means don't fly off the handle. No Road Rage, no impatience, no lack of faith. What's wrong with you? Are you a man or beast? What separates you from a gorilla? YOUR MIND! Use it!
3. Don't be a consistent TV-watcher. If you have to turn it on, try to keep it for only a short a period of time. Watch what you must, and forget the rest. The key is to minimize TV. Who cares if you missed the game or the latest episode of Grey's Anatomy? In the grand scheme of things, it didn't matter.
4. Don't listen to music that is not in accordance with the new you. How can you be positive and strong when you are listening to someone sing about the "hoes," getting drunk high, etc.
5. Don't be negative. If somebody rubs you the wrong way - be nice. If your facing tough odds - stand strong. If someone is trying to have you compromise your values - hold fast, which leads to...
6. Don't be dichotomous/duplicitous. Meaning saying one thing and doing another flagrantly. Yes, the word "hypocrite" could have been used, but all of mankind, with the exception of One are hypocrites. A person that is dichotomous, may truly want to do the right thing, but due to other influences caves in. This cannot be. However, you also cannot succeed alone. You must turn to God. If you don't -- trust me, you will never win.
And finally...
7. Lay off the porn. If you and your wife/husband are into that - fine. Watch together. However, don't make it a habit. And never watch it alone. You're relationship will suffer. Believe me.
And for all the skeptics, there are physiological reasons behind the guidelines listed, but I have typed for long enough. I hope this helps.
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PS. Introducing toxins into the body, whether through smoking, drinking, illicit drug use, is terribly damaging and will destroy you from the inside out -- including that sex drive. However, the things mentioned above are PROVEN to wreak even worse damage. Stress through TV, emotional outrage, internet addiction can nuke your system. You have one body and one life. Protect it.
