One piece of advice - I wish I knew earlier....
Hey ******* dont mouse over....
Is how much or how litte you should react to a woman and her sh*t she gives you. See most guys will bitch out and just be a complete tool. What you fail to see and understand is that she isnt the ONLY piece of @$$ in town. There are more. Yeah yeah I know you live in a SMALL town and there are ONLY 4 chicks and they have boyfriends.... SPARE ME!!!
You go out to a club with your buds, meet some women and get some numbers. Great, good job. The next day you txt them a simple message, you dont blow them up - hey, hey hey hey -- just simple easy txt. And for you advanced game guys - you gave the girl your number and she's txting you. AGAIN - not blowing her up.
See you want to keep things to where YOU'RE not reacting to sh*t she says, YOU'RE not trying to elicit some kind of desperation **click** in her mind. Space that sh*t out - wait - it doesnt matter if you're at home fapping to porn wall or youjizz just wait it out. She aint going no where if she is replying. DONT get desperate with a girl just cause you got her number. YOU want to be different than every other ******* that got her number.
WHO do you think she's going to remember a) desperate guy who goes for the quick kill or b) the funny,charming guy who doesnt care one way or another....
OR - you've been seeing a girl for a couple days/weeks/months/years and than sh*t starts going wrong. You start to get really needy, really annoying cause you feel her "fading" away. YOU react to what shes doing because you feel the "positive" attention will re-inforce your affection for her. NO !! DO NOT do this. If a girl is giving you negative attention you do no reinforce a negative with a positive (this only reaffirms to her a) you're a bitch b) you can be persuaded if she acts up c) reinforcing a bad behavior - which you dont want to do)
You should be "reacting" to her negative reaction with your negative reaction/response - she ignores you for 3 days - you dont TOUCH your phone, ******** or whatever just let it go. YEAH I know its difficult cause you "love" her and you want her to know how much you CARE for her and how much you want her in your life and how much wife material she is AND she's NOT that kind of girl she's a "good girl". Come on guys. NEVER give any woman that kind of benefit. LET them prove to you that they are good enough to be in your life. YOUR life is complete and YOU life is awesome already. She is coming into your already 100% awesome life.
And this is where a lot of you fail - you THINK a woman will fulfill your life (read:make it better) however IF your life was already awesome you wouldnt "need" her per se. You would be open to her and if she left you wouldnt care because your life is awesome. Sucks she came in and couldnt hang but hey it happens
Back to reacting - Lets say your girl throws one of those tests at you and you think damn - I am REALLY pissed, she hit one of those buttons. What would the appropriate reaction/response be? NOTHING... you say and do nothing. You can stare at her or you can just look at her and shake your head. You can even walk away. Hell you "can" say something but you better make sure its gonna sting her.
She comes at you with the typical woman response of using an absolute... you ALWAYS do this. OH REALLY I ALWAYS do XYZ.... tell when else have I done XYZ... silence. Be prepared to get her to shut the fukk up. IF you cant get her to do it cause you know you're in the wrong - its ok to apologize but APOLOGIZE when you need to. AND SPARINGLY. IF you make her cry ok... if she is just wimpering around just be like what? Oh thats nothing... dont always apologize cause then she'll get used to it.
Reacting comes down to you and your own ability to be at peace with yourself(read:centered). Are you ok with your decision to ignore her? Are you ok with losing her? Are you ok that if you dont react she might run out the door? Are you ok with NOT chasing after her?
These are all things you have to be ok with. NOT reacting. LET her come back to you. Let her realize that SHE fukked up. NOT that she fukked up and that YOU are going to apologize for it
SO guys when you're wondering what to do in a situation about you're girl and you getting in a fight - give it a couple days and let her come to you. She cheated on you - dont react - cut the bish free. YOU dont need no cheating ho in your life. She doesnt something that doesnt sit well - ignore her. MOVE ON... there are PLENTY of women - about a billion single women that are out there.
LIVE YOUR LIFE on your own terms NOT someone elses terms.