Gf with tumor no sex, need advice (NO PICS) (need someone to help me)

Cliffs, no need for long story

-gf has tumor on pituitary gland
-zero sex drive, doesn't get horny. Vagina dried up
-cliffs of pituitary tumor
-secretes massive amounts of prolactin which make her body think she's beginning/ending stages of pregnancy which cause the body to not want sex
-body in menopausal stat
-haven't had sex with 9/10 gf in six months because of it
-she feels terrible and cries all the time about how she can't give me sex because it hurts her vagina/she bleeds if we have sex


Anyone know this feel or have advice
Basically I just want someone to talk to outside irl about this, gf is amazing and I love her and I'm sticking through it because she's not a sloot and my personal 10/10

Anyone got any advice or anything to help me get through this?

Lurker since 09 but made account recently

Thank you in advance for reading my unique situation, we are gonna all gonna make it

Try anal, it's amazing.

ayy lmao

^^^

If you love her, stay with her.

Investigate prices/options with her for corrective surgery. Good luck.

ever try lube brah?

can you put her on BC? or if she is, take her off it?

^ anal, HJs, BJs, ZJs..

we are all gonna make it

you should see the cancer thread from today, this guy stayed with his gf with cancer until the end, teared me up inside

[QUOTE=BetaKnight;1152910553]you should see the cancer thread from today, this guy stayed with his gf with cancer until the end, teared me up inside[/QUOTE]
link
[url]http://m.imgur.com/gallery/Po7i1[/url]

OP, do you wanna be that guy or not? You decide.

Personally, I'd break up with her. If you can get a 9/10, you can get another one that you can actually phuck.

Compromise. Be there for her. Let bjs replace actual intercourse. Show her that that satisfies you and she'll gain confidence.

Is she going to recover at some point? Surgery or something?

Why don't you get some silicone lube up in that? You could probably fist**** an underage thai hooker with that **** its so slippery.

Spend time with her like normal brah.
Just pretend its no fap and when you get a semi-chub just hit the gym and ride the gain train home

Prolactin blocks gonadotropin which contributes to horniness levels. She's basically not turned on at all.

Hope she's alright with that tumor brah. Before it starts compressing her sella turcica and causing bitemporal hemianopsia


OP has she taken anything like bromocriptine?

[QUOTE=Jrr32;1152909403]

Anyone know this feel or have advice
Basically I just want someone to talk to outside irl about this, gf is amazing and I love her and I'm sticking through it because she's not a sloot and my personal 10/10
[/QUOTE]

Good man. I respect you for this.

Just make sure you have sh!T going on in your life..

I have only had a few major major relationships in my life, and both of them went downhill/eventually ended within 1-2 months of some event involving me becoming supplicant or putting the girl too much before me.

In other words, I recommend you support her through this but don't become a pushover - I know she has cancer so that seems really harsh but hopefully you understand what I mean. It seems to me that when you are the most supportive of women and when you dedicate your lives to them is when they throw it in your face in the cruelest way possible

Stay safe, OP

[QUOTE=Attaus;1152910423]ever try lube brah?

can you put her on BC? or if she is, take her off it?

^ anal, HJs, BJs, ZJs..

we are all gonna make it[/QUOTE]

Yeah tried it all, lube doesn't help because she doesn't have a sex drive so sex feels like "taboo" or wrong mentally for her. Plus the tumor caused her weight gain so her mental stated got destroyed by that. She feels terrible when giving bjs to me cause she wants to have sex with me but her body doesn't want it, if that makes sense. Sorry idk how to explain but basically the feeling you get after you fap to pron is what she constantly feels if I try to feel her up or if she gives me a bj, it's a unwinnable situation

[QUOTE=NoNonsenseBrah;1152910833]link
[url]http://m.imgur.com/gallery/Po7i1[/url]

OP, do you wanna be that guy or not? You decide.

Personally, I'd break up with her. If you can get a 9/10, you can get another one that you can actually phuck.[/QUOTE]

That's a ridiculously sad link. Last several photos especially : /.....

^ dont quote

How do you know she's not a sloot if she has no sex drive?

Let's pretend she never had this issue. Within the past 9 months she may have cheated on you.

[QUOTE=NoNonsenseBrah;1152910833]link
[url]http://m.imgur.com/gallery/Po7i1[/url]

OP, do you wanna be that guy or not? You decide.

Personally, I'd break up with her. If you can get a 9/10, you can get another one that you can actually phuck.[/QUOTE]

Negged

You'd leave your girl for getting cancer??
Youre a straight biitch

[QUOTE=308smk;1152911053]Is she going to recover at some point? Surgery or something?

Why don't you get some silicone lube up in that? You could probably fist**** an underage thai hooker with that **** its so slippery.[/QUOTE]

The doctor prescribed medicine which started to work for a week but then the tumor got used to it, and she's allergic to latex/silicone when we did have sex we only could use water base lube. It's a mental thing for her so like giving her massages, cooking her food or other **** that would make a normal girl wet her pants has no effect on her cause of the tumor. I am sticking with her but after six months I needed an outlet and I thank the misc for providing me with that. Thank you brahs

benign pituitary tumor/high prolactin crew***

my prolactin is like 18 on a scale where 1-17 is normal range though

my test is average and sex drive is also

didn't really do anything except give me pubertal gyno before

edit: I'm actually not sure if the doc said I have a tiny benign pituitary tumor or she was going to check if I had one. I should probably aware myself.

[QUOTE=ZombieEater;1152911343]Heres some help with pics brah[/QUOTE]

why would you potentially kill this mans thread u *******

whoa @ unexpected pic.

zombieeater is intentionally trying to get banned. Read his thread.

[QUOTE=Mighty Matt;1152913543]How do you know she's not a sloot if she has no sex drive?

Let's pretend she never had this issue. Within the past 9 months she may have cheated on you.[/QUOTE]

I live with her/we do everything together except when she's in class and I'm at the gym, trust me she's no sloot. She's sleeping next to me atm, I go to every doctor appointment with her etc.


Edit- she had her "slooting phase" freshmen year of college, she told me all about it and tells me everything and shows me when random dudes will text her and she doesn't respond. One thing I learned is every girl has a slooting phase just catch the one that has a short one or is over it.

[QUOTE=Jrr32;1152914483]I live with her/we do everything together except when she's in class and I'm at the gym, trust me she's no sloot. She's sleeping next to me atm, I go to every doctor appointment with her etc.[/QUOTE]We are pretending she does not have the health issue remember? Pretend she has a very high sex drive, would she have cheated on you? Maybe.

[QUOTE=jd29;1152913673]Negged

You'd leave your girl for getting cancer??
Youre a straight biitch[/QUOTE]

It's not like OP is married, idiot.


OP, srs, ditch her. It will make your life so much easier. And you will actually get laid. Plus you're 21. Stop acting like you met the girl on your dreams. Explore your options. Get out there.

K so let's focus on the issue here. How are they gonna get rid of the ****ing cancer?

she needs to get cabergaline, look it up.

[QUOTE=Jrr32;1152914483]I live with her/we do everything together except when she's in class and I'm at the gym, trust me she's no sloot. She's sleeping next to me atm, I go to every doctor appointment with her etc.


Edit- she had her "slooting phase" freshmen year of college, she told me all about it and tells me everything and shows me when random dudes will text her and she doesn't respond. One thing I learned is every girl has a slooting phase just catch the one that has a short one or is over it.[/QUOTE]

Fap and stick by her side. And she should be giving bjs whether she FEELS sexual or not. She's your partner. It's her job to please you in that department. That whole "I don't feel horny and don't wanna give bjs because of it" is an excuse. If she doesn't at least give head, dump her.