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insecure women
Given that we all have insecurities, but for the women who do not work out, or put any time and effort in their appearance, why must they try to put us down.
not that their opinions matter, but sometimes its the ones closest to us. Its sooo annoying. Anyone else has experienced this?
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Ignore it. Misery loves company.
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[QUOTE=aristomeow;969617243]Ignore it. Misery loves company.[/QUOTE]
^this, not only is she correct but she is also sexay ;)
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You just have to remind yourself that it's not a reflection on you, it's a reflection on them.
[QUOTE=aristomeow;969617243]Ignore it. Misery loves company.[/QUOTE]
Yep.
[QUOTE=Nelly87;969618343]^this, not only is she correct but she is also sexay ;)[/QUOTE]
Nelly is right... he has also been drinking LOL!
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I don't know what happened exactly, but I can say that some women seriously think that any bit of muscle mass is manly. I was in the locker room one day at the gym, this girl, who is like 5'11" and maybe 110 lbs, was talking to her friend and said something about how she had to tone down her training because her arms were starting to look too manly. Her upper arms are about as thick as my wrists. I've never WTF'd so hard in my life.
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[QUOTE=Botika;969620063]You just have to remind yourself that it's not a reflection on you, it's a reflection on them.
Yep.
Nelly is right... he has also been drinking LOL![/QUOTE]
Ahhh ****, lol. I been caught. Plz forgive me for I am having fun :D
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[QUOTE=Countrygal99;969612833]Given that we all have insecurities, but for the women who do not work out, or put any time and effort in their appearance, why must they try to put us down.
not that their opinions matter, but sometimes its the ones closest to us. Its sooo annoying. Anyone else has experienced this?[/QUOTE]
Why not just ignore her and move on, or you can always rub it in and tell her how bad she looks, that will shut her up.
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[QUOTE=Ma110W;969620463]I don't know what happened exactly, but I can say that some women seriously think that any bit of muscle mass is manly. I was in the locker room one day at the gym, this girl, who is like 5'11" and maybe 110 lbs, was talking to her friend and said something about how she had to tone down her training because her arms were starting to look too manly. Her upper arms are about as thick as my wrists. I've never WTF'd so hard in my life.[/QUOTE]
lol dafuq, strong misconception on her part. I cringe when i see super skinny girls, i want to shove a steak down their mouth.
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[QUOTE=skamps;969674083]lol dafuq, strong misconception on her part. I cringe when i see super skinny girls, i want to shove a steak down their mouth.[/QUOTE]
That's not nice. Lol.
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[QUOTE=LiveStrongMona;969675143]That's not nice. Lol.[/QUOTE]
I kind of like her idea though.
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[QUOTE=skamps;969674083]lol dafuq, strong misconception on her part. I cringe when i see super skinny girls, i want to shove a steak down their mouth.[/QUOTE]
I want to shove... imma stop right there,,,
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[QUOTE=Countrygal99;969612833]Given that we all have insecurities, but for the women who do not work out, or put any time and effort in their appearance[/QUOTE]
Biggest issue I have; Its okay for these people to tell us you are to skinny and/or muscular, but the second you turn around and tell them they need to take better care of themselves, you're seen as a bully.
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[QUOTE=LiveStrongMona;969675143]That's not nice. Lol.[/QUOTE]
ok ok i'll just shove in a salad with chicken. baby steps ;)
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Not even women can put up with some of the things nonlifter women say.
May the creator have mercy on us all....
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[QUOTE=Countrygal99;969612833]Given that we all have insecurities, but for the women who do not work out, or put any time and effort in their appearance, why must they try to put us down.
not that their opinions matter, but sometimes its the ones closest to us. Its sooo annoying. Anyone else has experienced this?[/QUOTE]yep, my 17 year old daughter. She says eeww to my muscle, and asks why do I go to the gym ALL the time ( I go 6 days average 30-45 mins!) When I say I feel tired she blames it on my healthy diet and exercise (couldn't be juggling work and home).
When I catch up with friends, they usually comment that I look great, then they all start nitpicking eg. how can i be bothered, blah blah.
Its pretty annoying at times, as its not me who even brings anything up, its usually them...
Its almost like you have to defend and explain why you live healthy and workout to these people
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[QUOTE=Cherrybomb2;969690273]Biggest issue I have; Its okay for these people to tell us you are to skinny and/or muscular, but the second you turn around and tell them they need to take better care of themselves, you're seen as a bully.[/QUOTE]
This really rustles my jimmies. People have no problem telling you you're too skinny or you need to gain some weight. Imagine if I went around to every out of shape person and said "Wow you're getting really FAT"... don't think I'd have too many friends.
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[QUOTE=Nelly87;969678443]I want to shove... imma stop right there,,,
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Lol, I got drunk last night for the first time in a long time and I am seriously surprised at the things I thought would be good things to verbalize.
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[QUOTE=Vawx;969718153]This really rustles my jimmies. People have no problem telling you you're too skinny or you need to gain some weight. Imagine if I went around to every out of shape person and said "Wow you're getting really FAT"... don't think I'd have too many friends.[/QUOTE]
Amen.
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I'm pretty fortunate here. There are about 4 people where I work getting themselves into shape and it's good to talk to them about it.
But I know what you mean, my roommate has already told me I picked a horrible time to go on a diet and that she doesn't like all the room my new food takes up.
I just sigh then I go to BB.com and do my best to forget I have a roommate. :P
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[QUOTE=skamps;969674083]lol dafuq, strong misconception on her part. I cringe when i see super skinny girls, i want to shove a steak down their mouth.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=LiveStrongMona;969675143]That's not nice. Lol.[/QUOTE]
LOL! Plus a total waste of a good piece of meat! :)
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[QUOTE=melodyjayne;969709803]yep, my 17 year old daughter. [/QUOTE]
You don't look old enough to have a 17YO daughter! :)
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[QUOTE=Ascendedlife;969740373]Lol, I got drunk last night for the first time in a long time and I am seriously surprised at the things I thought would be good things to verbalize.[/QUOTE]
Haha I was drunk when I posted that, good thing I wasn't to blasted otherwise I would not have stopped myself.
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[QUOTE=Nelly87;969820453]Haha I was drunk when I posted that, good thing I wasn't to blasted otherwise I would not have stopped myself.[/QUOTE]
Well good to see you up and at it this morning Nelly :) Bad head??
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[QUOTE=danap3681;969823883]Well good to see you up and at it this morning Nelly :) Bad head??[/QUOTE]
Thanks! Naw no hangover here. I don't get them :D.
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[QUOTE=Countrygal99;969612833]Given that we all have insecurities, but for the women who do not work out, or put any time and effort in their appearance, why must they try to put us down.
not that their opinions matter, but sometimes its the ones closest to us. Its sooo annoying. Anyone else has experienced this?[/QUOTE]
just punch them in the face
:D
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[QUOTE=Countrygal99;969612833]Given that we all have insecurities, but for the women who do not work out, or put any time and effort in their appearance, why must they try to put us down.
not that their opinions matter, but sometimes its the ones closest to us. Its sooo annoying. Anyone else has experienced this?[/QUOTE]
NOBODY wants to be around insecure whales, other than other insecure whales.
Good luck.
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[QUOTE=Nelly87;969830483]Thanks! Naw no hangover here. I don't get them :D.[/QUOTE]
Because you are still young my friend. Hank Williams Jr. told the truth when he sang "the hangovers hurt more than the use to" LOL!
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Only person I've got crap from thus far has been my MIL, she's very passive agressive about things too. She says she works out (leisurly pedal on the bike in front of the tv while doing triceps extensions with 5lb DBs for MAYBE 15min) And not regularly btw. ANYWAYYY, she made a comment about how I looked too thin and asked if I lost weight, I told her no and that I actually gained weight due to beginning some dumbell training (no cardio) but that my fat % might be down. She got this serious look of discouragement and then a fake smile came over her and she said "eat more wheat, that will make you gain weight" I told her I eat all the carbs I need and that "I am not trying to get fat I am trying to get muscular". She was just pissed because she gained a bunch of weight this month when her husband retired. It didn't hurt my feelings or anything just darn annoying.
[QUOTE=Countrygal99;969612833]Given that we all have insecurities, but for the women who do not work out, or put any time and effort in their appearance, why must they try to put us down.
not that their opinions matter, but sometimes its the ones closest to us. Its sooo annoying. Anyone else has experienced this?[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Crazymix;969835373]NOBODY wants to be around insecure whales, other than other insecure whales.
Good luck.[/QUOTE]
LOL hey brah I was banned for using the Wh*ale word, be careful now.
Reps on recharge.
Whaling season is over brah.
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[QUOTE=Countrygal99;969612833]Given that we all have insecurities, but for the women who do not work out, or put any time and effort in their appearance, why must they try to put us down.
not that their opinions matter, but sometimes its the ones closest to us. Its sooo annoying. Anyone else has experienced this?[/QUOTE]
OP,
What happened? I'm curious. Are you thinking of a specific instance or is this a more general question?
I don't generally hang out with people who aren't supportive (well except for some family members who I can't seem to shake :D LOL)