my biggest issue at this time is dealing with stress. managing a club sucks while trying to reach certain goals. i have numerous responsibilites and people that i answer to. that is my job and on the one hand a blessing from god that i can do exactly what i love to do. Then the other is mentally i am cracked. I am in a seperation from my wife and two kids. The one that i know God gave to me. But through all the unfaithfulness on both sides and trials i have cracked. Where besides the foot of the cross can i turn. I know He is always there and that is such a saving thought for me but my christain friends have all turned on me or so it seems. If anyone knows of a place to turn in the tristate area please tell me

Wow brother, when it rains it pours, the Bible says it rains on the just and unjust alike. Don't be overcome with doubt, I know it is hard, the Christian life is always the harder path. You have the Enemy against you, friends doubt judge you slander you. Stay strong and pursue Christ with a vigor, Paul was beaten imprisoned judged and persecuted, but he was untouchable because of his faith and reliance on Christ. Remember to pray..so many times in the Bible God tells us just to ASK him..and he will give us the desire of our hearts, but we have to have faith that he will. Sometimes our lives crumble in an effort for us to realize how much we need Christ in our lives and how we can't do it on our own. Through your struggle you will be taught something, it will build character, and probably draw you closer to Christ. Stay strong brother

wow... that is alot to be dealing with! professional and personal; with break ups it is never easy - there is a program called divorce care that could be in your area; christian based that can offer support possible - you can google it or find it at a church or parish i would think! for the rest - i go with getstonger84 - somehow we are a stubborn group and even though we know and even though God tells us over and over again, whatever it is it seems we can only learn at times the hard way; things about ourselves and about others and ultimately about God! God stays loyal through all of it!