Just found out my current girl went down on some dude in public and got kicked out...

[warbird00]

of her sorority


Yeah. She told me she had problems with her sorority (only was in it for 1 quarter) and i knew that one night she got uber ****ed up (she doent throw up when she drinks) and was going crazy and gave hella dudes lap dances.
I dont care about that **** because its only a lapdance and it was before i knew her (not like i ahvnt done **** like that)

Well i just found out that she got kicked out of her sorority cause she got caught giving a guy dome in public.

yeah, and shes such a good girl, hella square ass mormon. Also she barely ever drinks, i mean i havnt even ****ed her yet and its been 6 weeks and barely get anything from her- fat square like i said

****, my world just got turned upside down and im pretty drunk too

wtf do i do :(

(she left for teh weekend so i wont see her till saturday)

[mchenrycruiser]

of her sorority


Yeah. She told me she had problems with her sorority (only was in it for 1 quarter) and i knew that one night she got uber ****ed up (she doent throw up when she drinks) and was going crazy and gave hella dudes lap dances.
I dont care about that **** because its only a lapdance and it was before i knew her (not like i ahvnt done **** like that)

Well i just found out that she got kicked out of her sorority cause she got caught giving a guy dome in public.

yeah, and shes such a good girl, hella square ass mormon. Also she barely ever drinks, i mean i havnt even ****ed her yet and its been 6 weeks and barely get anything from her- fat square like i said

****, my world just got turned upside down and im pretty drunk too

wtf do i do :(

(she left for teh weekend so i wont see her till saturday)your young....dump her or cheat on her.........

[Spetsnazos]

dump her dont be a puss seriously she'll cheat again...why would u want her

[warbird00]

noooo. She diditn do this while i was with her. Before i was with her

but ****, what sort of chick does that?

[BigPoppaPump84]

but ****, what sort of chick does that?

I think you already know the answer to that question.

[Sammy456]

dump/cheat

[ballsoftitanium]

She's a slut.

Once a slut always a slut.

**** her one last time and then curb her ass.

Edit: You've been with her 6 weeks and you haven't ****ed her yet?

Dude, you gotta get on that.

[G-Style]

At least **** her first before you leave her.

[JTrain306]

noooo. She diditn do this while i was with her. Before i was with her

but ****, what sort of chick does that?

plenty of people **** in public...

if you 2 were walking around and she offered to give you head behind a building, would you deny it? If you're OK with receiving, then the giving ain't a crime. What kind of **** have you done before you met her? Do you think she'd dump you if she found out about everything you've done in your past? I don't know you... but think about these things. Double standards are no good. Unless she's out giving dudes BJs while you guys are together, I don't see the big deal... not like she starred in a 100 man bukkake video or something... (or did she??) :D

Anyways.... so is this the reason she became a prude? If you want some action, you gotta get her wild side out again... you know she has it.

[Beachbum1546]

You not getting ass after that long when knowing she give blowjobs to randoms guys is pretty un-alpha. Be a man and f.vck her hard.


You post pics of her.

[warbird00]

plenty of people **** in public...

if you 2 were walking around and she offered to give you head behind a building, would you deny it? If you're OK with receiving, then the giving ain't a crime. What kind of **** have you done before you met her? Do you think she'd dump you if she found out about everything you've done in your past? I don't know you... but think about these things. Double standards are no good. Unless she's out giving dudes BJs while you guys are together, I don't see the big deal... not like she starred in a 100 man bukkake video or something... (or did she??) :D

Yaeh tru dat. But the thing is shes only gave me dome once in 6 weeks, havnt ****ed her, and shes 17

[JTrain306]

Yaeh tru dat. But the thing is shes only gave me dome once in 6 weeks, havnt ****ed her, and shes 17
I edited my post....

get her wild side out. it's in there somewhere.

[ballsoftitanium]

Get her drunk and bang her.

By the time she realizes what's happening it will be too late to stop.

[Spetsnazos]

noooo. She diditn do this while i was with her. Before i was with her

but ****, what sort of chick does that?

oh ok i didnt understand

lol

in that case forget it bro...come on you havent done crazy **** yourself??

[TricepsNGirls]

She could have overcompensated by cutting back on the sexy stuff with you. Anyways, whatever - it's totally up to you. You aren't marrying her. As long you two can have fun and get along with each other, might as well let it slide. If this knowledge starts to harm your trust and happiness, then ditch it.

[warbird00]

oh ok i didnt understand

lol

in that case forget it bro...come on you havent done crazy **** yourself??

yeah, taht is true.

BUt ****, i thought she was so innocent, and now i find out she did this ****?

But yeah, im overreacting

[Ilove2Huck]

Mormons are like that man, I dated one last year for 9 months. They are sexually repressed people and they do ****ed up **** like that. Some stuff bothered me, some didnt. then again I did things with her in public that would have pissed me off if they were with other guys so I can't really talk **** :D

At some point you are going to have to get over stuff like this, as you get older more and more girls you date are gonna be trashy and slutty, whether or not they play it off that way. You always find out down the road they ****ed some old guy in a bar one night, or something equally ****ed up. Just gotta learn to live with it. :D

[Spetsnazos]

yeah, taht is true.

BUt ****, i thought she was so innocent, and now i find out she did this ****?

But yeah, im overreacting

just forget about it, but if you see some fishy ****, dump her at the first sight...DO NOT HESITATE

but if it really bothers you, id dump her now, do you know how many girls are out there?? alot more than I can count thats for sure

[warbird00]

Mormons are like that man, I dated one last year for 9 months. They are sexually repressed people and they do ****ed up **** like that. Some stuff bothered me, some didnt. then again I did things with her in public that would have pissed me off if they were with other guys so I can't really talk **** :D

At some point you are going to have to get over stuff like this, as you get older more and more girls you date are gonna be trashy and slutty, whether or not they play it off that way. You always find out down the road they ****ed some old guy in a bar one night, or something equally ****ed up. Just gotta learn to live with it. :D

It woudlnt really bother me if she wasnt such a prude. The fact that she did thsi and now barely does **** with me (who she is ****ing dating) is kinda wierd. Is shes being such a square to make up with her prior slutty ways??

[JTrain306]

It woudlnt really bother me if she wasnt such a prude. The fact that she did thsi and now barely does **** with me (who she is ****ing dating) is kinda wierd.

Tell her that in a respectful tone.... I think it's important you let her know.

Also say that you feel sexuality is an important part to a healthy relationship, and that in no way will you think of her as a slut if she gets down with you.... you know, no double standards.

I personally think her prude side comes from that... she is trying not to be seen as a slut. Try not to make her feel sexually 'used'. Make her feel comfortable being sexual with you, and assure her you're not going to pass judgment on her for it. Once she's loosens up a little (no pun intended :D) I think she'll be OK.

[warbird00]

Tell her that in a respectful tone.... I think it's important you let her know.

Also say that you feel sexuality is an important part to a healthy relationship, and that in no way will you think of her as a slut if she gets down with you.... you know, no double standards.

I personally think her prude side comes from that... she is trying not to be seen as a slut. Try not to make her feel sexually 'used'. Make her feel comfortable being sexual with you, and assure her you're not going to pass judgment on her for it. Once she's loosens up a little (no pun intended :D) I think she'll be OK.

Hmm, she has gone down on me, once. And i finger her a lot (not inl ike 2 weeks tho i think, been mad busy, period, ect) but shes hella selfish with sexual acts, i have ate her out like 3 times and fingered her a lot and made her go crazy but she only gave me dome once...

[slackajack]

Lol, ridiculous answers. All girls have a past. Don't ever ask about it or look for it man. Just pretend that they don't and it'll all work out.

Or, watch heaps of anal gangbang porn untill you're desensitized.

[JTrain306]

talk to her about it... otherwise it'll build up inside (no pu intended again :D) and just piss you off. If you get it out in the open now, at least you can get her view on it and then decide how you want to handle it. Keeping her in the dark about a concern you have about the relationship will destroy it from the inside out.

[SupaDJDiesel]

You have no choice but to get rid of her. Can you accept someone of such irresponsible promiscuity as your wife and mother of your children? If not, move on. Remain friends. Remain friends with benefits if you like. Just cease emotional ties, as they will only lead to eventual heartbreak.

[slackajack]

You have no choice but to get rid of her. Can you accept someone of such irresponsible promiscuity as your wife and mother of your children? If not, move on. Remain friends. Remain friends with benefits if you like. Just cease emotional ties, as they will only lead to eventual heartbreak.

All hot girls have a past at that age. You have to deal with it. And it doesn't even sound like a major past. And to compound my point further, she was wasted and wouldn't remember any of it.

Don't drop a girl because she's been with other guys. Sometimes it just takes a while to get over it but you do eventually. If she's as square as you say she's probably better off than most girls out there anyway. Don't confront her, just forget about it. It's not really a big deal.

[EZ-Bar]

ehh **** happens. if she is important to you then just keep an eye out for those drunk nights then dump her the first time she does anything like that cause she is drunk.

at least give her a shot.

[blindside]

of her sorority


Yeah. She told me she had problems with her sorority (only was in it for 1 quarter) and i knew that one night she got uber ****ed up (she doent throw up when she drinks) and was going crazy and gave hella dudes lap dances.
I dont care about that **** because its only a lapdance and it was before i knew her (not like i ahvnt done **** like that)

Well i just found out that she got kicked out of her sorority cause she got caught giving a guy dome in public.

yeah, and shes such a good girl, hella square ass mormon. Also she barely ever drinks, i mean i havnt even ****ed her yet and its been 6 weeks and barely get anything from her- fat square like i said

****, my world just got turned upside down and im pretty drunk too

wtf do i do :(

(she left for teh weekend so i wont see her till saturday)
...does your girl go to SSU...?

[warbird00]

...does your girl go to SSU...?

lulz no. u go to ssu?

[jd12]

break her neck, that **** doesn't stand.

[lordsess24]

of her sorority


Yeah. She told me she had problems with her sorority (only was in it for 1 quarter) and i knew that one night she got uber ****ed up (she doent throw up when she drinks) and was going crazy and gave hella dudes lap dances.
I dont care about that **** because its only a lapdance and it was before i knew her (not like i ahvnt done **** like that)

Well i just found out that she got kicked out of her sorority cause she got caught giving a guy dome in public.

yeah, and shes such a good girl, hella square ass mormon. Also she barely ever drinks, i mean i havnt even ****ed her yet and its been 6 weeks and barely get anything from her- fat square like i said

****, my world just got turned upside down and im pretty drunk too

wtf do i do :(

(she left for teh weekend so i wont see her till saturday)

BRO, Come on man, it must be the alcohol talking. I think your a cool poster, or else I would of just said man up, but I will elaborate.

First off, one big PROBLEM I see is, you said she is a nice girl thats a 'square ass mormon'. Well, if shes out partying, and giving guys a bj in public, your sadly mistaken. My GF goes out to bars and such, and doesnt do **** like that. Also, you have not had sex or anything from her yet, but yet she gave a RANDOM GUY head. LEAVE HER. NOW. DO IT BRO. If I take my time to write this **** out, and find out you stuck it out with her, negs will rain from the sky!

She is simply a whore. Being drunk makes your true feelings come out, so now you know what shes truly like. ALSO, how about from now on every time she goes out, your gonna remember what happened and be nervous as ****, ITS NOT WORTH YOUR SANITY!

[SupaDJDiesel]

All hot girls have a past at that age. You have to deal with it. And it doesn't even sound like a major past. And to compound my point further, she was wasted and wouldn't remember any of it.


That sounds totally cool. I'm sure if I get drunk and go on a killing spree, I wont be held accountable as long as I pass out and don't remember it. It was a supreme court decision right? I believe the case of Pimp v Ho was the precedent.

Acceptance of such behavior is a show of weakness and denial. Any man who accepts a past like that has no respect for himself and should receive no respect from others.

[wanaBsedated]

noooo. She diditn do this while i was with her. Before i was with her

but ****, what sort of chick does that?

"before I was with her"

DONT BE A MORON!

[lordsess24]

That sounds totally cool. I'm sure if I get drunk and go on a killing spree, I wont be held accountable as long as I pass out and don't remember it. It was a supreme court decision right? I believe the case of Pimp v Ho was the precedent.

Acceptance of such behavior is a show of weakness and denial. Any man who accepts a past like that has no respect for himself and should receive no respect from others.

GOD DAMN MAN, ****in mods should rep you for this ****.

[siberian_tiger]

That sounds totally cool. I'm sure if I get drunk and go on a killing spree, I wont be held accountable as long as I pass out and don't remember it. It was a supreme court decision right? I believe the case of Pimp v Ho was the precedent.

Acceptance of such behavior is a show of weakness and denial. Any man who accepts a past like that has no respect for himself and should receive no respect from others.

I agree, I set standards for myself, and for the people I'm with.

[Shattering Fast]

Talk to her and tell her to quit being selfish. If that doesn't work and it keeps being a problem then end it.

[slackajack]

That sounds totally cool. I'm sure if I get drunk and go on a killing spree, I wont be held accountable as long as I pass out and don't remember it. It was a supreme court decision right? I believe the case of Pimp v Ho was the precedent.

Acceptance of such behavior is a show of weakness and denial. Any man who accepts a past like that has no respect for himself and should receive no respect from others.

Every girl over the age of about 18 has history. If you can't accept that you're the one in denial. She wasn't with him at the time, she's allowed to do what she wants. There's nothing wrong with a girl getting with another guy before you if you're older than 17-18. It's natrual. It's not a question of whether you're alpha or not. It's just about accepting the truth and dealing with it.

And girls are just as grossed and upset when they find out what other girls guys have been with, but they're a bit more mature about it than us. Adults sleep around. Deal with it.

Don't drop your girl mate. Just don't ask in future if it upsets you.

[FMedic08]

Strong not Mormon.

[varter]

Every girl over the age of about 18 has history. If you can't accept that you're the one in denial. She wasn't with him at the time, she's allowed to do what she wants. There's nothing wrong with a girl getting with another guy before you if you're older than 17-18. It's natrual. It's not a question of whether you're alpha or not. It's just about accepting the truth and dealing with it.

And girls are just as grossed and upset when they find out what other girls guys have been with, but they're a bit more mature about it than us. Adults sleep around. Deal with it.

Don't drop your girl mate. Just don't ask in future if it upsets you.

Bingo. This is classic "no sense in complaining about what you can't change."

It seems like everyone here wants the most innocent girlfriend, and no one tolerates imperfection. This is grossly unrealistic.

We've ALL done things we're not proud of. No one wants to be reminded of it. How would you like to be brought into question by someone for every bad decision you've ever made? This is far from being serious; her past could be much, MUCH worse (prison, family issues, whathaveyou).

Since this was NOT during your relationship, she technically did nothing wrong. It is her private life before she met you; as much as you don't want to hear it, it's not really any of your business.

People get so carried away with emotions because they care so much about things that don't matter. Everything in life is a choice and you are choosing to be upset by this. YOU are making it a problem when it isn't one. You like this girl, just accept that you have her and don't be bothered by something you can't change.

[varter]

That sounds totally cool. I'm sure if I get drunk and go on a killing spree, I wont be held accountable as long as I pass out and don't remember it. It was a supreme court decision right? I believe the case of Pimp v Ho was the precedent.

Acceptance of such behavior is a show of weakness and denial. Any man who accepts a past like that has no respect for himself and should receive no respect from others.


GOD DAMN MAN, ****in mods should rep you for this ****.

..........

Excuse you? You're equating killing sprees with giving head. That's not even apples to oranges. One is a universal felony, the other is a harmless act of oral sex. Two COMPLETELY different standards of forgiveness.

Sorry, mods don't rep stupidity. In fact I hope they neg your asses for completely fallacious information.

[SpiderSense]

It seems like everyone here wants the most innocent girlfriend, and no one tolerates imperfection. This is grossly unrealistic.


Then on top of that, you have threads like "My GF don't know How To Give Head!!!"

[Qijofeuih]

I would say dump her ass or talk to her and tell her what you think.

She gave some random guy head but she's only sucked on your dick once in 6 weeks? It's not worth it being with a girl that doesn't satisfy you sexually especially if she gives it up to random people but not you. I would be insulted.

Either she starts putting out or you dump her.

[kmk25II45]

That sucks. Since you're not in too deep, I would get out now while it is still easy.

[warbird00]

One of the things im worried about is that she has a big history of doing drunk **** while in he sorority. I know in HS she didint drink and was a fat mormon square but she told me once in her sorority she got insanely drunk and gave everyone at some party lap dances (dont care) and no i found out this.

Wtf, at this point im wondering what ELSE she did, at this point i wouldnt be surprised if 10 black guys had a bukake with her (no racist)

[warbird00]

Im pretty ****ign pissed right now

So we were supposed to go to a movie/dinner last night (ive been trying to take her out for like 3 weeks, but **** keeps coming up)

Well her parents wanted her to go to some town 5 hrs away with them and the family so i was like whatever (not like i can say "NO BITCH, YOUR COMING WITH ME, **** YOUR FAMILY")

I was kinda pissed off because **** like this keeps happenening. So she was supposed to leave yesterday and coem back sunday. She said we could go sunday so i was like ok, sounds good.

Well my roommate just saw her donig her laundry.

WTF. Im ****ing heated. Didnt even call me or anything. wow. i dont even know what to do now

[Clide Whit]

You can't turn a hoe into a housewife, ditch her.

[Killer_Demo]

ditch the hoe

[aeons]

Every girl over the age of about 18 has history. If you can't accept that you're the one in denial. She wasn't with him at the time, she's allowed to do what she wants. There's nothing wrong with a girl getting with another guy before you if you're older than 17-18. It's natrual. It's not a question of whether you're alpha or not. It's just about accepting the truth and dealing with it.

And girls are just as grossed and upset when they find out what other girls guys have been with, but they're a bit more mature about it than us. Adults sleep around. Deal with it.

Don't drop your girl mate. Just don't ask in future if it upsets you.

and also girls are most of the time attracted to girls. so it wouldn't bother them as much as a guy.

[uzbek]

don't dump her, but get another one for sure

[fuelish1]

what sort of chick does that?

drunken sorority college girls......

[NIUNIU_SAN]

What's wrong with your gf giving some guy head? Nothing. It was before you started going out. It's not like she gave 5 guys head in a row. Then you would be worried.

[SupaDJDiesel]

Every girl over the age of about 18 has history. If you can't accept that you're the one in denial. She wasn't with him at the time, she's allowed to do what she wants. There's nothing wrong with a girl getting with another guy before you if you're older than 17-18.

I'm not in denial. I "accept" it, as in I believe that it's true, but I do not condone it, that is the difference. You'll get no sympathy from me, just an instant termination of service.


..........

Excuse you? You're equating killing sprees with giving head. That's not even apples to oranges. One is a universal felony, the other is a harmless act of oral sex. Two COMPLETELY different standards of forgiveness.

Sorry, mods don't rep stupidity. In fact I hope they neg your asses for completely fallacious information.

I was not equating anything, I was arguing that alcoholism is not an excuse for inappropriate action. If it was, it would be applicable to any scenario.


One of the things im worried about is that she has a big history of doing drunk **** while in he sorority. I know in HS she didint drink and was a fat mormon square but she told me once in her sorority she got insanely drunk and gave everyone at some party lap dances (dont care) and no i found out this.

Wtf, at this point im wondering what ELSE she did, at this point i wouldnt be surprised if 10 black guys had a bukake with her (no racist)

She has. There's a million things she hasn't told you. Take it from me, I've spent years doing reconnaissance operations on the "fairer" sex. If you decide to stay with her, every 4-6 months or so, she'll breakdown and cry you another story about another guy/girl/horse she sucked/f*cked/loved.

[Ajuice72]

of her sorority


Yeah. She told me she had problems with her sorority (only was in it for 1 quarter) and i knew that one night she got uber ****ed up (she doent throw up when she drinks) and was going crazy and gave hella dudes lap dances.
I dont care about that **** because its only a lapdance and it was before i knew her (not like i ahvnt done **** like that)

Well i just found out that she got kicked out of her sorority cause she got caught giving a guy dome in public.

yeah, and shes such a good girl, hella square ass mormon. Also she barely ever drinks, i mean i havnt even ****ed her yet and its been 6 weeks and barely get anything from her- fat square like i said

****, my world just got turned upside down and im pretty drunk too

wtf do i do :(

(she left for teh weekend so i wont see her till saturday)


Good girl.... sucked a dude off in public.... something is not computing.

Alchohol is a crutch it did not make her do what she did it was merely her excuse for what she did it enabled her to do what she wanted to while having a lame excuse.

Stay with her though keep hitting that **** just start looking for another.

[Qijofeuih]

What's wrong with your gf giving some guy head? Nothing. It was before you started going out. It's not like she gave 5 guys head in a row. Then you would be worried.

It's more about her not giving HIM head and yet she gave some other guy head. She's being sexually useless and yet she used to be a skank.

War - Find a new girl.

[forcefedfreak]

gave hella dudes lap dances.
I dont care about that **** because its only a lapdance and it was before i knew her (not like i ahvnt done **** like that)



You've given hella dudes lap dances? No homo?

But in reality, dump her. Why? Not because she sucked some dude off. Because she is religious. I hate religious people. This is a prime example of why. "I'm super religious, but God will forgive me if I act like a dirty whore and suck off random guys in public, so it's all good. But you just said the F word you are going to hell!!!!!!"

[The Experiment]

If she is doing her laundry when she is supposed to be hours away, that is a slam dunk case of throwing her ass to the curb.

No exceptions, no latitude, no matter how much she tries to cry or spin it on you.

[warbird00]

If she is doing her laundry when she is supposed to be hours away, that is a slam dunk case of throwing her ass to the curb.

No exceptions, no latitude, no matter how much she tries to cry or spin it on you.

Yeah dude, i think this might be the straw that breaks the camels back.

Im gonna wait until sunday (when she was supposed to come home) then be like "how was your trip?"

and if she lies im calling her ass out and dumping her ass

[slackajack]

If she is doing her laundry when she is supposed to be hours away, that is a slam dunk case of throwing her ass to the curb.

No exceptions, no latitude, no matter how much she tries to cry or spin it on you.


Yeah dude, i think this might be the straw that breaks the camels back.

Im gonna wait until sunday (when she was supposed to come home) then be like "how was your trip?"

and if she lies im calling her ass out and dumping her ass

You're not married to her. How do you know your friend saw the right person and not just someone that looks like her?

Maybe she got back early and just doesn't want to be clingy by calling you straight away. You've only been dating 6 weeks, you're not soul-mates yet.

And every single guy on the misc will always talk alpha and tell you to dump your girl. Ride it out for a while. Maybe she'll start opening up.

[The Experiment]

You're not married to her. How do you know your friend saw the right person and not just someone that looks like her?

Maybe she got back early and just doesn't want to be clingy by calling you straight away. You've only been dating 6 weeks, you're not soul-mates yet.

And every single guy on the misc will always talk alpha and tell you to dump your girl. Ride it out for a while. Maybe she'll start opening up.

I disagree.

He isn't married to her but I don't see how he should be the chump as his girl is blowing everyone that can whip it out at her demand. Skipping out on a date by making up a phony excuse is a ****ty idea and a huge breach of trust. If she lied about it, what else has she lied about? Why is she giving such excuses so she can free up a couple of days?

If she wanted to clear her head or spend a night out with her friends, she could have said so. Flimsy lies aren't acceptable.

He will ask and if she said, "Well it went great but I had to come home early for..." then it is all good. If she said it went by great and acted like the thing went off without a hitch, then that is a lie and given her history, could involve some infidelity.

It is all up to him but lying about that kind of thing is a huge sign of disrespect and means that her word doesn't mean ****, screwing over any future that might have happened.

[warbird00]

You're not married to her. How do you know your friend saw the right person and not just someone that looks like her?

Maybe she got back early and just doesn't want to be clingy by calling you straight away. You've only been dating 6 weeks, you're not soul-mates yet.

And every single guy on the misc will always talk alpha and tell you to dump your girl. Ride it out for a while. Maybe she'll start opening up.

No, he saw my girl, not some random person. Come back early? SHe was supposed to leave Friday and come back Sunday. SO she left at like 6 on fri, got there at 11, then left on sat at 7 and got back here at 12? lol

And yeah, i take the misc's advice with a big ass grain of salt, dont worry


I disagree.

He isn't married to her but I don't see how he should be the chump as his girl is blowing everyone that can whip it out at her demand. Skipping out on a date by making up a phony excuse is a ****ty idea and a huge breach of trust. If she lied about it, what else has she lied about? Why is she giving such excuses so she can free up a couple of days?

If she wanted to clear her head or spend a night out with her friends, she could have said so. Flimsy lies aren't acceptable.

He will ask and if she said, "Well it went great but I had to come home early for..." then it is all good. If she said it went by great and acted like the thing went off without a hitch, then that is a lie and given her history, could involve some infidelity.

It is all up to him but lying about that kind of thing is a huge sign of disrespect and means that her word doesn't mean ****, screwing over any future that might have happened.

THe thing is she lives 50 feet away from me. She woudlnt be able to pull of lying about going some where and not going because i would see her. Also if she wants to hang out with her friends i would let her. She usually has a "girls" night every week and i chill with my buddies.

yeah dude, if she lied about this i am going to just get up and leave her apartment and not talk to her again, that would be so ****ed up because she doesnt have to lie. If she had some thing else to do she could just tell me....


Thing is, should i call her? She probably expected me to call her last night but since i found out about her doing that **** i didint feel like calling her at all.

[SpiderSense]

OK, now that I understand the laundry thing, I'd say it's looking more like you should dump her. I'd go out to lunch with her and bring your buddy. Don't come right out, carry on like normal. Eventually just ask how her trip went. If she lies, you go the smoking gun right there in your buddy. I'm leaning towards dumping her because when girls start acting like that, it usually means they're up to no good. Which means that you're either getting played or on your way to being dumped.

Or, if you realy wanted to **** with her, stay with her. Stay with her, find another girl and start ****ing around. Then when you and your GF handg out, give hints that you're leaving too. Things like slowly taking your stuff back if any, or maybe for her BD or the next 'hallmark holiday" give her some ****ty gift that is wrapped all ****ed up. And whenever you guys hang out look like a slob. Then tell her things like you want to hang out with a buddy and come back looking all clean and nice.

Your call.

[warbird00]

OK, now that I understand the laundry thing, I'd say it's looking more like you should dump her. I'd go out to lunch with her and bring your buddy. Don't come right out, carry on like normal. Eventually just ask how her trip went. If she lies, you go the smoking gun right there in your buddy. I'm leaning towards dumping her because when girls start acting like that, it usually means they're up to no good. Which means that you're either getting played or on your way to being dumped.

Or, if you realy wanted to **** with her, stay with her. Stay with her, find another girl and start ****ing around. Then when you and your GF handg out, give hints that you're leaving too. Things like slowly taking your stuff back if any, or maybe for her BD or the next 'hallmark holiday" give her some ****ty gift that is wrapped all ****ed up. And whenever you guys hang out look like a slob. Then tell her things like you want to hang out with a buddy and come back looking all clean and nice.

Your call.

I called her a couple hours ago. When/if she calls me back im gonna ask her how things went. If she lies gonna call her out and then just hang out and not talk to her again.

If she lied to me **** her. I can forgive her for giving some dude dome (i think i can) because now she is straight edge again (barely drinks/goes out) but i cannot accept lying.

[King Makaveli]

You're way too young to be under the thumb of some stupid whore dude, seriously....It's all politics, this life. Everyone's looking to manipulate others and she manipulated you into believing this 'good girl' facade she puts on in order to try to repair her worthless shattered ego. She systematically destroyed her rep and self worth by slutting herself out so she had to build that back up by proving that she could put a guy on a leash with the whole 'prude' act. It's all bull**** and you're too young to put up with it.

[brianphi]

of her sorority
and shes such a good girl, hella square ass mormon.

Love how guys can convince themselves of anything.

Look, I've taken headers in public places before... they were nice girls, one was even pretty attractive... but I didn't date them. They were not angels, and neither was I...and I wasn't going to trick myself into believing anything different.

[warbird00]

You're way too young to be under the thumb of some stupid whore dude, seriously....It's all politics, this life. Everyone's looking to manipulate others and she manipulated you into believing this 'good girl' facade she puts on in order to try to repair her worthless shattered ego. She systematically destroyed her rep and self worth by slutting herself out so she had to build that back up by proving that she could put a guy on a leash with the whole 'prude' act. It's all bull**** and you're too young to put up with it.

Hmm, that might be true but i dunno about "repairing" her reps cause she doesnt really go out and doesnt have many friends cause she usually stays home and her parents live in the same town as her college.


Love how guys can convince themselves of anything.

Look, I've taken headers in public places before... they were nice girls, one was even pretty attractive... but I didn't date them. They were not angels, and neither was I...and I wasn't going to trick myself into believing anything different.

I never said she WAS a good girl. I said i thought she was cause she barely ever goes out, is a mormon, barely drinks, doesnt do drungs, prolly is a vigin and is 17

all signs led to square

[brianphi]

I never said she WAS a good girl. I said i thought she was cause she barely ever goes out, is a mormon, barely drinks, doesnt do drungs, prolly is a vigin and is 17

all signs led to square


Then the past is the past. You've never gotten head from some chick in public? People do crazy things when they're single, I wouldn't worry about it much.

[CaptConservativ]

piitb

[brianphi]

gave head in public... prolly a virgin....


Let's assume she's not a virgin to save you future dissapointment. It's ok...most of your girlfriends will not be virgins.

[Twisted_Psyche]

of her sorority


Yeah. She told me she had problems with her sorority (only was in it for 1 quarter) and i knew that one night she got uber ****ed up (she doent throw up when she drinks) and was going crazy and gave hella dudes lap dances.
I dont care about that **** because its only a lapdance and it was before i knew her (not like i ahvnt done **** like that)

Well i just found out that she got kicked out of her sorority cause she got caught giving a guy dome in public.

yeah, and shes such a good girl, hella square ass mormon. Also she barely ever drinks, i mean i havnt even ****ed her yet and its been 6 weeks and barely get anything from her- fat square like i said

****, my world just got turned upside down and im pretty drunk too

wtf do i do :(

(she left for teh weekend so i wont see her till saturday)

Cheat on her like crazy. You're not going to be with this crypto-skank forever, so live it up!

[u5711]

I think a good question to ask YOURSELF at this point is, why are you with her in the first place?

[Twisted_Psyche]

I think a good question to ask YOURSELF at this point is, why are you with her in the first place?

No ****, she doesn't put out. Dump this broad!

[warbird00]

Ok just talked to her (she called me last night but i didint have my phone)

So she was supposed to leave friday, so she goes to her parents house (they live 20 mins away) and she finds out that she has to work saturday morning. So she is already at her parents house so she jus sleeps over there (she goes ther a lot) and next morning she goes to work then leaves to go with her family to some speech.

Im not really trippin. I sorta wanna ask her why she didint call me and tell me that she didint leave saturday but that would kinda make me look insecure and a bit stalkerish, no?

Also shes one of those chicks that wants guys to call them, wont really call guys (she calls me occasionally) so im sure if i would have called her friday night she would have told me. Still, im kinda pissed/dissapointed that she didint tell me she didint leave friday, but then again she knew i was partying with my buddies and i usually call her before i go to bed so i guess i understand....

thoughts?
Were going to the movies tonight so yeah. I dont think theres anything wrong cause she didint really lie to me as it turns out. Still, kinda pissed/dissapointed in her that she didint call me and tell me she was here friday (not actually here, but at her parents)

[The Experiment]

I wouldn't worry about it. Granted, I probably would have called but since she didn't make up a bull**** story, I'd just accept it and move on.

[warbird00]

I wouldn't worry about it. Granted, I probably would have called but since she didn't make up a bull**** story, I'd just accept it and move on.

Yeah, she didint lie or anything so im not worried.

Im considering asking her why she didint call me to tell me that she was leaving the next day because when my roommate saw her it made it look really suspicious (which it wasnt) but i dont wanna sound all clingy and stalkerish, like i need to know everything she does. you know?

[slackajack]

Ok just talked to her (she called me last night but i didint have my phone)

So she was supposed to leave friday, so she goes to her parents house (they live 20 mins away) and she finds out that she has to work saturday morning. So she is already at her parents house so she jus sleeps over there (she goes ther a lot) and next morning she goes to work then leaves to go with her family to some speech.

Im not really trippin. I sorta wanna ask her why she didint call me and tell me that she didint leave saturday but that would kinda make me look insecure and a bit stalkerish, no?

Also shes one of those chicks that wants guys to call them, wont really call guys (she calls me occasionally) so im sure if i would have called her friday night she would have told me. Still, im kinda pissed/dissapointed that she didint tell me she didint leave friday, but then again she knew i was partying with my buddies and i usually call her before i go to bed so i guess i understand....

thoughts?
Were going to the movies tonight so yeah. I dont think theres anything wrong cause she didint really lie to me as it turns out. Still, kinda pissed/dissapointed in her that she didint call me and tell me she was here friday (not actually here, but at her parents)

Problem solved.

It'll be right, mate. You've only been together 6 weeks. She'll come out of her shell, don't stress.

[lanzo]

That sounds totally cool. I'm sure if I get drunk and go on a killing spree, I wont be held accountable as long as I pass out and don't remember it. It was a supreme court decision right? I believe the case of Pimp v Ho was the precedent.

Acceptance of such behavior is a show of weakness and denial. Any man who accepts a past like that has no respect for himself and should receive no respect from others.
Couldn't agree more , and repped.

[siberian_tiger]

Yeah, she didint lie or anything so im not worried.

Im considering asking her why she didint call me to tell me that she was leaving the next day because when my roommate saw her it made it look really suspicious (which it wasnt) but i dont wanna sound all clingy and stalkerish, like i need to know everything she does. you know?

Might as well ask, the trust is the issue, and it sounds important. Just tell her your friend saw her, and ask her outright about it.

[07G35S]

dude.... I've known a lot of sorrority chicks, and most of them will go down in public. If this is something you don't find attractive in a "mate" then you probably should avoid sorrority chicks. Or you can do like the rest of us and hang around a LOT of sorrority chicks, better odds that way!

[slackajack]

Update?

[festivus4us]

Update?
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[MacDaddy0924]

noooo. She diditn do this while i was with her. Before i was with her

but ****, what sort of chick does that?


All chicks do that. Just get used to it.

You're young. Cheat on her, the tell her to make yourself feel better.

[Iceman1800]

noooo. She diditn do this while i was with her. Before i was with her

but ****, what sort of chick does that?

you have zero right to judge someone for their past. if she is true to you, let it go. just be happy she likes to give head :)

[GOON_]

don't ask

don't tell

[blindside]

lulz no. u go to ssu?
Yep. Lulz.

[DeepnDirty8]

She was drunk dude. If shes really such a nice girl then just don't let her drink. She wasn't in a relationship with anyone so she had the right to have fun with whoever she wanted.

[Al_Pal]

of her sorority


Yeah. She told me she had problems with her sorority (only was in it for 1 quarter) and i knew that one night she got uber ****ed up (she doent throw up when she drinks) and was going crazy and gave hella dudes lap dances.
I dont care about that **** because its only a lapdance and it was before i knew her (not like i ahvnt done **** like that)

Well i just found out that she got kicked out of her sorority cause she got caught giving a guy dome in public.

yeah, and shes such a good girl, hella square ass mormon. Also she barely ever drinks, i mean i havnt even ****ed her yet and its been 6 weeks and barely get anything from her- fat square like i said

****, my world just got turned upside down and im pretty drunk too

wtf do i do :(

(she left for teh weekend so i wont see her till saturday)



hahahahahahaahahahahah!!!!

dude that really sucks. a lot of dudes get cheated on, but damn... before she even let you tap that she given it up to strangers in public? lol.

that bitch aint ****. obviously she had a lot of growing up to do. so i'll drop this little gem on you, 21 and over, let a nother player mold her.

[Rockon2233]

Dump the ho and then bang her sister for good measure

[JackedAndSwole]

pics? sorry dude but im curious to see how she looks like as a mormon...

[warbird00]

you have zero right to judge someone for their past. if she is true to you, let it go. just be happy she likes to give head :)

Im not judging her. When i first heard about it i was pretty pissed but im over it.


hahahahahahaahahahahah!!!!

dude that really sucks. a lot of dudes get cheated on, but damn... before she even let you tap that she given it up to strangers in public? lol.

that bitch aint ****. obviously she had a lot of growing up to do. so i'll drop this little gem on you, 21 and over, let a nother player mold her.

No she did this before i met her, like 5 months ago or so.



Also i found out that "public" was in the middle of a party

LOL

I dont really care, havnt had an issue with it yet

[stevieb00mbotz]

yeah, taht is true.

BUt ****, i thought she was so innocent, and now i find out she did this ****?

But yeah, im overreacting

yeah youre overreacting youre not gonna marry her so dont sweat it.

[brianphi]

Also i found out that "public" was in the middle of a party




LOL... look, MOST chicks have something similar in their past... as long as you don't have to see the guy she went down on, or his friends that were watching on a daily basis, forget about it.

[warbird00]

Also I have layed off a lot. Before I felt that I was giving more to the relationship than she was but **** that. I acted kinda distant the last couple times I hung out with her and eventually she would get all pissed. Lol. Also I usually call her 99% of the time to hang out but now just wait for her to call me. This is also good because I'm not become so attached and I'd she does turn out to be a tramp (7th week doubt she is) then it won't be a big deal jumping ship