View Full Version : Is my gf pregnant?
Chitown_Legend
07-13-2007, 02:12 PM
We've been having sex for about a month now. We never use a condom, ever. But she is on the pill and I always pull out. Except for once when I was drunk but the next morning we got the morning after pill. Well today she was supposed to start her period but she hasnt. She told me shes never missed a period ever and never gets it later than 6pm, which is 50minutes away. Since last night she'd been feeling dizzy, light headed and has hot flashes. The same symptoms have gone on today.
I need some advice from you ladies. Do you think my girlfriend is pregnant?
bluescorpion
07-13-2007, 02:28 PM
I really doubt it, especially if she is on the pill (by that I mean taking it as specified). Pulling out is not a great birth control strategy though. No woman's cycle is 100% predictable, even if it is 99.9% of the time. If she has NOT been taking her pills according to instruction, then you might want to get a test in a few weeks.
MistyT
07-13-2007, 02:39 PM
I really doubt it, especially if she is on the pill (by that I mean taking it as specified). Pulling out is not a great birth control strategy though. No woman's cycle is 100% predictable, even if it is 99.9% of the time. If she has NOT been taking her pills according to instruction, then you might want to get a test in a few weeks.
I agree. Also, if she is stressing over the situation the added stress can cause her period to be late
also, the morning after pill can mess up and/or make a girl miss her period.
AccountantGuy
07-13-2007, 04:11 PM
Congratulations Daddy!
cawiau
07-13-2007, 04:16 PM
That happend to me. My fiancee was stressing for weeks.
She was certain she was pregnant.
That was untill her period came 2 weeks behind the due date.
And my fiancee period is like clock work. I always know when she gets it or not.
Except for this time when it decided to change date....
So tell her to relax and stop stressing.
anb1683
07-13-2007, 04:19 PM
You shouldn't be having sex unless you are willing to pay the consequeces...I'm just saying, you're so worried, but you weren't that worried when you weren't wearing a glove were you? I've had 4 friends get pregnant on the pill...
From the sounds of it, she doesnt sound pregnant...you should be fine. Just be more careful. Tell her to quit worrying...it's stress and that's most likely the reason the period isn't coming...and the body changes, just because she started on time everytime doesnt mean its always going to be like that.
hmotb555
07-13-2007, 04:21 PM
I doubt she is pregnant...I am also a very regular person and I didn't take the pill like i was supposed to ( it's hard to remember that damn pill) but yeah I never got pregnant when I was on the pill....so if she is a regular person I would chalk her period being late due to stress, which really does eff up your menstrual cycle ( I was so stressed once i didn't get it for 3 months straight) or I would blame it on the morning after pill...if you're really concerned though I would wait 2 weeks and get a home pregnancy test if aunt flow hasn't arrived
Chitown_Legend
07-13-2007, 04:34 PM
You shouldn't be having sex unless you are willing to pay the consequeces...I'm just saying, you're so worried, but you weren't that worried when you weren't wearing a glove were you? I've had 4 friends get pregnant on the pill...
From the sounds of it, she doesnt sound pregnant...you should be fine. Just be more careful. Tell her to quit worrying...it's stress and that's most likely the reason the period isn't coming...and the body changes, just because she started on time everytime doesnt mean its always going to be like that.
Im not that worried. Im worried for her because if she gets pregnant she has to either get a abortion(shes against it) or lose her scholarship and recieve no support from her parents. Personally, Id want to keep the kid.
Dummkopf
07-13-2007, 05:27 PM
Start punching her in the stomach now.
bluffcolts
07-13-2007, 06:51 PM
Im not that worried. Im worried for her because if she gets pregnant she has to either get a abortion(shes against it) or lose her scholarship and recieve no support from her parents. Personally, Id want to keep the kid.
Even MORE of a reason you two should be using condoms!!! Play it safe for both of you!
JerrysGirl
07-13-2007, 08:23 PM
Well, if she is using the pill correctly -EVERY SINGLE DAY- should be plenty enough to prevent pregnancy. There is no need to use condoms.
Ashleyy
07-13-2007, 09:37 PM
if she stresses out about it, that could make it come late.
AccountantGuy
07-14-2007, 12:59 PM
We've been having sex for about a month now. We never use a condom, ever. But she is on the pill and I always pull out. Except for once when I was drunk but the next morning we got the morning after pill. Well today she was supposed to start her period but she hasnt. She told me shes never missed a period ever and never gets it later than 6pm, which is 50minutes away. Since last night she'd been feeling dizzy, light headed and has hot flashes. The same symptoms have gone on today.
I need some advice from you ladies. Do you think my girlfriend is pregnant?
Just think dude, now you don't have to worry about that pesky college anymore.
SexyChic
07-14-2007, 01:40 PM
If she is on the pill why do you pull out? The pill is one of the most effective methods of birth control IF it is taken correctly.
I have been on the pill for 5 years and my hubby never pulls out and I have never gotten pregnant.
Plus I don't think that she should mix the pill and the morning after pill without consulting with a gyno. That's a lot of hormones!
GBLynden
07-14-2007, 02:23 PM
We've been having sex for about a month now. We never use a condom, ever. But she is on the pill and I always pull out. Except for once when I was drunk but the next morning we got the morning after pill. Well today she was supposed to start her period but she hasnt. She told me shes never missed a period ever and never gets it later than 6pm, which is 50minutes away. Since last night she'd been feeling dizzy, light headed and has hot flashes. The same symptoms have gone on today.
I need some advice from you ladies. Do you think my girlfriend is pregnant?
She is not pregnant. She is just stressing about it. Not only that, if she is not used to having a tool in there, that can throw it off too. Just relax until you have a reason to panic. That's only going to make you loose muscle.
darkangel
07-15-2007, 03:37 PM
That happend to me. My fiancee was stressing for weeks.
Why stress for weeks when you can buy an over-the-counter pregnancy test that's highly accurate and put your mind at rest?
terracotta
07-15-2007, 04:13 PM
Why stress for weeks when you can buy an over-the-counter pregnancy test that's highly accurate and put your mind at rest?
Yep.. something like 99% accurate from the first day you miss your period.