View Full Version : Females nearly twice as likely to commit domestic violence
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 10:54 AM
I'm not exactly sure who the study is done by, it mentions some of this in the article. The blogger has a PhD in Forensic Psychology though.
In addition it showed that nearly twice as many women as men said they perpetrated domestic violence in the past year, including kicking, biting or punching a partner, threatening to hit or throw something at a partner, and pushing, grabbing or shoving a partner, said Herrenkohl.
http://drhelen.blogspot.com/2007/06/nearly-twice-as-many-women-as-men-said.html
Question? Comments?
Edit: Oh and just for reference here is the same post over in the regular misc.
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=3505081
Edited again to correct some information.
Tainted
07-05-2007, 12:38 PM
Wow no replies yet :(?
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 01:17 PM
Probably because they realize it is true! No point in arguing about it. :)
Blasphemare
07-05-2007, 01:22 PM
I wouldn't doubt it. There are some mean women out there :P
goddessamazon
07-05-2007, 01:38 PM
In addition it showed that nearly twice as many women as men said they perpetrated domestic violence in the past year, including kicking, biting or punching a partner, threatening to hit or throw something at a partner, and pushing, grabbing or shoving a partner, said Herrenkohl.
Is this before or after the woman was hit first?
Tainted
07-05-2007, 01:40 PM
Is this before or after the woman was hit first?
Most likely before.
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 01:41 PM
Is this before or after the woman was hit first?
Before of course... otherwise it would have probably been categorized as self defense. Unless you are suggesting that the only time the women did anything was several days after the male did and then she decided to do something ... I see what you are saying there ... but I think they would have mentioned that if that was the case.
SunnyD902
07-05-2007, 02:34 PM
I don't know about twice as likely but I could see it being true to some degree. It is more acceptable for a woman to hit, slap or throw something at their partner, especially during a heated argument. This is most likely due to the fact that there is a huge difference (most of the time) between being hit by a woman and being hit by a man. Not saying it's right, but, a woman hitting a man is more accepted in my opinion.
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 02:37 PM
I don't know about twice as likely but I could see it being true to some degree. It is more acceptable for a woman to hit, slap or throw something at their partner, especially during a heated argument. This is most likely due to the fact that there is a huge difference (most of the time) between being hit by a woman and being hit by a man. Not saying it's right, but, a woman hitting a man is more accepted in my opinion.
That is the whole problem. That is a double standard. No matter what degree of the double standard it is still wrong. For example a man being paid more on average than a woman for the same job is a double standard and is wrong. Just like a woman hitting someone and getting away with it where as the man would have no chance in hell is a double standard, and needs to be stopped.
rockstarsar
07-05-2007, 02:43 PM
This doesn't surprise me. Somehow it's ok for women to hit men just because their punches don't do as much damage when it's the principle that matters. Resorting to violence doesn't get your point across
Tainted
07-05-2007, 02:44 PM
That is the whole problem. That is a double standard. No matter what degree of the double standard it is still wrong. For example a man being paid more on average than a woman for the same job is a double standard and is wrong. Just like a woman hitting someone and getting away with it where as the man would have no chance in hell is a double standard, and needs to be stopped.
Actually men and women are paid exactly the same. Feminists have brainwashed a lot of people into thinking that. This in turn will result in women receiving higher pay.
http://money.cnn.com/2006/02/21/commentary/everyday/sahadi/index.htm
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/GiveMeABreak/story?id=797045&page=3
http://www.cbc.ca/newsinreview/Dec%2099/Pay%20Equity/wage%20gap.html
http://www.newswithviews.com/Roberts/carey171.htm
http://www.ncpa.org/pub/ba/ba392/
http://www.npri.org/issues/issues99/i_b040799.htm
http://www.warrenfarrell.net/Summary/index.html
http://www.iwf.org/issues/issues_detail.asp?ArticleID=750
Lots of credible sources saying there is no wage gap huh?
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 02:47 PM
Actually men and women are paid exactly the same. Feminists have brainwashed a lot of people into thinking that. This in turn will result in women receiving higher pay.
http://money.cnn.com/2006/02/21/commentary/everyday/sahadi/index.htm
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/GiveMeABreak/story?id=797045&page=3
http://www.cbc.ca/newsinreview/Dec%2099/Pay%20Equity/wage%20gap.html
http://www.newswithviews.com/Roberts/carey171.htm
http://www.ncpa.org/pub/ba/ba392/
http://www.npri.org/issues/issues99/i_b040799.htm
http://www.warrenfarrell.net/Summary/index.html
http://www.iwf.org/issues/issues_detail.asp?ArticleID=750
Lots of credible sources saying there is no wage gap huh?
Not to get off topic here but is this saying they are paid the same on average or is this saying that a woman gets paid the same as a man for doing the exact same job?
FlyingV
07-05-2007, 02:49 PM
If the survey was self-reported as somebody from the link states, then that calls the results into question somewhat. Because for men, a public accusation of domestic violence is nearly as damaging as a conviction for it. For this reason, I'm not sure that men would be responding accurately and honestly when surveyed about DV, no matter how much you assured them that it was an anonymous survey. In other words, wouldn't men necessarily tend to under-report?
Tainted
07-05-2007, 02:53 PM
Not to get off topic here but is this saying they are paid the same on average or is this saying that a woman gets paid the same as a man for doing the exact same job?
They get the same for the EXACT same job. On average women are paid less but it is because there are less female doctors, less female lawyers, less female firefighters, less female etc. More female housewives. All of the above are high paying jobs. Then there are the super-rich people like Bill Gates. So no if you take all women and all men, men will earn more.
If you were to take one female salesperson and one male salesperson, both the same age with the same experience, with the same job flexibility and working as many hours, they will be paid the exact same. Assuming that the woman does not take extra benefits such as maternity leave. So yes, women and men are paid as just as much assuming both have the same capabilities, etc. A lot of factors need to be taken into account. Besides, if a women were really paid less, why would someone hire a man? Imagine how much money you'd save with an all female staff!
Tainted
07-05-2007, 03:08 PM
This doesn't surprise me. Somehow it's ok for women to hit men just because their punches don't do as much damage when it's the principle that matters. Resorting to violence doesn't get your point across
Hitting someone with a weapon hurts no matter. No matter how strong you are if you poke someone in the eye it will hurt.
Tainted
07-05-2007, 03:16 PM
If the survey was self-reported as somebody from the link states, then that calls the results into question somewhat. Because for men, a public accusation of domestic violence is nearly as damaging as a conviction for it. For this reason, I'm not sure that men would be responding accurately and honestly when surveyed about DV, no matter how much you assured them that it was an anonymous survey. In other words, wouldn't men necessarily tend to under-report?
That's even worse then...
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 03:45 PM
No women have responded ... we are on to them ... barricade your homes guys, they will be sending assassins/ninjas/SWAT/CIA/RAMBO to kill us.
Tainted
07-05-2007, 03:47 PM
No women have responded ... we are on to them ... barricade your homes guys, they will be sending assassins/ninjas/SWAT/CIA/RAMBO to kill us.
Too late I'm already dead X-(
I am now a zombie.
Feeeaaar meeeee.
Sable_Strenua
07-05-2007, 03:52 PM
No women have responded ... we are on to them ... barricade your homes guys, they will be sending assassins/ninjas/SWAT/CIA/RAMBO to kill us.
scroll back up, several have responded.
Tainted
07-05-2007, 03:53 PM
scroll back up, several have responded.
Not many. Just like two or three.
Sable_Strenua
07-05-2007, 04:20 PM
Not many. Just like two or three.
still more than "none".
the femmisc moves slower than the reg misc, as i'm sure u've noticed.
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 04:40 PM
scroll back up, several have responded.
True. I retract my statement.
Honestly I only look at avatars to see if it is a female cuz they almost always have one! lol ... mostly guys probably. I guess I didn't notice the one girls face ... it is usually some ass shot or something lol ...
Ah well ...
Bring on the arguments!
CoffeCanSlayer
07-05-2007, 04:41 PM
I dont care what anyone says, its never ok to hit a woman, I dont care if she hit you first. Now about the reports, as someone else stated, I gaurantee that the survey is off, how many guys are going to say that they hit their woman? I didnt look at the links, because I dont need to. If it is based off of reports, there are so many cases that haven't been reported, its sickening. So therefore, the survey is not accurate. Good point tho, I know a lot of women who like to aggravate it, but that doesnt mean that the male has to respond. My .02
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 04:46 PM
I dont care what anyone says, its never ok to hit a woman, I dont care if she hit you first. Now about the reports, as someone else stated, I gaurantee that the survey is off, how many guys are going to say that they hit their woman? I didnt look at the links, because I dont need to. If it is based off of reports, there are so many cases that haven't been reported, its sickening. So therefore, the survey is not accurate. Good point tho, I know a lot of women who like to aggravate it, but that doesnt mean that the male has to respond. My .02
Blah blah, more double standards. Guy hits girl, OK HIT HIM BACK, BEAT HIS ASS NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES ... Girl hits guy, Guy hits her back, OMGWTFBBQ - GO TO DIRECTLY TO JAIL DO NOT PASS GO DO NOT COLLECT $200!!!!
If a girl hits me I may not hit her back, depends on her intentions. If she is just mad/upset and just smacks me on the arm, no big deal. If she is seriously trying to hurt me I'm going to defend myself, sorry.
CoffeCanSlayer
07-05-2007, 04:50 PM
Blah blah, more double standards. Guy hits girl, OK HIT HIM BACK, BEAT HIS ASS NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES ... Girl hits guy, Guy hits her back, OMGWTFBBQ - GO TO DIRECTLY TO JAIL DO NOT PASS GO DO NOT COLLECT $200!!!!
If a girl hits me I may not hit her back, depends on her intentions. If she is just mad/upset and just smacks me on the arm, no big deal. If she is seriously trying to hurt me I'm going to defend myself, sorry.
I get your viewpoint, but thats just how I am, therefore different viewpoints, so you cannot flame my logic, as you asked for it. I wouldnt hit a girl back, I think I can handle overpowering a girl, and just holding them down till they are done with their little fit if it comes to that.
Tainted
07-05-2007, 04:51 PM
I dont care what anyone says, its never ok to hit a woman, I dont care if she hit you first. Now about the reports, as someone else stated, I gaurantee that the survey is off, how many guys are going to say that they hit their woman? I didnt look at the links, because I dont need to. If it is based off of reports, there are so many cases that haven't been reported, its sickening. So therefore, the survey is not accurate. Good point tho, I know a lot of women who like to aggravate it, but that doesnt mean that the male has to respond. My .02
What if she has a weapon?
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 04:54 PM
I get your viewpoint, but thats just how I am, therefore different viewpoints, so you cannot flame my logic, as you asked for it. I wouldnt hit a girl back, I think I can handle overpowering a girl, and just holding them down till they are done with their little fit if it comes to that.
What if she stabs yo ass son? (extreme situation, but she may be doing more than just straight up trying to attack you head on with bare fists ya know, if she is smart she realizes you are more powerful than her, and if she wants to do damage she will do it smarter than that)
Tainted
07-05-2007, 04:55 PM
I get your viewpoint, but thats just how I am, therefore different viewpoints, so you cannot flame my logic, as you asked for it. I wouldnt hit a girl back, I think I can handle overpowering a girl, and just holding them down till they are done with their little fit if it comes to that.
Yea I respect your viewpoint and I hope you do not bash or flame anyone like Brick_Wall for their opinions. If you are a cop you should listen to both sides and look at the facts instead of letting your personal opinions get int he way of justice.
Tainted
07-05-2007, 04:56 PM
still more than "none".
the femmisc moves slower than the reg misc, as i'm sure u've noticed.
Nope didn't notice. This is my first time in this section and I've only been once in the Misc. section.
I do not post much.
CoffeCanSlayer
07-05-2007, 04:58 PM
Im not a cop, im 20 come on. Im not a big fan of cops, and I wouldnt bash brick wall, he is stating an opinion, not bashing me, its all good. Now for the weapon part, their will always be the "what if's", in that case (not meaning to brag) but I was taught how to disarm someone with a weapon, and its scarry as hell, but why would you hit someone with a weapon, id me more concentated on getting it the hell out of their hands.
Tainted
07-05-2007, 05:01 PM
Im not a cop, im 20 come on. Im not a big fan of cops, and I wouldnt bash brick wall, he is stating an opinion, not bashing me, its all good. Now for the weapon part, their will always be the "what if's", in that case (not meaning to brag) but I was taught how to disarm someone with a weapon, and its scarry as hell, but why would you hit someone wit ha weapon, id me more concentated on it getting the hell out of their hands.
I said ''if'' you are.
If someone has a knife, you are right. I would run away unless backed into a corner. I do not know how to disarm someone but I make a great fighter.
Not everyone is 6 feet and 245 lbs. I'm only 5'10 and 185+ with 6-7% body fat. 10% being the healthy range for a man.
CoffeCanSlayer
07-05-2007, 05:03 PM
Trust me bro, im plenty healthy, nothing wrong with me. So im 245, but im comming down from 300lbs last year. So i think im doing just fine.
Brick_Wall
07-05-2007, 05:04 PM
Im not a cop, im 20 come on. Im not a big fan of cops, and I wouldnt bash brick wall, he is stating an opinion, not bashing me, its all good. Now for the weapon part, their will always be the "what if's", in that case (not meaning to brag) but I was taught how to disarm someone with a weapon, and its scarry as hell, but why would you hit someone with a weapon, id me more concentated on getting it the hell out of their hands.
Well you gotta think of other people besides you. And you gotta think of all situations. What if she comes up behind you and stabs you in the back? What if the woman is actually stronger than the man or trained in combat and the guy is not?
Situations like that is why there doesn't need to be a double standard. It needs to be black or white for this. Guy hits girl and reports it, he gets in trouble. Girl hits guy and she reports it, she gets in trouble. Same exact punishment no matter what.
Tainted
07-05-2007, 05:05 PM
Trust me bro, im plenty healthy, nothing wrong with me. So im 245, but im comming down from 300lbs last year. So i think im doing just fine.
I never said you weren't healthy lol.
Actually you look huge on that pic :)
Keep it up.
Now for the classic question: hw much do you bench?
Nah just kidding ;)
CoffeCanSlayer
07-05-2007, 05:41 PM
Well you gotta think of other people besides you. And you gotta think of all situations. What if she comes up behind you and stabs you in the back? What if the woman is actually stronger than the man or trained in combat and the guy is not?
Situations like that is why there doesn't need to be a double standard. It needs to be black or white for this. Guy hits girl and reports it, he gets in trouble. Girl hits guy and she reports it, she gets in trouble. Same exact punishment no matter what.
I never said you weren't healthy lol.
Actually you look huge on that pic :)
Keep it up.
Now for the classic question: hw much do you bench?
Nah just kidding ;)
Brick- Yes I get what your saying, and it should be outlined very clear for all parties of the two sexes, the same punishment for both. But the reason its not is because in a "whole" men can do more damage. And yes, there are women out there that can do more damage than a man, but not as many as men.
Tainted- not that much really im very disappointed right now, because the more weight I lose, the more my bench goes down. I got up to 330 as my best pr, but now I can only do 275.
Sable_Strenua
07-05-2007, 05:48 PM
LxclAwCaOWA
CoffeCanSlayer
07-05-2007, 05:55 PM
Lol, wow. I get the point.
goddessamazon
07-05-2007, 07:35 PM
No women have responded ... we are on to them ... barricade your homes guys, they will be sending assassins/ninjas/SWAT/CIA/RAMBO to kill us.
True. I retract my statement.
Honestly I only look at avatars to see if it is a female cuz they almost always have one! lol ... mostly guys probably. I guess I didn't notice the one girls face ... it is usually some ass shot or something lol ...
Ah well ...
Bring on the arguments!
You know what I noticed about you guys. You don't read. It's all about the pictures for you isn't it? If you see no pic you assume that the person who is talking is a guy.
Even though I have keywords on my Avatar profile like
Goddess
Amazon
Queen
All feminine words by the way. They just slip right by you. One guy in the Misc section thought the word AMAZON meant an African male warrior. :eek:
Gawddamn public school! :mad:
goddessamazon
07-05-2007, 07:37 PM
LxclAwCaOWA
Now this is what I call my kind of porn!
LOL!
DonMegaR
07-05-2007, 10:28 PM
My sons mother (my x) has an Axis I of Borderline Personality Disorder with Bi-Polar Traits and Major depression
Got triggered after she had my son, she would just flip out and get violent out of nowhere, slap, punch, scratch, throw things. NO THIS IS NOT ALL WOMEN, I LOVE WOMEN but women are not immune from domestic violence... i have pictures to prove it lol
INSANEREACH
07-06-2007, 02:23 AM
I have often wondered whether some women slap or hit their partners because they want attention or in many cases sex.
I think these women like to argue and if her partner doesn't shout back at her she gets frustrated and lashes out. I think some women want a row and if her partner acts like he isn't bothered she hurts him in other ways.
I had an exgirlfriend who did this ..... it was a very vocal relationship and she would slap me over silly things like forgetting the milk every now and again. I took it for a while but in the end got tired of it. One day I grabbed her by the wrists when she went to slap me for turning the heating off and pulled her close ... she then went to kiss me and we ended having sex on the carpet.And the relationship improved hugely after that.
I am not making light of women hitting men but if it had been ther other way round and I had 'slapped her' she most probably would have had her teeth knocked out . Men are on average much stronger than women and just as if a little kid were to hit me , I wouldn't ever raise my hand to a woman. If a woman was being very abusive I would just leave. I stayed with that girl because I enjoyed it! She was italian too and very emotional(no racist).
However a m8 of mine who goes to the gym is in a very different situation and comes in with large bruises every now and then. When I first noticed them I though he had been in a fight in a pub. I know now it's his wife doing it. And I witnessesed his wife punch him full in the face for in her view flirting.This was in public btw. In her case she should be treated just like the type of man who would do this to a woman.
Tainted
07-06-2007, 02:50 AM
LxclAwCaOWA
Fake.
Tainted
07-06-2007, 02:52 AM
Brick- Yes I get what your saying, and it should be outlined very clear for all parties of the two sexes, the same punishment for both. But the reason its not is because in a "whole" men can do more damage. And yes, there are women out there that can do more damage than a man, but not as many as men.
Tainted- not that much really im very disappointed right now, because the more weight I lose, the more my bench goes down. I got up to 330 as my best pr, but now I can only do 275.
haha You didn't have to answer the question lol
Anyway I have yet to see a woman stronger than a man. I'm sure if you compare a pro female power-lifter to an average man who doesn't lift she will be stronger. Or the man could have a genetic decease and in this case it is best he not passes his genes on.
Brick_Wall
07-06-2007, 06:37 AM
You know what I noticed about you guys. You don't read. It's all about the pictures for you isn't it? If you see no pic you assume that the person who is talking is a guy.
Even though I have keywords on my Avatar profile like
Goddess
Amazon
Queen
All feminine words by the way. They just slip right by you. One guy in the Misc section thought the word AMAZON meant an African male warrior. :eek:
Gawddamn public school! :mad:
It is the nature of the forums, not just this one either. In comparison to males, females hardly ever get on the forums. A lot of the ones that do exist are probably males. Personally the only ones I notice as I am quickly scrolling through and reading are only the ones with pictures of females.
What does a public school have to do with this?
Procta
07-06-2007, 06:54 AM
LxclAwCaOWA
LOL :D:D:D
goddessamazon
07-06-2007, 11:19 AM
It is the nature of the forums, not just this one either. In comparison to males, females hardly ever get on the forums. A lot of the ones that do exist are probably males. Personally the only ones I notice as I am quickly scrolling through and reading are only the ones with pictures of females.
What does a public school have to do with this?
The last time I checked this was called the Female Misc. How do you assume that everyone who answers you is a MALE?????
Everyone doesn't have an avatar and it's not wise to assume that the person who is talking to you is male. Especially with feminine words like GODDESS or AMAZON or QUEEN. LOL!!!!!
How would you feel if I called you a girl even though your profile name is Brick_Wall?
And the reason I curse public school is because they are doing a piss poor job teaching people comprehension skills.
PS- when in doubt click on the profile to see person's gender. I do have progress pictures on my bodyspace profile by the way.
Brick_Wall
07-06-2007, 11:38 AM
The last time I checked this was called the Female Misc. How do you assume that everyone who answers you is a MALE?????
Everyone doesn't have an avatar and it's not wise to assume that the person who is talking to you is male. Especially with feminine words like GODDESS or AMAZON or QUEEN. LOL!!!!!
How would you feel if I called you a girl even though your profile name is Brick_Wall?
And the reason I curse public school is because they are doing a piss poor job teaching people comprehension skills.
PS- when in doubt click on the profile to see person's gender. I do have progress pictures on my bodyspace profile by the way.
no thanks, it's not that big of a deal to me, it's just some forums on the internet where I discuss things with people. Even if your nick is some girly name and you have 100 pictures of a female I will still not assume you are a female. Way too many males pretend to be girls online, especially on forums. And since you mention it and are trying so hard to defend yourself that you are in fact female, you are probably a male.
I have to agree with you about public school in the U.S. The only way to get a decent education in the U.S. is to go to college. Anything before that is ****ty. A football coach teaching a math class in high school aint gonna do you much good. All the people caring about popularity, who is ****in who, and who is the best at sports is bull****... needs to be more about education.
Anyways I went off topic on a rant, so ignore these paragraphs and stick to the subject of the thread.
goddessamazon
07-06-2007, 11:55 AM
no thanks, it's not that big of a deal to me, it's just some forums on the internet where I discuss things with people. Even if your nick is some girly name and you have 100 pictures of a female I will still not assume you are a female. Way too many males pretend to be girls online, especially on forums. And since you mention it and are trying so hard to defend yourself that you are in fact female, you are probably a male.
I have to agree with you about public school in the U.S. The only way to get a decent education in the U.S. is to go to college. Anything before that is ****ty. A football coach teaching a math class in high school aint gonna do you much good. All the people caring about popularity, who is ****in who, and who is the best at sports is bull****... needs to be more about education.
Anyways I went off topic on a rant, so ignore these paragraphs and stick to the subject of the thread.
I'm gonna play tic for tac. If you think that I'm probably a male then I'm gonna say that you are a GAY MALE!
That will make it even.
**snaps fingers** Work it gurl work it!
Ok girlfriend! Let's get back on the subject.
Sable_Strenua
07-06-2007, 12:20 PM
Now this is what I call my kind of porn!
LOL!
ROFLMAO
Fake.
I didn't say it was real.
It is the nature of the forums, not just this one either. In comparison to males, females hardly ever get on the forums. A lot of the ones that do exist are probably males. Personally the only ones I notice as I am quickly scrolling through and reading are only the ones with pictures of females.
What does a public school have to do with this?
You're just itching for a debate aren't you? And its killing you that no one is giving you the debate you desire. None of this is relevant to the article originally posted.
To go back to your original post, women are becoming more and more violent in this day and age. There are more women in gangs, more women in prisons, more women involved in direct combat (even though they are designated in a 'supportive' role). So i can agree with the article overall.
Are there double standards? Yes.
Will they change? More than likely no.
LOL :D
;)
corey rocks!
Brick_Wall
07-06-2007, 12:57 PM
ROFLMAO
I didn't say it was real.
You're just itching for a debate aren't you? And its killing you that no one is giving you the debate you desire. None of this is relevant to the article originally posted.
To go back to your original post, women are becoming more and more violent in this day and age. There are more women in gangs, more women in prisons, more women involved in direct combat (even though they are designated in a 'supportive' role). So i can agree with the article overall.
Are there double standards? Yes.
Will they change? More than likely no.
;)
corey rocks!
Hmm no ... everyone else got off topic before I did. As I said ignore everything I said and let's get back on topic, which we now are, which is good, thanks for doing that :)
You guys are so testy on here lol
goddessamazon
07-06-2007, 01:33 PM
Hmm no ... everyone else got off topic before I did. As I said ignore everything I said and let's get back on topic, which we now are, which is good, thanks for doing that :)
You guys are so testy on here lol
That's so silly. You typed a bunch of stuff that was not related to the topic and then typed "ignore everything I said".
If you wanted us to ignore everything you said then why would you type it in the first place? Oh, I know why...........because you DIDN'T want us to ignore it. You wanted us to read it.
EDIT-- Oh! Ignore everything I said girlfriend. ;)
britlicious
07-06-2007, 01:39 PM
i say that if a girl thinks that she can boss up and flat out HIT a man, then it's fair game. I don't believe in double standard crap and if I decided to be all big and bad and hit a man he would have every right to hit me back... BUT only if I instigated and hit him first..
i don't know that's just my opinion..
i mean i'm not condoning domestic violence or anything i think that it's actually a huge problem, but that's where i stand.
Brick_Wall
07-06-2007, 01:42 PM
That's so silly. You typed a bunch of stuff that was not related to the topic and then typed "ignore everything I said".
If you wanted us to ignore everything you said then why would you type it in the first place? Oh, I know why...........because you DIDN'T want us to ignore it. You wanted us to read it.
EDIT-- Oh! Ignore everything I said girlfriend. ;)
I will go OT if someone else goes OT about something I said.
What you just said brings it back OT again ... which now made me do the same.
The more you post the more you seem to argue like a guy.
i say that if a girl thinks that she can boss up and flat out HIT a man, then it's fair game. I don't believe in double standard crap and if I decided to be all big and bad and hit a man he would have every right to hit me back... BUT only if I instigated and hit him first..
i don't know that's just my opinion..
i mean i'm not condoning domestic violence or anything i think that it's actually a huge problem, but that's where i stand.
I think that is a good place to stand. Totally agree, double standards of any kind, no matter how big or small, are ****ty.
goddessamazon
07-06-2007, 01:45 PM
I will go OT if someone else goes OT about something I said.
What you just said brings it back OT again ... which now made me do the same.
The more you post the more you seem to argue like a guy.
Yeah, all closet homosexuals think I argue like a guy.
Anywho girlfriend, my position on domestic violence is. Sh*t happens.
Care to share with us your views on domestic violence that involve two men? Who should go to jail and who should stay home in your opinion?
Brick_Wall
07-06-2007, 01:48 PM
Yeah, all closet homosexuals think I argue like a guy.
Anywho girlfriend, my position on domestic violence is. Sh*t happens.
Care to share with us your views on domestic violence that involve two men? Who should go to jail and who should stay home in your opinion?
Whoever the attacker was should go to jail of course, just like male/female or female/female.
Sable_Strenua
07-06-2007, 02:03 PM
oh hai guise & gals
was goin on in dis thrad? :confused:
:D
http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f166/ladymystique80/supercool.jpg
Brick_Wall
07-06-2007, 02:13 PM
oh hai guise & gals
was goin on in dis thrad? :confused:
:D
http://i47.photobucket.com/albums/f166/ladymystique80/supercool.jpg
I'm not sure anymore ...