Do we really need this kind of thing in here? (serious)

[limniade]

Okay, so far, the men who have posted in the FM have posted things like:

"Do you think I'm hot?"
"Do you think this girl is hot?"
"Would you take a load to the face?"
"Don't wear too much makeup because guys don't like it!"
"Vote for me as the official FM homo!"
"I have girl problems."

Seriously, isn't there more than enough of that crap in the Misc? Why is it that all the posts by men are about, well, men? And man-oriented topics? I know the forum is new and that it's fairly low-traffic right now, and I enjoy the regular Misc AND joking around as much as anyone, but I'd really like to see less of this. I don't think we need TWO forums filled with bikini babes, 858576 questions about women's sexual preferences, how women can best appeal to men, and otherwise focusing on MEN. Why can't this forum be more focused on the WOMEN who post here? This is the Female Misc, after all.

I'm not saying get rid of the guys. I'm saying, guys, branch out to topics that don't center around the fulfillment of the penis.

Now I'm only one person, so obviously I could be totally in the minority here, hence the poll. But I'd hate to see this forum become as female-unfriendly as the regular Misc. because a bunch of guys can't interact with women unless they're objectifying them. But even the regular Misc. has some good, serious topics and I'd like to see more of that.

[Beklet]

They'll probably settle down when the novelty wears off.

Besides there are more women in here to take the piss out of them.

And this is far more heavily moderated so they're unlikely to get away with the same ****...

I'll just see how it goes.....

[HeatherAC]

I'd personally like to think that the FM will eliminate the "am I hot", "my girlfriend does this or that and I need advice" type of threads from the REST of the female bodybuilding section, since there is now a place for them.

Hopefully, the fact that this Misc is in the Female section will discourage a lot of the bullsh!t threads seen in the regular Misc. So far, the ones I've seen in here haven't annoyed me all that much.......plus, any thread can be hijacked. ;)

But those are just my own thoughts on the matter.

[Jamie M]

I'd personally like to think that the FM will eliminate the "am I hot", "my girlfriend does this or that and I need advice" type of threads from the REST of the female bodybuilding section, since there is now a place for them.

Hopefully, the fact that this Misc is in the Female section will discourage a lot of the bullsh!t threads seen in the regular Misc. So far, the ones I've seen in here haven't annoyed me all that much.......plus, any thread can be hijacked. ;)

But those are just my own thoughts on the matter.

We didn't make the FemMisc army for nuttin... hijacking is what we do :cool:

[BuffedWildCat]

...Why can't this forum be more focused on the WOMEN who post here? This is the Female Misc, after all.

I'm not saying get rid of the guys. I'm saying, guys, branch out to topics that don't center around the fulfillment of the penis.

Now I'm only one person, so obviously I could be totally in the minority here, hence the poll. But I'd hate to see this forum become as female-unfriendly as the regular Misc. because a bunch of guys can't interact with women unless they're objectifying them. But even the regular Misc. has some good, serious topics and I'd like to see more of that.

I voted that I personally don't care, it's the female misc section. So I will simply ignore the threads I'm not interested in. So personally, I say if you don't like it, don't read the thread or post in it.

Two, if we want more focus on US as women and not as objects, then IMO, WE should start topics that interest US, simple as that. So if one of us wants to start an interesting and/or intellectual topic, then do it, don't rely on the guys to do it.

I think if you want good, intellectual, serious type threads then you'd need to start a forum just for THAT. I just think misc is what it is, MISCELLANEOUS, whether it's guys or girls posting. Inevitably I just think that anytime you have a misc forum where both sexes are allowed, the topics are always gonna end up being geared in a certain direction, it's just human nature. Also if you notice, the average age of the posters here, so that's another factor that's inevitable, that you will have mainly the younger crowd posting in the misc sections. I just think any type of misc section will always end up that way. If you want a forum with just serious topics or even with mostly serious topics, (not centered around the penis), I just don't think that a misc is ever going to be that way, period. Just my humble 2 cents.

As a side note, I was actually expecting something like this to come up from somebody. This definitely doesn't surprise me as I've been observing the subjects of these topics.

[Silvio Dante]

Okay, so far, the men who have posted in the FM have posted things like:

"Do you think I'm hot?"
"Do you think this girl is hot?"
"Would you take a load to the face?"
"Don't wear too much makeup because guys don't like it!"
"Vote for me as the official FM homo!"
"I have girl problems."

Seriously, isn't there more than enough of that crap in the Misc? Why is it that all the posts by men are about, well, men? And man-oriented topics? I know the forum is new and that it's fairly low-traffic right now, and I enjoy the regular Misc AND joking around as much as anyone, but I'd really like to see less of this. I don't think we need TWO forums filled with bikini babes, 858576 questions about women's sexual preferences, how women can best appeal to men, and otherwise focusing on MEN. Why can't this forum be more focused on the WOMEN who post here? This is the Female Misc, after all.

I'm not saying get rid of the guys. I'm saying, guys, branch out to topics that don't center around the fulfillment of the penis.

Now I'm only one person, so obviously I could be totally in the minority here, hence the poll. But I'd hate to see this forum become as female-unfriendly as the regular Misc. because a bunch of guys can't interact with women unless they're objectifying them. But even the regular Misc. has some good, serious topics and I'd like to see more of that.

You = NOT queen of sparta!

You don't like the threads made, don't read them.

But yeah i think the men should chill and let the women try and post threads like the real misc. :D

[CandyStripes]

It's not a big deal. They just wanted women's thoughts on those subjects.

[Lifting_Taurus]

Okay, so far, the men who have posted in the FM have posted things like:

"Do you think I'm hot?"
"Do you think this girl is hot?"
"Would you take a load to the face?"
"Don't wear too much makeup because guys don't like it!"
"Vote for me as the official FM homo!"
"I have girl problems."

Seriously, isn't there more than enough of that crap in the Misc? Why is it that all the posts by men are about, well, men? And man-oriented topics? I know the forum is new and that it's fairly low-traffic right now, and I enjoy the regular Misc AND joking around as much as anyone, but I'd really like to see less of this. I don't think we need TWO forums filled with bikini babes, 858576 questions about women's sexual preferences, how women can best appeal to men, and otherwise focusing on MEN. Why can't this forum be more focused on the WOMEN who post here? This is the Female Misc, after all.

I'm not saying get rid of the guys. I'm saying, guys, branch out to topics that don't center around the fulfillment of the penis.

Now I'm only one person, so obviously I could be totally in the minority here, hence the poll. But I'd hate to see this forum become as female-unfriendly as the regular Misc. because a bunch of guys can't interact with women unless they're objectifying them. But even the regular Misc. has some good, serious topics and I'd like to see more of that.

WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.......

[Bonecrshr]

Okay, so far, the men who have posted in the FM have posted things like:

"Do you think I'm hot?"
"Do you think this girl is hot?"
"Would you take a load to the face?"
"Don't wear too much makeup because guys don't like it!"
"Vote for me as the official FM homo!"
"I have girl problems."
Don't know if you were interested in a male's perspective on this subject or not, but nevertheless here is mine.

There was already a FM-type present in the Female BB section long before the addition of the 'Female Misc'. The General Chat area was, IMO, the exact same thing but was handled and taken more seriously and monitored much closer. I think the advent of this new section is going to attract subjects such as mentioned above on pure name alone...Female MISC. Never OVERestimate the maturity level of many on this board.

On a side note...I agree with Jamie. Hi-jack those muthas!

[HeatherAC]

Don't know if you were interested in a male's perspective on this subject or not, but nevertheless here is mine.

There was already a FM-type present in the Female BB section long before the addition of the 'Female Misc'. The General Chat area was, IMO, the exact same thing but was handled and taken more seriously and monitored much closer. I think the advent of this new section is going to attract subjects such as mentioned above on pure name alone...Female MISC. Never OVERestimate the maturity level of many on this board.

On a side note...I agree with Jamie. Hi-jack those muthas!

Oh hai Bonecrshr.....I think the main problem with the General Chat area, and some others in the female section, is that they just don't see a whole lot of traffic - waiting for a response can take forever.

[Bonecrshr]

Oh hai Bonecrshr.....I think the main problem with the General Chat area, and some others in the female section, is that they just don't see a whole lot of traffic - waiting for a response can take forever.
ohaiheather. Yeah, I can understand that. Guess it boils down to one of those "be careful what you wish for" situations.

[bttrthnb4]

Personally, I like having a place where I can be as immature as I wanna be and still get to hang with the girls. It kinda feels like to me, even if we have the guys here too, that the misc is the area where it's gonna be a given to see these things. And a big majority of the guys here are cool as hell...they aren't asses, they know they have boundaries, and for the most part, they respect that. I can be a grown up, mature, rational adult...sometimes I wanna talk about pee and poop!!

[HeatherAC]

...sometimes I wanna talk about pee and poop!!

Plop, plop, whizz, whizz.....oh what a relief it is!

[bttrthnb4]

Plop, plop, whizz, whizz.....oh what a relief it is!

ROFLMAO!!!

I guess I really am just a hick at heart :D

[Beklet]

...sometimes I wanna talk about pee and poop!!

Don't start me off......I can do toilet talk all day....... ;)

[Bonecrshr]

Plop, plop, whizz, whizz.....oh what a relief it is!


ROFLMAO!!!

I guess I really am just a hick at heart :D


Don't start me off......I can do toilet talk all day....... ;)
:eek:...Ladies...Ladies! Shhh. You're in teh Female Misc!

[HeatherAC]

:eek:...Ladies...Ladies! Shhh. You're in teh Female Misc!

What? You don't think we crap and pee just like boys?

We just talk about it a little differently (and sit when we go)........ without 17 threads a day.

[Bonecrshr]

:eek:...Ladies...Ladies! Shhh. You're in teh Female Misc!
(yes sarcasm)

[HeatherAC]

(yes sarcasm)

I know, I was just messin' with ya.

[bttrthnb4]

I just farted on my dog.

[bttrthnb4]

:eek:...Ladies...Ladies! Shhh. You're in teh Female Misc!

OH HAI BONECRSHR!! :D

[Jamie M]

I just farted on my dog.

ROFLMAO

[Lifting_Taurus]

I just farted on my dog.

That made me shoot water out my nose... I don't know why...

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[Sable_Strenua]

I just farted on my dog.

http://scienceblogs.com/evolgen/upload/2006/04/terrence_philip.jpg

[bttrthnb4]

http://scienceblogs.com/evolgen/upload/2006/04/terrence_philip.jpg

AHAHAHAH!! I LOVE SP!

[bellonsbodywork]

Personally, I work my ass off and hate having to promote myself to such a degree to make a name for myself. Yeah, I do want people to see women as potentially muscular and strong but at what cost? I did some webcam stuff for a website thinking it was what I had to do. All I did was feel stupid and foolsih...and all I did was flex for guys. I wish women could be seen more as athletes and not recepticles for men's cum!!!!!!!!!

[bttrthnb4]

Personally, I work my ass off and hate having to promote myself to such a degree to make a name for myself. Yeah, I do want people to see women as potentially muscular and strong but at what cost? I did some webcam stuff for a website thinking it was what I had to do. All I did was feel stupid and foolsih...and all I did was flex for guys. I wish women could be seen more as athletes and not recepticles for men's cum!!!!!!!!!

On a lighter note, YOU LOOK AWESOME! GO SISTER, GO!

[Bonecrshr]

Personally, I work my ass off and hate having to promote myself to such a degree to make a name for myself. Yeah, I do want people to see women as potentially muscular and strong but at what cost? I did some webcam stuff for a website thinking it was what I had to do. All I did was feel stupid and foolsih...and all I did was flex for guys. I wish women could be seen more as athletes and not recepticles for men's cum!!!!!!!!!
:confused:...Can't you be seen as both?

...and I second what Amy said. You do look good.

[limniade]

:confused:...Can't you be seen as both?

Can't we be seen as people?

[Bonecrshr]

Can't we be seen as people?
Yes, limniade...you can, dear. Relax. It was joke. My serious perspective has been covered already in my first two posts. Sorry...I'll get serious again.

:rolleyes:

[sixzebra]

They'll probably settle down when the novelty wears off.

.....

My thoughts exactly.

[Iron Magyar]

It's not always about men. We could talk about MMA, or sportsbikes.

[empresscat]

Misc is the catch all for the immature, offensive, pointless, and embarrassing.

The well-moderated non-offensive, politically correct conversations can occur in General Chat.

If you see a thread you don't like, you have 4 choices:
1- ignore it
2- get offended and preach at the poster
3- ridicule the poster
4- hijack the thread and talk about whatever you want

[HeatherAC]

Misc is the catch all for the immature, offensive, pointless, and embarrassing.

The well-moderated non-offensive, politically correct conversations can occur in General Chat.

If you see a thread you don't like, you have 4 choices:
1- ignore it
2- get offended and preach at the poster
3- ridicule the poster
4- hijack the thread and talk about whatever you want

Damn "you have given out too much reputation in the last 24 hours"

[stella summers]

I get pretty annoyed at threads objectifying women and any other stupid **** most guys would post in the man misc....I just roll my eyes, ignore it, and move on to other threads. I honestly doubt those will ever stop. And even then, let others have fun with them.

[Below 30]

Okay, so far, the men who have posted in the FM have posted things like:

"Do you think I'm hot?"
"Do you think this girl is hot?"
"Would you take a load to the face?"
"Don't wear too much makeup because guys don't like it!"
"Vote for me as the official FM homo!"
"I have girl problems."

Seriously, isn't there more than enough of that crap in the Misc? Why is it that all the posts by men are about, well, men? And man-oriented topics? I know the forum is new and that it's fairly low-traffic right now, and I enjoy the regular Misc AND joking around as much as anyone, but I'd really like to see less of this. I don't think we need TWO forums filled with bikini babes, 858576 questions about women's sexual preferences, how women can best appeal to men, and otherwise focusing on MEN. Why can't this forum be more focused on the WOMEN who post here? This is the Female Misc, after all.

I'm not saying get rid of the guys. I'm saying, guys, branch out to topics that don't center around the fulfillment of the penis.

Now I'm only one person, so obviously I could be totally in the minority here, hence the poll. But I'd hate to see this forum become as female-unfriendly as the regular Misc. because a bunch of guys can't interact with women unless they're objectifying them. But even the regular Misc. has some good, serious topics and I'd like to see more of that.

Isn't a Homosexual a female mind in the body of a man? So what's wrong with that thread in FemaleMISC?
-30-

[limniade]

Isn't a Homosexual a female mind in the body of a man? So what's wrong with that thread in FemaleMISC?
-30-

That's a transsexual.

[Below 30]

So a Homosexual male, is a man with male brainwave patterns? Is that what you're saying? -30-

[limniade]

Some a Homosexual male, is a man with male brainwave patterns? Is that what you're saying? -30-

Can't you just Google this stuff when you have questions?

[Below 30]

Can't you just Google this stuff when you have questions?

Did you start this thread about having a problem with "Vote for me as the official FM homo!" threads in FemaleMISC, or was it me? Nice way to avoid the tough questions though -30-

[Hugh Jazz]

This thread calls for serious cat.


http://img118.imageshack.us/img118/9075/270911970db35fdd4calu3.jpg

[limniade]

Did you start this thread about having a problem with "Vote for me as the official FM homo!" threads in FemaleMISC, or was it me? Nice way to avoid the tough questions though -30-

If you really want to know about the biological and psychological definitions of homosexuals vs. transsexuals, I imagine you could put it in its own thread.

[Below 30]

I already know about the psychology of it, you're the one with a problem about a homosexual who started a thread to become an official in FemaleMISC -30-

[Silvio Dante]

:confused:...Can't you be seen as both?

...and I second what Amy said. You do look good.

LMFAO! Nice


Can't we be seen as people?

yes!

you just don't see it.

[empresscat]

Some a Homosexual male, is a man with male brainwave patterns? Is that what you're saying? -30-


Yes, in fact, many homosexuals are hypermasculine and have higher than average levels of testosterone. Even the femmey guys, when it comes down to it, still have a masculine thought process. There is far more butch-butch gay porn than there is portraying men who are at all feminine.

[HeatherAC]

Yes, in fact, many homosexuals are hypermasculine and have higher than average levels of testosterone. Even the femmey guys, when it comes down to it, still have a masculine thought process. There is far more butch-butch gay porn than there is portraying men who are at all feminine.

I find myself wondering how you know that? and lol'ing at this thread.....:)

[Below 30]

The way I see it, if one man likes another man, one of them has femine brainwave patterns. Just like how a straight woman likes a man, a gay man with a femine thought process likes men. Thus the reason why a gay member wants to be an official in the FemaleMISC.

There can be alot of scientific studies done and experts saying this and that. But reality says that a woman who like another woman has a male thought process and a so on. The reason for homosexuality is to control the population (less hetero sex means less babies). So nature put femine thoughts into certain male babies, so that they would never have sex with actual females.

This is why gay men tend to have many female friends, because they think indentical to females and know exactly how to interact with them on a non-sexual level. I'm surprised that a female started this thread and has a problem with this -30

[bttrthnb4]

I think the poll says it all. I like Twilo, and obviously from the responses in that specific thread, I'm not the only one who appreciates his presence. Yes, we do work our ass off to look good. Yes, we are also individual people as well. BUT, you CANNOT look as good as you work to be without getting the attention of the men. I know that's not solely what this thread was made about, but this is the part that bugs me the most. IF YOU ARE GOING TO TAKE PICTURES OF YOURSELF IN LINGERIE, OR BE MOSTLY UNCLOTHED IN YOUR PICTURES, THEN DO NOT COMPLAIN WHEN THE SEX-DRIVEN MEN NOTICE IT! If you cannot handle the attention, then ultimately do not put yourself out there. That's like leaving the meat on the counter and then bitching cause the dog ate it! I'm getting sick of all these double standards, and ladies, we are not helping our situation!

And I thought a transsexual was someone who was one gender and was changed into another?

Okay. I'm sorry if I offended anyone, I really just needed to rant. Personally, after being the way I was for so long, I like the attention. But then again, I am the attention whore. :)

[empresscat]

Anthropology courses, and many gay friends, some of them intellectuals.

[Sable_Strenua]

i like twilomike :o


but i don't think the OP posted this thread regarding him, moreso from the overwhelming amount of male miscer threads. I agree with what some posters here said: the novelty will wear off eventually

[bttrthnb4]

i like twilomike :o


but i don't think the OP posted this thread regarding him, moreso from the overwhelming amount of male miscer threads. I agree with what some posters here said: the novelty will wear off eventually

I know, I'm kinda thinking the same thing. But that's just what tweaked that nerve today. I'm tired, its been a long day. And if I made limniade mad, I am sorry.

[Below 30]

Yes this thread is not just about Twilomike, but it bothered me that his thread was included in the list of wastful threads in FemaleMISC.


And I thought a transsexual was someone who was one gender and was changed into another?

Your right, the OP just tried to use this as an excuse so as not to acknowledge Twilomike as a legitimate candidate for his cause in FemaleMISC. As a female, the OP should have been way more considerate towards that thread (Am I stereotyping females negatively?), especially since over 90% of the members support him
-30-

[nockowt1]

I think the poll says it all. I like Twilo, and obviously from the responses in that specific thread, I'm not the only one who appreciates his presence. Yes, we do work our ass off to look good. Yes, we are also individual people as well. BUT, you CANNOT look as good as you work to be without getting the attention of the men. I know that's not solely what this thread was made about, but this is the part that bugs me the most. IF YOU ARE GOING TO TAKE PICTURES OF YOURSELF IN LINGERIE, OR BE MOSTLY UNCLOTHED IN YOUR PICTURES, THEN DO NOT COMPLAIN WHEN THE SEX-DRIVEN MEN NOTICE IT! If you cannot handle the attention, then ultimately do not put yourself out there. That's like leaving the meat on the counter and then bitching cause the dog ate it! I'm getting sick of all these double standards, and ladies, we are not helping our situation!

And I thought a transsexual was someone who was one gender and was changed into another?

Okay. I'm sorry if I offended anyone, I really just needed to rant. Personally, after being the way I was for so long, I like the attention. But then again, I am the attention whore. :)

Best post ever.

[kalagan]

i voted "Personally, I don't care. It's all good in the Female Misc."...just sayin'.

[Mighty Matt]

If we had nothin to complain about, then life wouldn't be intersting. It would be boring and dull. People are people and life is life. Enjoy it, live it, breathe it. No one has anything to complain about when they are dead.