Women Opinion

[LordGladiator]

Hey =)

This might sound a little off-topic but I guess this was the right forum to make this question ;D

I want some women opinions on the following:

Which kind of men body do you preffer (find more attractive):

a lean guy, with defined muscles (medium-low muscles, not really big) and ripped ABs (might look like too lean)
or
a "normal" guy with somewhat big pecs/shoulders/arms without good looking abs/belly (not ripped)
???

Im asking this cause I cant make up my mind on whatever I should cut (goal: abs) or bulk a little till my summer beach vacations (1 month away)
Im in a situation that I can choose any of these options, but Im afraid of becoming too skinny to get good looking abs or becoming less ripped in order to grow a bit

I dont have enought time to do both (bulk then cut) so this is a important decision for me hehe.. and what really matters to me is what will the girls/women like to see.. heheh =D

Thanks!

[playmaker]

I like ripped bodies like brad pitt's at fight club but massive ones like Vin Diesels it's fine :D

[LordGladiator]

Heh thanks..

I guess Ill keep cutting in order to get ripped abs/defined muscles..

But wasnt Brad Pitt too skinny @ fight club?
Check out this pic
http://www.preview-online.com/sept_oct/feature_articles/fightclub/images/p6_7.jpg

[hotgymchick]

Even though you shouldn't work out for the opposite sex :p

Personally, I like big muscles. As much as I like abs on a guy, I'd rather have a big guy with hard abs but not exactly ripped. There is this guy at my gym (who undeniably flirts with me ;) ) who has the perfect body in my opinion: broad shoulders, huge chest, hard abs, built legs, perfect calves. I'm in love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

[BuffedWildCat]

Originally posted by playmaker
I like ripped bodies like brad pitt's at fight club but massive ones like Vin Diesels it's fine :D

Can't resist...

But you think Vin Diesel is MASSIVE?!! Bwahahahahahaha!

Altho I also think he is good looking, I certainly wouldn't call him massive. Heck my husband is bigger/more muscular than Vin Diesel.

Now if we ARE talking about massive, then the WWE wrestler Triple H comes to mind (drool), as well as pro-bodybuilders such as my favorite, Gunther Schlierkamp. :D

Anyway, back to the question at hand, I tend to like the big guys, ones who are much taller than me and with BIG muscles as opposed to the Brad Pitt types. I actually prefer a bigger guy over one who is smaller and ripped. And eh, small is a relative term. When it comes down to it I'd just have to see the guy(s) in question to make a decision as to whether I think he's attractive or not. There is a lot more to attractiveness than just the size of muscles and how lean the guy is. Proportion and symmetry comes to mind as well.

But that aside, LordGladiator, just be the best YOU can be and be confident and proud, everything will fall into place from there. ;)

[LordGladiator]

hotgymchick
Thanks! I guess Ive made up my mind.. Im going to cut till I get the abs I always wanted.. heheh
And.. what better motivation to work out than the opposite sex?? :D

BuffedWildCat
Thanks for your opinion! Id surely like to be big and ripped but.. well not enought time for both heheh Ill just be, like you said, the best I can :D

Thx!

[alpha-LG]

Originally posted by hotgymchick
Even though you shouldn't work out for the opposite sex :p

Personally, I like big muscles. As much as I like abs on a guy, I'd rather have a big guy with hard abs but not exactly ripped. There is this guy at my gym (who undeniably flirts with me ;) ) who has the perfect body in my opinion: broad shoulders, huge chest, hard abs, built legs, perfect calves. I'm in love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

Bump.
I too prefer a guy with a big chest broad shoulders, etc.. but not super low bf.

[Aurora]

I dont even care anymore. A guys image is not what satisfies me emotionally, spiritually, or intellectually. Physical attraction is really only based on the first three qualities anyway. Like how bitchy people who were once beautiful become ugly, or how fat people can suddenly become more attractive then the self centered buff guy.

[playmaker]

Yep i think vin diesel is massive lol

U can bulk up later ;)

[gunnergirlUSA]

I like men who are muscular with big arms and broad shoulders,but not nessesarily ripped,sometimes men who are ripped think too highly of themselves and it get annoying