so when you invite a girl over to your place..

[Will_B]

so lets just say I been talking to this girl for a couple weeks, I have zero intention on taking her out for a proper date, I have zero interest in dating, just want to sex her and ditch, or keep her in the loop. (yes, the women of RH are probably going to hate me, but I'm sick of being hurt, I guess you can say im going through that heartless period after getting owned).. what do you usually do:

keep it simple, eat/wine - - movie, slowly escalate physically and go from there? I have never had a girl over, other than if I were dating them
-she should understand that she's been invited over for one purpose only right?

[Ari0n]

Try to get her to bring you over to her place. This way, you can leave when you want (preferably while she's still sleeping). If you bring her over, kicking her out might be awkward. Except if you're so alpha youdungiveash*t and just kick her out, animal style.

[Will_B]

Try to get her to bring you over to her place. This way, you can leave when you want (preferably while she's still sleeping). If you bring her over, kicking her out might be awkward. Except if you're so alpha youdungiveash*t and just kick her out, animal style.

I truly don't care.. met her at a club, been texting flirting etc... I'll just tell her I have to go out of town or w.e but I think you're right I need to seduce her to inviting me over..

that being said what do you usually do when inviting a female over, other than the obvious ;)

[CEGH]

I normally show the girl round the house, get a drink (wine if you think your chances aren't good) then proceed to the bedroom and stick a film on and watch in bed. That's when I make my move. If she pulls away when you advance, listen to her response, it normally lets you know what you need to do to actually have sex. I.E. I don't know you well enough - make a connection, talk a bit more to find things in common.

When a girl goes to your house, she's not stupid, she knows there's a chance of sex.

If she says you're not going to have sex = you're gonna have sex.

[ohword]

Every single girl i brought over i've slept with. Its little smooth **** you do, arm around her, spoon, tap her and when she turns around hook up, open windows so youre forced to go under the covers... I can go on and on

[Corsaire]

Just invite her to your place for a couple of drinks. I like gin and tonic or vodka and juice because you can make them stronger without her complaining about the taste. Have some munchies like mixed nuts or tortilla chips. I don't like watching movies with a girl, I'd rather put on some good music and have a conversation with them on the couch.

Just flirt with her, touch her, playfight, keep pouring drinks, stand up with her and dance a little bit...then push her against the wall with your whole body and kiss her. 5 minutes later you should be in your bedroom taking her clothes off ;)

[steve38]

All this advice is great, but that is only gonna lead to her thinking there is a connection and possibly a future. This isn't about seducing a girl, it's about framing the relationship so there is no possiblity of anyone getting hurt, which frankly sounds damn good to anyone who has actually been hurt. That's the key here and you need a good back story to make that possible. Maybe you already have one. THink about it.

[Trem24]

Get some drinks, beer, liquor, or whatever. I don't know if I'd do the movie thing, because it might take awhile for things to escalate. Get her to play a game on xbox, wii, darts or something that. Make a bet, say hey if you don't do this or this happens, you have to give me a kiss or show me your tits. If you're just wanting to hit it, keeps things fun and loose.

[sococo1]

if you've never taken her on a date before and now invite her over, she probably knows your intentions.

get her drunk + smash.

[Will_B]

Solid advice bros!