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Jesseg
06-19-2003, 09:19 AM
Hey theres a thread over in the teen body building section asking do chicks like guys with muscles or do they think its gross
thanx for any info

cdmuscle
06-19-2003, 11:05 AM
Wouldn't be in this biz if I didn't. Oh yea!

Nothing like a well developed physique... Hard striated muscle, especially in the back and legs.

Whew, Is it getting hot in here? (HAHA)

Lidcivic
06-19-2003, 03:27 PM
I personaly don't find ripped guys attractive :o

sweetbecky
06-19-2003, 04:21 PM
The bigger the better. But abs aren't necessary for me... decent bf% but not shredded.

Laurie
06-20-2003, 01:09 AM
Well, that would depend......To get that way takes dedication, work and it is an "art". But slightly less "ripped" can be more aesthetically pleasing.

Maybe because I grewup watching Steve Reeves.

I rather preferred Schwarzenegger as he looked in the first "Conan the Barbarian" rather than so ripped in "Conan the Destroyer". He looked more like a very strong man in the first film as Howard envisioned Conan. Like Frazetta painted the charactor for the covers rather than the later artists' Comicbook version in "Destroyer".

Since he has gotten older, his present physique looks good to me.

Fanatikk
06-20-2003, 09:58 PM
Originally posted by Jesseg
Hey theres a thread over in the teen body building section asking do chicks like guys with muscles or do they think its gross
thanx for any info

I love these questions. "Do chicks like"...as if chicks are all connected to one mind and like the exact same thing. Ladies are basically like guys..each having their own likes and dislikes. Well, except for one guy..which it seems I've never found a woman to think he's unattractive..and that's Sean Connery. My mother and her friends, of course, think he's attractive..but I was surprised at how many ladies my age think he is good looking. Guess it pays to be the original James Bond.

Shannon
06-21-2003, 08:09 AM
I can't speak for all women...but I find muscular men very attractive (read my second signature quote below...LOL)! I also find their dicipline...dedication...and determination...very attractive as well. :)

MsFit
06-21-2003, 08:13 AM
I find personality and character most attractive. The size of the heart is always more attractive than the size of the biceps.

d-LiftStyles-b
06-21-2003, 03:05 PM
Originally posted by MsFit
I find personality and character most attractive. The size of the heart is always more attractive than the size of the biceps.

True enough. But just for eye candy I cant say there is a definate preferance. The idea of a big strong cuddly guy is just as attractive as the young shredded "super fit" guy. Both need muscles but the thing is if your "softer" you need more muscle to make up for it, where as if your a stick you portray the illusion of being muscular with the abs and striations. Both are nice to look at. I dont like the skinny fat people though, or the just skinny. You know who Im talking about. Saggy fat with no muscle. ew. However as MsFit pointed out, there is more then 1 way to show good breeding. All the muscle in the world wont make an ******* a gentleman.

SHOT
06-22-2003, 10:56 AM
Originally posted by Shannon
I can't speak for all women...but I find muscular men very attractive (read my second signature quote below...LOL)! I also find their dicipline...dedication...and determination...very attractive as well. :)


hehe thats true...Shannon def likes her man swole lol ;) isnt that right cutie?:)

Shannon
06-22-2003, 07:07 PM
Originally posted by SHOT
hehe thats true...Shannon def likes her man swole lol ;) isnt that right cutie?:)

You got that right babe! LOL! ;)

I'm on a quest...to find a SHOT of my very own! :D

Zeus2B
06-22-2003, 07:16 PM
i know many girls who just love snow capped bi peaks.


i took some girls i know dont like big guys to a bodybuilding comp. the 1st thing i heard when the big boys came out was "YUCK!" as there jaws droped and drool hit the floor. they didnt turn away for a second and afterwords the talked about who was the best looking. who had the biggest thing etc etc etc

i can tell you at least 30 stories of girls who dont like big guys then when they get the chance the jump on it and im not talking about the leap if u know what i mean :)

SHOT
06-22-2003, 10:36 PM
I understand that....alot of the times girls will make comments about my veins...mostly all of them think its sick...which is fine with me...i dont bodybuild for any body other then myself...but even at 245 5'8 i havnt had any girls say i was "to big" just that the veins are alittle insane lol

SHOT
06-22-2003, 10:38 PM
Originally posted by Shannon
You got that right babe! LOL! ;)

I'm on a quest...to find a SHOT of my very own! :D

You can start looking in Pittsburgh :)

pjorstad
06-23-2003, 12:16 AM
Originally posted by SHOT
I understand that....alot of the times girls will make comments about my veins...mostly all of them think its sick...which is fine with me...i dont bodybuild for any body other then myself...but even at 245 5'8 i havnt had any girls say i was "to big" just that the veins are alittle insane lol



40 lbs over your genetic limit??? Hahah thats probably because the girls that would say something are too busy running away right??? ;)


BTW Whats your waist, arm(flexed) and quad and calf measurements?? Thanks man

Shannon
06-23-2003, 06:44 AM
Originally posted by SHOT
You can start looking in Pittsburgh :)

:( SHOT you're such a BIG TEASE! ;)

Visible veins don't bother me personally...I actually think they're attractive...showing how "cut" the individual is.

I guess you have to have an appreciation for bodybuilding...and all the hard work that goes along with it...to have an equal appreciation for things like visible veins...

adrenalin18stud
06-23-2003, 11:52 AM
Originally posted by MsFit
I find personality and character most attractive. The size of the heart is always more attractive than the size of the biceps.

i couldn't agree with you more, being a kind hearted person is so much more important, i'd like a woman to appreciate me for that.

Shannon
06-23-2003, 12:49 PM
Originally posted by MsFit
I find personality and character most attractive. The size of the heart is always more attractive than the size of the biceps.

Hmmm interesting point...now what if you could have BOTH...

SHOT
06-23-2003, 02:06 PM
Originally posted by pjorstad
40 lbs over your genetic limit??? Hahah thats probably because the girls that would say something are too busy running away right??? ;)


BTW Whats your waist, arm(flexed) and quad and calf measurements?? Thanks man

arms...hell i dont know...over 20 in tho...thighs are about 31 and calfs around 18 i would guess...

my waist right now is just under 32 inch

pjorstad
06-23-2003, 05:59 PM
Originally posted by SHOT
arms...hell i dont know...over 20 in tho...thighs are about 31 and calfs around 18 i would guess...

my waist right now is just under 32 inch

32 inches??? WOw, I sure wasn't blessed there with such a small waist!
Do you have interest in competing a lot in the future? Seems like you could go easily national and win with those measurements(but i don't know a whole lot about how big the guys are in national but you got some freaky measurements).


You are definitely 100 percent mesomorph because true mesomorphs have naturally small waists!


My calves are the only thing that is even remotely comparable to you i got 16 inch calves and I weigh 80 lbs less.


THat reminds me ladies, what do you think of the lower body??? If you see a guy with strong calves and glutes but only slightly above average upper body, how does that compare to someone with weaker ones but with a huge upper body??

darealdeal
06-23-2003, 08:58 PM
look at it this way does a girl want a piece of beef jerky NO! she wants a streak!!!!!

GARGANTUAN
06-26-2003, 12:04 PM
Originally posted by Shannon
Visible veins don't bother me personally...I actually think they're attractive...showing how "cut" the individual is.

I guess you have to have an appreciation for bodybuilding...and all the hard work that goes along with it...to have an equal appreciation for things like visible veins...

Good to know Shannon. Well fellas, that makes ONE female who doesn't mind the veins. ;)

GARGANTUAN
06-26-2003, 12:08 PM
Originally posted by Lidcivic
I personaly don't find ripped guys attractive :o

Would you mind telling us why? :confused:

erowana
06-29-2003, 10:21 AM
Originally posted by pjorstad
40 lbs over your genetic limit??? Hahah thats probably because the girls that would say something are too busy running away right??? ;)


BTW Whats your waist, arm(flexed) and quad and calf measurements?? Thanks man


What do you mean genetic limt? How do I calculate my genetic limit. Im 5' 9" so is my genetic limit about 210 lbs?

Shannon
06-30-2003, 07:28 PM
Originally posted by GARGANTUAN
Good to know Shannon. Well fellas, that makes ONE female who doesn't mind the veins. ;)

LOL! No problem GARGANTUAN! ;)

Not to worry though...I'm sure there are other women out there that feel the same way I do.

Fanatikk
06-30-2003, 07:53 PM
what about skinny dudes with a decent V taper?

Chameleon
07-01-2003, 10:01 AM
I looooooooove a man with muscle... especially arms & chest... but if he's not proportionate (upper body & lower body) it's kind of a turn off... there's a guy at the gym I go to that has a great upper body but it doesn't look like he EVER trains his legs and it looks really stupid... so when looking for eye-candy I look at the whole package ;-)~ hehe

Cataclysm
07-12-2003, 03:33 PM
well im 6'5 266lbs and i swear alot of women look at me as if i was from another planet (luckly not all of them :) ), which isnt really a good thing if you are trying to relate with someone. I think alot of women like the nice big ripped bodies in the mags but can they really handle one in real life?? :D It takes a special woman to do that and usualy they are in great shape themselves.

Cataclysm
07-12-2003, 03:34 PM
or very drunk!

Sianne
07-13-2003, 02:06 PM
I like the muscles. My first love when I was 13 was a pure bad boy with biceps like a baseball!!! And have always loved Arnold S.(I won't embarass myself trying to spell his name, but ya know who I mean lol), big strong men rule!

GFresh
07-25-2003, 01:23 PM
Originally posted by MsFit
I find personality and character most attractive. The size of the heart is always more attractive than the size of the biceps.

now if only all girls had sense like you.

PolishGirl
07-29-2003, 01:13 AM
BIg buff, strong, Arnold type, thick, broad, yummy droolific...
need i say more?
AND a thick waist!
Personally, i dont care so much for abs either, its all about the hip flexers!
:P"

usuknutter
07-29-2003, 03:26 PM
those girls are crazy if they don't find a strong fit guy with popping veins any less then adorable and attractive, there is nothing more pleasing to the eye then a fit guy with veins showing down his arms and shoulders and neck, whoa it's making me hot just thinking about it...keep it up guys.....

reignoffire
08-02-2003, 10:39 PM
As a guy who appriciates the sport but does not participate, I have to ask.....

do you care about personality more, or the body? I'm curious...

psychojoe
08-08-2003, 04:00 PM
Originally posted by reignoffire
As a guy who appriciates the sport but does not participate, I have to ask.....

do you care about personality more, or the body? I'm curious...

why the **** dont you participate then?

usuknutter
08-10-2003, 11:08 AM
Usually a guy that works out and looks good and eats healthy to obtain the body I like, would normally have the personality I like, so it would have to go hand in hand, it’s the dedication that they put into there body’s usually is the same throughout there life, that’s my type of man.

GreenEyz2
08-12-2003, 10:40 AM
OH YEAH!!

Most definitely .. they've gotta have it. Upper body is what does it most for me .. the bigger the better .. makes me feel so little.

Well I am .. 5'1" 119 lbs .. yep .. small.

GE2

BigSwole190
08-12-2003, 02:43 PM
Well my gf likes about 170lb lean cut to shreads body. I passed that already as im 191 and 6% bf, so im cut to shreads at 191, so she thinks im to big, but who cares, im gonna keep trying to get bigger, but i dont think im gonna as im have been stuck at 191 for ages, like my body dont want to get any bigger on this 5'10 frame.....and im to scared of PH's and Steriods, to help me pass it cause my dad is bald, and i had gyno when i was a teeneger from puberty, but it went away when i was about 19.....so i got to many negatives to give them a try to help me put on more lean muscle.....

Fanatikk
08-12-2003, 07:21 PM
Bigswole...eat like a madman..you'll grow.

BTW My girlfriend always says "David, you seriously need to start working out, you're so flabby". Of course, I lift all the time and am not flabby at all. I love her dry humor.

BigSwole190
08-12-2003, 08:36 PM
hehe bro, Thats exactly what im talking about, i did eat like a mad man, and bulked to 200 after the cut i was only 191 only 1 pound of it was lean muscle.....My body does not want to put on anymore muscle mass, i may have reached my genetic limit, as when i started i was 5'10 and 125 a very natural skinny person and now im 191 at 6% bf, not only am i 66lbs heavier ....only 6% of my weight is fat........So there is a big difference in my apperance ;)

randomUser
08-13-2003, 01:34 AM
bigswole, do u have a pic

BigSwole190
08-13-2003, 07:12 AM
Ill will have my pics up in 2 weeks my next check, a few weeks back my computer crashed due to a virus and i had to reformat, well i had a disc that had everyone on my computer that was on it when i bought it a recovery disc so after i reformatted i put that in and it put everything back on except my scanner software which was on a different disc and i cant find it so i guess ill have to try to buy another scanner so i can scan my pics.

Fanatikk
08-13-2003, 03:27 PM
swole..nice job on the mass gains. 191 at 6% bodyfat on a 5 ft 10 frame is pretty damnn big. Are you sure you wanna get bigger? I'm around 205 at 6'3". I ended my cutting cycle at 195 a few weeks a go. I'm doing the all out bulk now. I bulked at 3500-4000 cals per day before...not anymore. No less then 5000 a day and I don't care what I eat, junk food or anything, as long as I get my 250 grams of protein in. If I start gaining too much fat, I'll eat cleaner...but so far I'm still looking pretty lean(six pack still showing). I can't stand my high metabolism... it won't let me grow...but I'm determined to kick it's asss this bulking cycle.

babydoc
08-18-2003, 08:04 PM
My bf is like 225 lbs ...he just finished a bulking phase so he is not too cut right now but he still looks good. Personally I think that I would look kind of funny if I dated a smaller guy cuz I'm a pretty big girl (5'3" at 135 cut but 140 right now while bulking). I was not always this big (I used to have an eating disorder and weighed 105 lbs about 10 yrs ago - have been training seriously for about 4 yrs now) and I plan on getting even bigger so I think that I would look funny with a tiny guy on my HUGE arm. J/K

Hibiscus09
08-19-2003, 04:28 AM
I find personality and character most attractive. The size of the heart is always more attractive than the size of the biceps.

This is so true. A guy who just looks okay but has good character and a big heart is much more attractive than a physically attractive man who is a jerk. :D

I prefer a medium man muscle wise. LOL I don't like real big & steroid bulky like pro bodybuilders. The taller a guy is the more they can carry off bulk. I hate when a short guy gets as wide as he is tall. Although, I always get told they're gay -- I think the guys on Men's Fitness look pretty darn hot.

Titania
08-19-2003, 07:14 PM
Hibiscus09,

I completely agree :D
My boyfriend fits this category well (OK, slightly biased opinion ;) ). He is medium build and height and quite strong and attractive but that is just the packaging. It's what's inside that really matters to me. If I'm going share my life with someone, they need to be more than just looks.

sabreman
08-19-2003, 07:16 PM
Why can't I find ladies like you all? LOL!

Hibiscus09
08-19-2003, 07:59 PM
I met my sweetie when I was 14. I'm 42 (well, in a few weeks) now & I still love him. He has a great heart AND he's hot! ;)