View Full Version : Can't be ****ed with anything anymore!
Hennels
07-26-2010, 04:42 AM
Hey guys,
my motivation has turned to ****. Everything is falling apart. I'm in year 12 high school ( final year) I can't control my emotions and hence motivation to live. I play hockey and football which I'm crap at, I'm shockingly inconsistent at the gym, havnt been in 5 weeks, my diet is horrible, I'm Doug crappy in classes and I'm a ****ing virgin.
I don't really know what to do, to be honest I can't even be bothered continuing. I don't seem to have fun.
Help me please
Rick1824
07-26-2010, 04:51 AM
Hey guys,
my motivation has turned to ****. Everything is falling apart. I'm in year 12 high school ( final year) I can't control my emotions and hence motivation to live. I play hockey and football which I'm crap at, I'm shockingly inconsistent at the gym, havnt been in 5 weeks, my diet is horrible, I'm Doug crappy in classes and I'm a ****ing virgin.
I don't really know what to do, to be honest I can't even be bothered continuing. I don't seem to have fun.
Help me please
Maybe it'd be a good idea to discuss this with someone who is a little more close to home...school counselor, a couch, a teacher, parent, brother...
tedsheckler
07-26-2010, 05:18 AM
Having a terrible diet can make you depressed. If you take any drugs (prescription or otherwise) they could be having an effect on you. Maybe you're just nervous that you're almost finished with high school.
Clean up your diet and start exercising and you'll turn your life around. Stick with one sport if you feel they're taking up too much of your time.
yeshli2nuts
07-26-2010, 02:29 PM
These are problems more than someone over the internet can help you with. Seriously, go talk to a psychiatrist, someone who is trained to deal with this kind of stuff.
chmbs1
07-26-2010, 08:10 PM
So what? You are young, dude. You have your whole life ahead of you.
Getting your nut off doesn't make you a bigger man than the next guy. If you think it does, you have been misinformed. Someday, some wonderful woman will appreciate you for it. If anyone teases you about it it is because they are ashamed of what they have done.
Sports aren't everything. I'm too clumsy to be good at sports. So what?
Weightlifting takes time. You have to be patient. I am 26 and only have a few years under my belt and I am a beast. I can't even imagine where I could have been if I had started seriously when I was your age. From 18-22 I was a drunk and a partier who worked out only a few times a year (just enough to get me through PRT- I was in the Navy).
START NOW. Follow the forums. Read M&F. Figure out a nutrition plan that works for you. Join the military.
Seriously, you will be fine.
benjiaka
07-26-2010, 10:21 PM
Start by being around the people which make you happy, your family, your close friends. Alright mate, we all have low moments, but you need to get a hold of yourself. LIFE IS TOO SHORT!
Man im 21 this year, and i think ****! I want my body to grow so bad, and im running out of time! no time to waste man, you want something you gotta work for it, wether thats a job to pay your layby off at your local store or build an amazing body! It takes time, nothing happens over night man.
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!