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thejuica

02-09-2009, 09:48 AM

So me and my gf have been having sex a LOT for the past month, but I can't see my endurance noticeably improving. When I mention it, she says she loves our sex and that I don't need to last any longer. But I have yet to get her off during it and I really, really want to do this.

When we first start everything is good, I feel like I'm going to last. Then some movement or thrust really just starts pushing me towards climax - and fast. I've been trying to do math in my head to prolong it, but it just won't work.

Condoms are out of the question.

Anyone know anything I can do? (No drugs)

stsmurf

02-09-2009, 09:50 AM

If you feel yourself starting to get close, seriously just pull out and stop. Then keep going again. Stop again as needed. You'll adjust and then you can just go for pretty well as long as you want.

Abominator

02-09-2009, 09:53 AM

If you feel yourself starting to get close, seriously just pull out and stop. Then keep going again. Stop again as needed. You'll adjust and then you can just go for pretty well as long as you want.

x2. If you feel you're about to blow, just pull out and tongue that **** until the feeling goes away.

Ask to change positions regularly, too. Oh yeah, and think of your mom naked.

soulsultan

02-09-2009, 10:13 AM

So me and my gf have been having sex a LOT for the past month, but I can't see my endurance noticeably improving. When I mention it, she says she loves our sex and that I don't need to last any longer. But I have yet to get her off during it and I really, really want to do this.

When we first start everything is good, I feel like I'm going to last. Then some movement or thrust really just starts pushing me towards climax - and fast. I've been trying to do math in my head to prolong it, but it just won't work.

Condoms are out of the question.

Anyone know anything I can do? (No drugs)

No condoms? I hope she's on the pill or some other form of contraceptive. Rub one out 15-30 min prior to sex, you'll last a bit longer

x2. If you feel you're about to blow, just pull out and tongue that **** until the feeling goes away.

Ask to change positions regularly, too. Oh yeah, and think of your mom naked.

This might work as well. If you really want to get her off you should engage in foreplay as long as possible before intercourse.

mattman

02-09-2009, 10:19 AM

what do you mean by "tongue" it?

adam247

02-09-2009, 10:30 AM

The problem here is your letting the physical side of sex control your orgasm, you have to get out of this , as the only thing you can to physically is just formal things that are not in the sexual moment/state.
Instead practice masturbating on your own or getting the girl to to it and watch armature porn or get her to tell a story or you think of one in your head , use the story as the focus of your pleasure, and only cum at the end of the story or when they cum in the porn. Once you have mastered this and it is the mind that is in control of the orgasm you will be able to cum on cue and last as long as you like!

AFDestruction

02-09-2009, 10:34 AM

Kegels...

soulsultan

02-09-2009, 10:35 AM

The problem here is your letting the physical side of sex control your orgasm, you have to get out of this , as the only thing you can to physically is just formal things that are not in the sexual moment/state.
Instead practice masturbating on your own or getting the girl to to it and watch armature porn or get her to tell a story or you think of one in your head , use the story as the focus of your pleasure, and only cum at the end of the story or when they cum in the porn. Once you have mastered this and it is the mind that is in control of the orgasm you will be able to cum on cue and last as long as you like!

Interesting technique.

Npeart

02-09-2009, 10:36 AM

If you feel yourself starting to get close, seriously just pull out and stop. Then keep going again. Stop again as needed. You'll adjust and then you can just go for pretty well as long as you want.

Absolutely! QFT!

AdamBigWang

02-09-2009, 10:38 AM

comdoms out the question, bull****! Buy a pack, you're get a lot less feeling wearing one so should last longer.

user4544

02-09-2009, 10:44 AM

The problem here is your letting the physical side of sex control your orgasm, you have to get out of this , as the only thing you can to physically is just formal things that are not in the sexual moment/state.
Instead practice masturbating on your own or getting the girl to to it and watch armature porn or get her to tell a story or you think of one in your head , use the story as the focus of your pleasure, and only cum at the end of the story or when they cum in the porn. Once you have mastered this and it is the mind that is in control of the orgasm you will be able to cum on cue and last as long as you like!

Lol that would take forever to get good at

Npeart

02-09-2009, 10:45 AM

Oh yeah, and think of your mom naked.

This is a prescription for erectile dysfunction. DO NOT do this. . .

adam247

02-09-2009, 10:55 AM

Lol that would take forever to get good at

It is 100% worth it......you sex life may be 50 years plus

Armando777

02-09-2009, 11:02 AM

Wow! Great advice. This comes from an experienced and happy man (no homo).

PVedda56

02-09-2009, 11:35 AM

True Story:

last night my gf and i were having sex, it was going really good ( i would put it in the top ten of our relationship) anyways 15mins later i felt like i was about to come and she was too so i wanted to at least last until she did so i gave her two hard pumps and then i felt her cum, i didn;t want to cum yet so i pulled out and just kinda sat there on my knees staring at my dick thinking please dont bust! 5 seconds later without touching it or anything i just fuking jizzed all over her stomach. she was about 2 feet away ive never had my jizz shoot like that before. it was kinda funny.

RIKTER

02-09-2009, 11:36 AM

Just have her blow you first.

Kaptn Krunch

02-09-2009, 11:45 AM

Edging + kegals + breathe + control thrusting pattern is all you need to do.

When you jerk off, don't just let yourself bust ASAP. once you get to the edge, stop masturbating, squeeze your kegal muscles and hold it in. Do this 2 or 3x each time you jerk off and it will help a ton.

Kegal EOD. Once you get good at it, you should kegal 20 - 30 min 3x/week (just like lifting weights, your PC muscles need time to recover).

Breathe. When you're about to cum, your toes curl up and you either stop breathing, or you take really, really short quick breaths. Breathe slowly, change up your thrusting pattern and slow down.

IMO, the perfect thrusting technique (I like to call it control thrusting) to keep yourself from cumming too fast is to tease her. Only put the tip in and then pull it back out and wait for a second, then reinsert only the tip. Keep repeating it as you concentrate on breathing. Every 4 or 5 tip thrusts, go in all the way quickly and out quickly. Change up the pattern again as your urge to cum diminishes (maybe you shallow thrust 2x and deep thrust 2x etc etc). It not only keeps you from busting (you can go FOREVER like this), but it teases her and many times makes her cum very, very fast because of the anticipation.

GoutDeMiel

02-09-2009, 11:47 AM

It's not a matter of lasting long - it's how you move, honestly.

My boyfriend makes me come in just a few minutes - all because he's got the motion down.