Every chick has their stalker/crush etc?

[tranceaddict]

i am just thinking, for every chick you see in public would you assume that there is already 1 guy after her or seriously interested in her?

[kcomico]

Nope :p!

[daviess]

no.

[Logicalypso]

Pretty much, yeah. Here's a rough guideline:

Hotness scale

1

2

3

4

5 - probably has a guy after her

6 - probably has a few guys after her

7 - probably has five or so guys after her

8 - probably has about ten guys after her

9 - probably has up to twenty guys after her

10 - probably has up to fifty guys after her

This is assuming that the girl is very social, and knows a lot of people.

[Logicalypso]

To the girls who said no:

How do you know how many guys want you? Most guys are far too timid to tell a woman that they want them, especially if she's in the upper eschelon of attractiveness.

[kcomico]

im a guy... but in my opinion if you go around thinking any girl that is cute has a b/f or a guy's after her you are giving her way too much credit :l~ and it does make it that much harder to speak with her...imo :D

[Logicalypso]

You're not giving her too much credit; if anything, you're not giving enough credit to males in general. After all, we're assuming that most of the guys who are "after" a girl will never actually do anything about it. So I suppose "after" isn't the best term--maybe "desire" is better.

[tranceaddict]

yeh but even in college lectures, i reckon every guy has already ear marked which girl he is gonna target

same with chicks 2

[tranceaddict]

Pretty much, yeah. Here's a rough guideline:

Hotness scale

1

2

3

4

5 - probably has a guy after her

6 - probably has a few guys after her

7 - probably has five or so guys after her

8 - probably has about ten guys after her

9 - probably has up to twenty guys after her

10 - probably has up to fifty guys after her

This is assuming that the girl is very social, and knows a lot of people.

this **** should be published, that is right man

[tranceaddict]

You're not giving her too much credit; if anything, you're not giving enough credit to males in general. After all, we're assuming that most of the guys who are "after" a girl will never actually do anything about it. So I suppose "after" isn't the best term--maybe "desire" is better.

i never see the chicks chasing in todays society its the dudes chasing unfortunately

[husszar]

i am just thinking, for every chick you see in public would you assume that there is already 1 guy after her or seriously interested in her?

if that's true, there is ALOT of chubby chasers in America.

[barbie k]

im normally always completey oblivious i normally have to have people point out if someone is showing any interest so i wouldnt know if someone was

[g_washington]

Its also worth remembering though that most guys are losers

[Amris]

No, because in the proposed scenario, for example the classroom... the vast majority of guys will have "earmarked" the top girls. Most guys go around longing for the 9s and 10s, and settling for the "lesser" attractive girls.

I don't know of many guys that go around desiring a 5 or a 6, they go around desiring a 10, but only believe they're good enough for a < insert lower # here >.

[JRRBadBoy4Life]

But how many guys have gf's or wives and are still interested, if not chasing after other women. Probably most. I'm married, but that doesn't mean I don't show interest or flirt with women. I'm not a cheater though.

[pineapple_guy]

No, because in the proposed scenario, for example the classroom... the vast majority of guys will have "earmarked" the top girls. Most guys go around longing for the 9s and 10s, and settling for the "lesser" attractive girls.

I don't know of many guys that go around desiring a 5 or a 6, they go around desiring a 10, but only believe they're good enough for a < insert lower # here >.

Some men have crushes on women that aren't 9's or 10's. Sometimes they find a quality in the woman that appeals to them more than just looks.

[Jonnyboy81]

Very attractive girls will always have men "after" them, although whether any of the men make a move is nothing to do with the girl. Any girl with average or better looks and a large, mixed sex social group will pretty much always have men "after" her (although this is probably true of men too).

[Amris]

Some men have crushes on women that aren't 9's or 10's. Sometimes they find a quality in the woman that appeals to them more than just looks.

Right. That wasn't what I meant at all. I meant that the majority are not LOOKING FOR women that aren't 9s and 10s. When they look around hoping for a mate, they don't notice the 5s and 6s, they look at the 9s and 10s.

Women do the same thing, don't misunderstand.

Everyone can "come around" and see the good and irresistable qualities in another person who's not physically perfect. But as they sit there "putting dibs" on who they want to talk to when they first enter a class, it's typically the most attractive, not the least attractive.

[Chino.]

im a guy...

wow i just lol'd so hard hahahah.

[TheCore]

I like the girls who are posting in this thread, hot stuff :

[Quatchkopf]

i am just thinking, for every chick you see in public would you assume that there is already 1 guy after her or seriously interested in her?

No, I got a female friend that likes females only looks almost like a guy is around 5'4 and weighs around 300. Does that sound like stalking material?

[TheCore]

But in reality most woman (even the hot ones) have a hard time going to a guy they like...

Most of them are shy as hell! I don't have a hard time going to a woman and just talk to her ect. Telling her I like her is a different story...

But when I get drunk I just don't give a sh*t (only on special occasions of course), like this newyear, I tld this girl I though she looked very nice and a very kind person. She has a bf (I heard later on), now out of the blue she added me to her msn yesterday :D

She's hoping to see me this thursday (how wrong), I will talk to her but I'm not going to do anything further though (that would be low)...

I wouldn't want something like that to happen to me too!

[951159357753]

definatly not the fuglies

[kidkurious]

Pretty much, yeah. Here's a rough guideline:

Hotness scale

1

2

3

4

5 - probably has a guy after her

6 - probably has a few guys after her

7 - probably has five or so guys after her

8 - probably has about ten guys after her

9 - probably has up to twenty guys after her

10 - probably has up to fifty guys after her

This is assuming that the girl is very social, and knows a lot of people.

I would have thought 8-10 would have less guys after them as most men would assume that 8-10's are out of their leagues.

[tranceaddict]

Right. That wasn't what I meant at all. I meant that the majority are not LOOKING FOR women that aren't 9s and 10s. When they look around hoping for a mate, they don't notice the 5s and 6s, they look at the 9s and 10s.

Women do the same thing, don't misunderstand.

Everyone can "come around" and see the good and irresistable qualities in another person who's not physically perfect. But as they sit there "putting dibs" on who they want to talk to when they first enter a class, it's typically the most attractive, not the least attractive.

thats right man,
soon as they meet the class for the first time, at least 1-3 people are watching you and you are watching another 1-3 others, picking out your targets

[Logicalypso]

Okay, after some discussion, I've decided to clarify my scale.

Hotness scale

1

2

3

4

5 - probably has a guy trying to screw her because she's decent and he figures his chances are good

6 - probably has a few guys trying to screw her because she's reasonably attractive, but not intimidatingly so--one of them might even like her

7 - probably has five or so guys who desire her; of these, there's probably one that likes her and is actively pursuing her, a couple who don't really like her but are trying to screw her, and a couple who either like her or just want to screw her but are too timid to do anything about it

8 - probably has about ten guys who desire her; of these, there's probably a couple that like her and are actively pursuing her, a couple who don't really like her but are trying to screw her, and five or six who either like her or just want to screw her but are too timid to do anything about it

9 - probably has about twenty guys who desire her; of these, there are probably several who like her and are actively pursuing her, several who don't really like her but are trying to screw her, and a dozen or so who either like her or just want to screw her but are too timid to do anything about it

10 - probably has about fifty guys who desire her; of these, there are probably several who are actively pursuing her, several who don't really like her but are trying to screw her, and up to 40 who either like her or just want to screw her but are too timid to do anything about it.

Notice that as the woman gets hotter, the number of guys who either like her or would just like to screw her but are too timid to do anything about it increases at a much faster rate than the number of guys who are actively pursuing her (for whatever reason). This is because there aren't many guys who actively pursue women, especially very attractive women. But there are a ton of losers who pine from afar.

[user23960508710783]

I purposely approach average to below-average women, not on the grounds that I paradoxically think ugliness is attractive, but because I assume that ugly women will be less likely to reject me.

My thinking is that I can always just drink more, and turn the lights really low.

And if that doesn't work, I am currently seeing my therapist 4 times a week, so I'll always have a chance to talk about it.

[baroni01]

I purposely approach average to below-average women, not on the grounds that I paradoxically think ugliness is attractive, but because I assume that ugly women will be less likely to reject me.

My thinking is that I can always just drink more, and turn the lights really low.

And if that doesn't work, I am currently seeing my therapist 4 times a week, so I'll always have a chance to talk about it.

lol great post man

[dacoma]

Im sure for every female there is at least 1 male that is into them even if they are uglier than ****, someone may like their personality and not care about looks. Think about all of the uglies out there, male and female.. they are out there for each other

[Jay Rawd]

It has to do with attainability. If a girl (any girl) is seen as attainable to a guy, he can develop strong feelings for her. That's why you don't see grown men having crushes on female celebrities, because they're not attainable. It's usually the girl next door, in class, gym, etc. Hotness scale is NOT affected by that, just each man's individual standards.

[pineapple_guy]

no.

Ahhh daviess

*Swoons* :p

[TheCore]

It has to do with attainability. If a girl (any girl) is seen as attainable to a guy, he can develop strong feelings for her. That's why you don't see grown men having crushes on female celebrities, because they're not attainable. It's usually the girl next door, in class, gym, etc. Hotness scale is NOT affected by that, just each man's individual standards.

Pretty much...

[Apoc]

im normally always completey oblivious i normally have to have people point out if someone is showing any interest so i wouldnt know if someone was
most girls are like that, I have to tell my female friends if someone likes them because they have no idea unless the guy is blatantly obvious lol.

[emark]

This is something that we will never know because all chicks think they are hot, and think guys are always starring at them, although most of them that think that look like my ass

[EmoHawk]

nice thread - id stare at the 6,7 theyre the hottest cos i have a chance - or at least i think i do

[tranceaddict]

nice thread - id stare at the 6,7 theyre the hottest cos i have a chance - or at least i think i do

howcome not the emo 1s and 2s?